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. TVkj, Hal, tii'my rocation." - Hal, tis.oo tin for a man to labor is bit rocation. 6aaJke peare. fir c ,,fr And jtt without labor there were bo ca :? , no mt.-iCarlTle. . v. TWELVE HONOLULU STAB-BULLETIN, FRIDAY, AUGUST 10, 1917. There are golf caps, and then just ordinary caps By BRIGGS I 1 1 1 in 1 1 n 1 1 in ii ii u i ;i iv i hi i ii ii k in Gee Wh! 1 JOC YJKS 60CH A 0 r - .1 HOW MEN AND WOMEN LOVE By DOROTHY DfX The World's Highest Paid Woman Writer. THE . reason that men and women are eternally fascinating to each other is because each sex is a perpetoal riddle that the other la trying to guess without ever finding the anawer. Men and women are only attract lTe to each other as long as they are dif ferent. Women hate and despite sissy men with effeminate characteristics. Men loathe mannish women who at feet masculine ways and clothes. The mare unlike men and women are to each other the more they are drawn together. This. Is why little Fluffy Ruffles, with nothing on her mind Jiesner than her golden locks,' almost always outmarries her big. stroncvaensioie sister, and, why refined and wealthy! and gentle little ladles so often pick out husky brutes for, husbands witn whom they have not at thing on earth la common. Tne reason that men and women love each other and hate each other, why they marry each other and quar rel and set divorced, and why they never nnaerstana eacn ower. u wTn.e ther are so different const!- tTitirman nA because they aOTroacniwjw nu everything from a different -point of view and sea everything irom sucn a different angle. .' Take the matter of love for instance. Th two iixm lore differently. Wo mon lovea concretely. She lores some nHfu man. Man loves woman as lie .loves an iaeu,wiuca JE, tk J? J5r: Si,SrfewnS . ui .r , " M.Vi .r;:'T mj - i,miif , rather than ws have ao - many catastrophles iovaMaTli tolora with an Ideal irho is always fair and young, ana r beauttfclly gowned and calm and who meetJ her husband witn a giaa smile when he returns home at night c.fnr sr later he comes across ecsie girl who serres as a fair under ' : eady for the laoy or bis tibmw v tarries her on mat piauowu, u, " iff 4 nA Mntaerrer of dreams. '! In the process of years and Tlclssl X tofles of matrimony the wife grows fat . and forty Calm cannot sJwys of re- taised in the face of teetmng J d over sweitennsj. w " husttnd Is boend to see his wile wia ; erlrsrs ca er hslr;nd criaps in ; ' her dlspotltica. '.'' - ; . Cut the c.-3 is etSl ta lore wiJi his vi ittzli who is young aaa rair ana vzu- tlfully gownci, and so he either goes out to tc-t cp cae who cccss up to v his tpedlicaticns or else $ecretjy re- gards r42iself . as a domestic Ticurn, ; cue of those who was handed a gold 1 , trick In the matrtaoni&l trafle. ; . , ij-vt is, unless he Is one ' of-the ' suser lde&sts one of the dreamers who never- wake up and wno' never really see their ; wives as they - are. v 'vrtY-wr. surrounded by the halo of rr-mm f their days of courtship, i: ThPKm mrm the men who always speak f thP'r wives as -Tittle girUw long after they are grizzle headed ind hare a thirty-four Inch belt measure. C Wcaen often complain that, their r husbands never notice how they look i and that they hive to call their John's attention to the fact that they have cn a new gown or tat,;or: even that V hv are lookinr rale and side and little tiSSrant V. yfce?eyv brent .Sfn"? , hcEb&nd, tor he l U not seeing hls Ma- , as t-e is. rJ" V. i? 'tv1 u uc ilv risen without easicknesa These ships f ; : Cn "the cthcTsind women are al-1 traveled on a cable laid under the v -c:rst?tr-tally clear- sighted in, their J gea, and were worked by an electric , ry;:w ct ncn. fto woman nas any 1 sicrLS Ja'rc ird to her husband. She sees xzi ox t;j rauits ana oeiecxs wwj y a cletrrtss 'tlit would appall him Itii he c.ca 'swrctt It : . ' . , j Ehe doer;t still- tee the? wavlaf i locks ca tls head 'tMt she" used to w r i r..:.' lizzie Tccrs, K. T.-i-l trlTerea jfromT a nrrti my rsi.. 1 tirr .erfry else Ui fz::-i.'-IIrs. U. J.L.Itit2, .ai;::ua Are.. YeTTt. lL Y. . : Diarl.; IX'l trciJ zzt t a2ra 7ti?y ts4 It est ten tzr L?Zx C -ILhrm's Cc?cr:J as it czrti ct trr-a a severe case cz female tree1 "rs. O. A. Ccz, EaUstowa Hoa-l, Dxari. EL ' . r'-KliyrtT.- la. "I wiJi'a!! womea wa st I.-rXi a f-i?e troebfes wouli Ve-stable Crri u I av&L ii a tsrricai eper-1 rta ty itv era." lira, a li. tizsaa. - tii cr:s cf fcrt'e trcrUe, bacracbe, .-JrTrrr-rsrs r:i tzl'rzz:' ra lydia E. :.: 1 4L1 -.a's Ve-tt-t.s CcaTrcai re- :: 'H-i: -s .Vft-t:3 Gcsrrsd'va. ; tvr; ! t -il-i titer rrcrytlirT else - t- i i ;J r tzrir? thror-hc .anga t l ,1 Iz. ... 1 3 vc:irT Lz It to -. tt; r ' - - -: .-7 - Z t c--u L!rs, 1 V J-LC. 3 1 liA, lx-i.;, lni :;:,i;-.Ca.-.;..; -r ,. .lore to ran her fingers through,. after he gets bald headed. She doesnt see hliu lithe and slim, after be acquires a figure with a bay window effect. She doesnt Iiear die light step of bis youth after his feet hare begun to drag with rheumatism. She sees him exactly as he is, stout and commonplace,' and growing old. but it doesnt make a particle of dif ference to her. Such as he is. he is hers, and she can loe him with Just as fierce a, passion of devotion as it he were .the most gallant and hand some and romantic hero that ever graced a six best seKer or drew down a million dollar salary in the movies. Women love a man for the man himself, for the heart, the soul, the in Itemgence In him, and not for some I fancy picture of . what the perfect man may be that exists in their Imsstfna 1 tions. That is. why a man may be fat, or bald, or crippled, or physically unattractive and yet be a favorite in feminine society and loved by women. if he Is intelligent, agrees la and sym- 1 patneuc. But a woman who was frankly bald headed or crippled would line a ball room wall until ahe becomes mummi fied if she waited for some mas to ask her to dance, or she would die of old age In a spinster's retreat waiting for some man to ask her to marry htm, no matter what gifts of soul and mird Such a woman wouldn't come up to a man's Ideal of a dream girl, and he'd be too much obsessed by his -vision to ever see the real one. The different attitude that men and women take towards love Is responsi ble for much domestic misery. A man trusts love. A woman never does. A Ytnsmc. won loT feels that it la an endurinr possession of his Just I much as his house or his business or his stocks and bonds. Some.accI- I aent may fOappen, 01 course, w aepzrre tJm otihe7 but the chances are they w lonj AFTER THE WAR, SEEN IR AMSTERDAM t Netherlands. Whated by the writer Include an American wlU the world be like after the war? a German scientist's imagaatiTe af- ter-war picture is the -feature of a recent number of the German review, MZunkunftH The : author; Professor Uvritz Lezser. is a member, of the faculty of engineering- of the Univer- gity.of Bonn. .- ' v - - ; .. The pcfftsorpicturss, In fanciful gtyie, a wcrld at peace, , fa frteadly international relationship making use 0f the . technical , discoveries. 1 -.which have been made during the war for the development of commercial enter- prise. The article In part U as tol- mows: . -: . Three months after the end of the war. the directors of the leading banks and corporations of Germany held a meeting-to the number of 8000 in the reich8tag,'wlth the home secre tary, tor chairman, and founded a com pany 'For the development and 1 use of Inventions discovered during . the war.;' The object of the company was to employ In peace the technical pro gress which ' had been accomplished under the. stress of war, and the cap ital subscribed "was ' forty ' times as great. as required.'-. ?.rV::-'- :V build: submarines; tor pleasure trips to search for treasure lost during shipping xompa- jne object of the company was to niea followed suit by building deep- submarlnes.ln wbJSf'could current from the land.i They journey- at incredible : speed, making the Journey from. New York to Hamburg in 48 hours. y'. " ' "It was found possible to build a submarine which sank to a depth of more than a mile and from this sprang; the International company for raising the ships sunk during the tt sr. The work was an Immense success and large sums of money were made from this salvage work. ' Theru was also huge profit in taV'rp r&rsagers In these ships for trips ( eiplorRticn ! and SlShtsfHflae riots tte toitrci of the sea. 'Ships were fouud which h& rone down centuries in, end enc ex- rtdltlon recovered the treasute of a whole contireut, which aa sunk in a Spahlsh Arrv.d ?4 WoreoverJ rich veins of coal and irc.o snd other - mis erals ! Were fliscoverd in the sea. Meanwhile wireless telegraphy ir 1 perfected; until It? was po?sible to sendVa" current around the entire I . world.4-Jt was also possible to supply airships witn tne eurrent. a company was founded; for a passenger and par cel service' without petroL which be gan serving al( Important parts of the world. The parcel traffic no longer needed human pilots; becaase the air ships were guided frrt the land by a simple wireless contrivance. . v. At the same time, the peace- con ference at The Hague, , which repre sented all dTillxed nations, decided 6n the complete disarmament ot all.the orld without any. restrVrtlons. ' . By I this .time every great power hid es tablished -a fleet of unmanned aenS. Tlaned loaded with -thousands bombs which wt re to be let loose by wireless current at the first mobiliza tion of the enemy over all his Import ant towns. : In thia way erery hostile town -and base would be -reduced to ruin in. a few hoars. This meant that there could no longer be any war." I ; Otterjmaginary mTentlons describ- A woman, on the other hand, re gards lore as the most slippery and eel-like of all blessings and as some thing that she Is always expected to lose in spite of all the precautions that she may take to hold it. When a man tells a woman that he loves her. and marries her to prove it, and goes on working year after year to make her comfortable and happy, he feels that he has given about as good a demonstration of devotion as it is possible to put up. He would consider it silly and su perfJuous for him' to take his wife tttil and iiMr htf rtatha rtf mn fstancy or make impassioned declare tions of affection to her. 1 Ana Because ne teeis max ne nas given his wife a proof of his love that goes so far beyond any mere A M M words, and because it never occurs to him that ahe isn't as sure of him as he Is of her, he doesn't make love to her nor pay her compliments and he never dreams that she Is eating out her heart In hunger for the spoken word nor worrying herself sick with doubts as to whether he loves her or not Too never see stout middle aged men spending taeir money on mas seurs to have the wrinkles rubbed out of their faces, nor going through the awful contortions of physical culture in order to retain the affections of their middle aged wives, but half of the middle aged married women in the world are suffering such foolish tortures because they are victims of the haunting fear that their elderly husbands no longer find them attrac tive. Thus do men and women love dif ferently, and it is because each Is for ever trying to probe into the mys teries of the .other's heart that they never tire of the love game. (Copyright, 1S17, by The Wheeler syndicate. Inc.) Dorothy Dlx'i articles appear regu larly In this paper every Monday, Wed nesday and Friday. I "special film,- which brought the pic- turerof distant events as they happen ed to the theater and private house. Another invention dispensed with the use of coal and gss by preserving the heat and light of the ; sun. Traffic problems, In the world's great cities by setting 'pavements and. street In motion.- ;Thearticle concludes:: : ;. ; rina-ly, si Inventions reduced ?the trouble of living more and . more, the people, began to lose the use of their limbs, since everything ;wss done for them, a world conference was assem bled which .forbade anyone inventing anything more"- HOW ANY GIRL CAN , : HAVE PRETTY EYES No girl Is pretty If her eyes are red, trained -or have dark rings. ONE WASH with pure Lavoptlk eye wash will brhten the oyes and a week's use wQl startle with its INCREDIBLE results. ' A small bottle Lavoptlk is guaranteed to make .syea . healthy, sparkling and , vivacloua The quick charge, win surprise yon. Pure alumi nuoi eye cup FREE. The Holllster Drug- CompanyAdv. . r ' i , , , - , . . . I UnafiaD 2 jib . - ; . II - - .- . v v. -5'" ' ' . Owr GssTiminie 'LsillisIedl aaidl Pre-oSmsmk lip; 11 vv -v fallen . 11 . - 1 III I 1 I I I I III . S IMaM- S - S. - f --.. I I : 1 -mamma- Temporary location 78 -.Mn., St. The Houc3 of Popular "" . . cop iu a firfe yX'f - match- TrvirvJo jH. I ' AT : J Some cui Mr I y ltit 5?1 HEALANIS V1LL GIVE DANCE AT I The Healani baseball team of the Pacific League will give a big benefit dance at the Outrigger Club on Satur day evening at 8 o'clock. Sam K halewaT has charge of the arrange ments, and this will Insure all an ex cellent time. . 'Excellent ' musio has been'' secured ; for the occasion, and accordlnr to advance reports there will be a large crowd present The Healanls hart been making a good showing of late and promise to be 'one of the 'strongest teams In the league. ' They hare won the Only game played thus 'far in 'the 'second; series, and this was from the Asahis, consid ered one of the strongest teams in the league. ' ! The Healanls have pointed ' every thing for the championship In the sec- Iond series,; and prospects are bright for a chance at the pennant Among I the players who have starred for, the Healanls are: -Haneberg and Ladd, c; ' Bollinger; Rawson, Kuehn, Peter son, Baldwin and Brown, p; Mcflreo and 'Maglob, lb; Dleht' 2b; McTlghe and Kauhane, Sb ; . Victor, ss 1. Hughes, Rawson, Bnshnell, Crane. White, Dec ker, Haill and otters. v ."What's to optimist?, "An optimist Is a person wholl go into a rest aurant without a cent In his " pocket and figure on paying for the meal with the pearl he hopes to find in the oyster. Illinois . Siren. '1 OirnUGGER GLUB rrr r w a v ri v v -k ; , r ; m. aw .- n m. - aw m Eil U IB opp. Union Grill Abolish phxnfi For Jotinnv Cahe T HE T.W.C1 featured a wheat- less day at the cafeteria yester day at noon. The affair proved to be a succesa When one young lady balked at having a pieless meal; BEFORE Oh, bring me back' to the wheatful days, to the joys of pumpkin pie. , Oh, cut me a slice of mother's bread and sway with the chunk of rye. Bring In the tasteful tarts and buns that sister used to make. And make ye yearn for the big white loaf that mother used to bake. r - ' ' - AND NOW ' , - : Tour brown bread's quite delicious, and the marmalade Is fine. It's far more beneficial when the summer sun' does shines " ) Please, bring me on some old corq bread and cast aside the pie. For wheatless days may. hide a t ear, may save a mother's, sigh. CARD PARTY Leahl Chanter Ne. 2, O. E. 8., enter tains at whist Friday erening, Aug. 10, at 7:30. at the home of Mrs. H. H. Wil liams, Nuuanu street prizes. Mem bers of Lei Aloha and Harmony Chap ters are Invited and may . bring' a friend. 8 core cards, 25 cents. Adv. IMRS. S. KAIU DIES AT . HER HOME ON KAUAI Mrs. 8. Kalu, one of the best known women of Kauai and one who has ac tively participated m the life of the Garden Isle for many years, died last Thursday; at her home,, following a brief illness. The illness . occurred while MrsY Kalu was fishing. Ac cording to the" Garden Island, Mrs. Kalu, with her husband, was a leader 20 years ago fa the Kapaa district So Kins Prices woHDenjt GOtFCR ! cups- Joe Take To Tart she was told that this program was Initiated to aave a life at the front Immediately ahe began to tell of the many good htngs which were found during the luncheon. If you cant play them. V , ' That being the case, why not buy yours from . Ernest K. Baal and re ceive a complete private course of In comparable Kaal-method lessons free with any ukulele you pick out? J7ou set the hours for your lessons yourself.- V",;ir.: . ; : 1 ;: ,: : Our ukuleles range In price from $150 up; all Instruments are guar anteed and we guarantee to teach yon pieces not merely exercises.) : 7u:, -: Now is the time; call tomorrow for further details at our new store. 1121 Union street Wolters Bldg. Adv.-r- Wllllsnr M. McQuald of the Kona Development Co. Is a visitor in the city. end and Bread ffl ,;ucii GOOD NOTE: Owing ta greatly in creased market pri ceswelwill be compelled to ad van c e our j After August 15th I'll. HAV7b ce nt hat You po th& DCDSTERS VI DIStllSSPIlS Anticipating a banner season at the College of Hawaii, a number: of the leading boosters for Athletics will meet at the Outrigger ChiV on Sat urday evening at 5:80 o'clock to talk over the altuation: It is expected that plans . will be outlined , st this meet ing to form a committee to work on athletic activities duriaj; 'theall -The conega has been prteate i with handsome cups by .Wail tt Dougherr and Culmaa, aal soss dt cision as to the presentation :ct. the trophies will perhaps be xnaeL-Inasmuch .as there are a number of new students planning to cuter coUese this year. It Is expected that 'some yt of, organization will; be formed to -tendthe welcome hand td the new comers. 1 ; : Lw-'; ;-; ' . Among, those who are 'expected to attend the meeting are: Mrs. Walker, the Misses Doris Noble, Ruth FarrU:; ton, Katherlne-Blaka, Jannatt Elar?, Katie 81nglehurtt Grace Morgan, asd Bromley, - Cowan Poole, Nlchobcn, Brash, Fowler, Denison, I " Spencer, Ballentyne and Wungv ' . i - . Go to 12: - -Ot for "cooling ssdas and tc!t ' Ci:n Ycrr cs tlzzi Cera r r . :3 i"ic.-t:x'-?Ci pecn- --.-t.J is uo xne&cnn ltr- r aiL - r tm tor 1m bkm L7 I - f r : ' i La vzzi t-z- tawmcawbo