,r . IsTo distance of place or laps oof time can
lessen the friendship of those who are persuad
r ed . of each other's worth. Robert Southey.
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V Anational debt, if it hi not esceivc, ;. i;
be "to U3 a naticmal blessing; Hamilton
- - HONOLULU STAB-BULLETIN, FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 2, 1917.
Kohala Girls1 Seminary To Be Modern Institution
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New Structure on Big Island Will Cost . $75, CC
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DOROTHY" DIX SAYS
-The man or woman who marries an
Invalid is taking tVic longest shot on
earth at connubial bliss.
Z (BY DOROTHY DIX)
(The World's Highest Paid Woman
young woman who evidently had
no faith in the science of euge
nics as it is being expounded to
us writes me that she is in love with
;a man who is inflicted with an incur
i able malady and that she wants to
I marry him. Her parents naturally
object to the match, but she is going:
on; with the wedding on the principle
that a year or two of marriage with
him is better than a lifetime of mat
rimony with any other roan,
. V-Tjus would be a plausible argu
ment for doing , a fool thing if the
'.. girl bad only herself to consider,. But
there are her father and mother, who
;xnay not relish . having a widowed
daughter thrust back upon them to
support in the course of time. Above
'! all, there are ' the possible children
that may be the result of such a mar
riage, and who are pretty sure, under
: such conditions, to come into- the
; jvcrld handicapped by feeble bodic.3
or brains. A woman may 'have the
,' right to take any sort of a husband
6he wants, but she hasn't a right to
give her children a sickly and neuro
. I It is easy tosee how a sentimental
and sympathetic girl can be willing
to marry. a man who is an invalid- In
addition to whatever charms of man
ner and mind he may have and some
qt,--tne most aengnuui men on eariu
are cursed with weak bodies he ap
peals to the eternal maternal that is
in' every good woman.
She wants to mother him. to . fuss
over him, to take care of him, to do
for him the thousand little things y
which a woman delights in showing
her love. His very dependence upon
her fills her with an overflowing ten
derness towards him.
; In spite of all this, for a woman to
marry a delicate man is nearly al
ways a terrible mistake. In fact, it is
not too much to say that it is invar
iably a mistake unless the, man is
rich enough not to be dependent on
his own exertions for a living, for of
all places in the world where money
Us needed it is in the sick room. .
' The lot of no woman is so fffrlorn
and piteous as that of the wife whose
; husband is too ill and feeble to even
F attempt to fight the wolf away from
the door; and who has to see him not
only dying; but in his dying hours tor-
tured with anxiety for those he is
! leaving beliiifd.
Tor is the woman who marries the
sickly man always the benefactress
to him that she expects to be. Just
as often she is a f urden that crushes
him down the sooner into the grave.
Having to support a family may force
Jiim to have to work longer hours
than he otherwise would, or. keep at
a job that' is injurious to him. With
a wife a man may not take chances
art employment that, the single man
way, and so the invalid who has given
hostages to fortune cannot indulge in
the rest, or the roaming about from
climate to climate, that would pro
long his life.
So far as happiness is concerned,
the woman who marries an invalid is
taking the longest shot on earth at
connubial bliss. HusBands are kittle
cattle to get along with at best, and a
tick one can make a sore-headed bear
look like a living model of suavity
- The truth is that illness does not
improve the disposition and agree
ability of any of us. It is only in the
i novels that invalids are patient and
I gentle and always rewarding their kind
real life an invalid is a creature of
Taw nerves and villainous temper
2nd monumental egotism, who never
thinks about anything but himself or
herself, aud who is of the opinion
that nobody can possibly do enough
lor him or her.
' The early Chirstian martyrs had
Woman Tells How Lydia E.
Finkriam s Vegetable Com
pound Helped Her.
t7est Danby, N. Y. "I have had
nervous trouble all my life until I took
Lydia E. Pinkham'a
pound for nerves
and for female trou
bles End it straight
ened me out in good
shape. I work nearly
all the time, as we
live on a farm and I
have four girls, I do
all my sewing and
other vr or I: with
their help, so it
thows that I stand it real wettV I took
the Compound vsrhen my. ten year old
daughter 'cans - tad it helped me a let.
f keep it in tho house all the time and
recommend it." Mrs. Dewttt Slvce
BAUGH, West Danby, N. Y.
Sleeplessness, nervousness, irritabil
ity, backache, headaches, dragging sen
rations, all point to female derange
ments which maybe overcome by Lydia
E. Pinkhain's Vegetable Compound. .
: . This . famous" remedy, the medicinal
fcgredients of which are derived from
feSroots and herbs, has or fo
feaw proved to be a most valuable; tonic
SftoVigorator of the female organism.
nothing in the martyr line on people
who are married to invalids, and any
body : who would deliberately qualify
for this role Is entitled to a nice pad
ded cell instead of a marriage ring.
V The man who , marries a delicate
girl does just as silly a thing as the
woman who marries a sickly man. Of
course, it seems very romantic to
him to think of taking a frail little
creature and cherishing her ' and pro
tecting her arid she calls forth in him
all the best and most altruistic in his
nature, just, as the invalid man does
in the woman. - i
. Unfortunately, however, real life
has a way of dissipating halos, and
the man who acquires an invalid wife,
finds out that he has sold himself in.
to slavery to the doctor, and the sanF
tarium, and the ; specialist, and the
'All that lie can make goes, to sup
port her invalidism, and instead of
pleasant evenings at home, be finds
himself walking on tiptoe to avoid
disturbing a sick wife whose nerves
shriek out at-the slightest noise. Also
he ascertainsthat it takes
nan y SJ
It tou do well, aside from the quea-.
tion of convention involved be' care
ful that .smoking does not ruin your
health. If you don't well, It is a
good habit not to acquire. -
Morals a3 well as convention, la
much a question .of geography. It la
nothing out of the way to see women
smoking In New York. Even in the
finest restaurants, Sherry's on Fifth
'Avenue, for instance, the women sit
at tea by the open . windows, the
smoke from their cigarettes, in price
less ivory and jeweled holders, float
ing out across the pavements. In
many places ? it is the exception to
find . a woman who BoesnV smoke.
In the south and the west, a woman
who smokes is socially ostracized;
her reputation goes at the first puff
cf her cigarette. Yet some of the
finest women I know smoke, many of
them are mothers of devoted fami
lies, all are hard workers, highly in
telligent, thoroughly charming. : :
Yet I advise women against it. ; It
!s a needless hebit, so why acquire
it? A woman does odk charming
"with the tiny white stick in her fin
gers, the smoke curling daintily from
its tip hut she will look equally
charming in hundreds of other poses.
If she inhales, the smoke yrill dry her
lungs, taint the blood; tend to make
the skin gray and drawn. It will
stain her fingers a bright yellow, the
odor of the smoke will cling to her
clothes, getting unpleasant as It gets
staler..:". i : M:;
Some men like to see women
smoke, most' of them do not, how
ever, and whether or not their views :
are Just, we must observe even hJt may 1c a pretty and a cute habit
conventions we criticize most severe-'-'Put it isn't a healthy one and iV an
ly. Be liberal-minded, and do not
condemn the woman who smokes
, but don't do It yourself. ;
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. Questions and Ansvrert
Vy eyes look a though-1 had just fin
t&hed crying. They are altceyt red
around the lid, and the eye itself teems
vcat fry. Can you tell m tomething to m
prwe their looks om soothing lotion,
ferhaps t Margaret Hay. ;
Women ffom every organization
the city attended the meeting which
was called by Mrs. J, M. Dowsett and
Mrs. Walter F. Frear at tho Library of
Hawaii yesterday to organize the Ha
wali branch of the Woman's National
Defense committee. Mrs. Dowsett, as
temporary chairman, presided, assisted
by Mrs. Walter F. Frear, vice-chairman,
and- Mrs. A. N. Lincoln, secretary.
After tlie purpose of the committee
was clearly outlined by Mrs. Dowsett
the cleciion of permanent officers
took place, all the officers elected hav- j
inc been1 chosen as much for their
special fitness for the work ag for their
high position in Honolulu. As was to
bo expected, Mrs; Dowsett was "elected
permanent chairman, with - Mrs. Wal
ter Dillingham, Mrs. Facar and Mrs.
Gerrit P. Wilder as .' vice-chairmen.
Mrs. Lincoln was made secretary and
Mrs. Harold Castle treasurer.
There are ten subcommittees on va
rious activities, Tho committees and
their chairmen -as elected yesterday
are as follows:
Registration for service Mrs. L. C.
Ilowland.' " . v ; ;. -
Food production and home econom
ics Mrs.; James Russell. . ' -
Food administrationMrs.'; A. C.
Alexander. ;t"? :; .-. 'l:?:;jtX ' '
Women In industry Miss Ruth Ben
edict. - -'1 f . :'.;,.'.-. '.. '- 'Mr
Child welfare Mrs. A. L. Andrews.
Maintaining existing social service
agencies Mrs. J. R. Gait,
- Safeguarding , moral and spiritual
forces Miss Grace Channon.
- Educational propaganda A, : 3irs.
Percy. Pond. . '1 .; -;. , : -rv '-V
Educational propagandaB,' Mrs. H.
R. Macfarlane, Jr. vv -
, Liberty Loans Mrs. Tennev Peck.
Red Cross and Allied relief Mrs.
George R., Clark, Miss Beatrice Cas-
and able-bodied woman " to - wrestle
successfully with' bills 1 and servants
and be' a Jolly , companion, and that
hm rnnversflt nn of ai neurOUC Vi u
. " WWW- . f
Is one lone wail of complaint. -
I Of course, if invalidism comes after
marriage, either a wife: or husoana is
a miserable quitter arid dastard not
to do his or her full 'duty " towards
loving and "cherishing and nursing the
afflicted one, but between having -m
valids thrust "upon you and deliber
atelv esnousinK it is the difference
between the brave arid the foolhardy
A lot of nonsense is talked about
thfi science of eugenics, and Impos
slble claims made for it, but. If. out of
all the discussion it impresses upon
nednle the fact that marriage is only
for the. healthy, it will have added
immeasurably to the hanpiness ct the
human race. -
(Copyright 1917, by The Wheeler
Syndicate Inc.) ' "
The Dorothy Dix articles appear
regularly in this paper every Monday,
Wednesday and Friday. - ; '.
'Replp One of two thlngr Is wrong
your eyes are weak and need glasses OP
yQur digestion is badly upset. Either con
dition will cause that look. Flrct, Tight
tb digestive system a constantly upset
stomach, will affect the eyesight and - if
that same look continues, go to an oculist.
excellent one to avoid
What ian I do to keep my teeth white f
I clean them, daily with orris, root and
chalk.- Stenographer . . . t
Jtcply Bay th '1)111681" and Seet tooth
caste on the market, clean the teeth by
brushing them up and down as well as
across, and clean them twice each day.
Peroxide used occasionally bleaches,
them, and ia an excellent antlsectic as
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He, Mrs. Henry Damon, Mrs. F. J.
Lowrey, and one member, for the army
to: be appointed in conference with
General Visser. v
rublicity and finance Mrs. M. F.
I Prosser, Mrs. , Arthur Griffiths, Mrs,
Richard Cooke, Miss Mary yon Holt,
Miss Nora Sturgeon, Mrs. H. M; Dow
sett. . u ' .
I DAILY REMINDERS I
: Wanted Two more passengers for,
motor party around island, 54 each.
Lewis Garatre, Tihoae 2141. Adv." j
For Distiiled Water, Hire's Root
Beer and all other Popular Drinks
try the- Con. Soda Water Works Co.
Dr. Schurmai-n, Osteopathic Physi
cian. 10 years established here. Eere
tania and Union str - :ts. Phone 1731 '
Adv.:.' . . I
Come all to take your luncheon at
the Bishop Park, Saturday. Poi lunch
eon or sandwiches and coffee wiir be
served. - Adv,
The ' new - bustle j effect, a fashion's
latestfaa"in women's dresses, is mod
est but unmistakable. -One glimpse of
.the; first gowns deceived here showing
the' style . proves 'it. ' They are ; on dis
play at' Jeffs Fashion, Co.r Fort and
Berctania streets. As - yet the bustle,
effect is not as exaggerated as ; that
worn by. our. mothers4 In the 80's. ..
;- The stock includes a wide -variety
of very ' dainty; frocks: :riavy -blue
serges, with satin tjid serge combina-;
t ions,, suitable for, steamer and street
wear, priced at $17.50, $22.50 and $25;
silk dresses for: afternoon -and ? street
wear; white' crepe de chined and white
and r flesh-colored Georgette : 'crepe .
dresses. ' "These are; particularly desir-.
able for visitors.' v All are moderately
priced. A shipment of the newest hats
also has just arrived. Adv. : lb
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. When, the new Kohala Girls' Semi
nary in Kohala, Hawaii, is completed
it will be one of jthe most thoroughly
modern and beautiful school buildings
in the islands. All equipment that
can help in the work of education and
n the comfort and safety of the girls
and their teachers will be made a part
of this building, whose architect is H.
Kerr., The kitchen," for example.
which is 32 by 40 feet, has been
planned-with an eye to providing
everything that a kitchen can provide
to facilitate the teaching and practise
of domestic economy. .The same plan
of . efficiency has been carried out
with every part of the huge building.
Briefly summed up, the plans : for
this school building, which is to be
three stories high, with wide lanals at
front and rear, and smaller lanais on
the side, call for a , chapel, two class-'
PEOPLE MAY SOON
.The news in the early part of the
week that three of the .big Matson lin
ers would be. replaced by such boats
as the president and Governor, which
have a limited cargo capacity, has cre
ated a' feeling of uneasiness on the
part of many Honolulans: as to the
ability of the merchants to'get enough
foodstuffs here to" keep 'the ; people
supplied James A. Dunbar, treas
urer of Henry .. May & Co., Ltd ; in
connection with the subject said;
: "I don't really believe we shall have
any real trouble about getting food to
the islands.- The government knows
that we must have foodstuffs here,
and I believe, as does nearly every one
else I've spoken to about it, that
bulky freight that might be classed as
luxuries will be kept off the steamers
by order, of . the government to make
room for life's necessities.
In . . : B ' : -2
as an advertising medium
Its truthful, straightforward news service
its dignified and restrained editor ial
viewsits skillful and careful typography
its clean, reputable advertising columns all
combine to win and hold the attentive con
sideration of the worth-while people of
New $75,000 School for KQhalaTGirl3, Seminary.
rooms, a visitors parlor, , a teachers
parlor, a girls" sitting joom and the
principal's office at the front, on the
ground flobr, the chapel running back
the full width of the first floor. Back
of ' a corridor, which begins at the
chapel and separates ; the front and
rear portions of the first floor, are the
dining rooms, large and small, and the
big kitchen back of the dining room,
while on the side next to the chapel
are two more classrooms The rear
lani, which Is 10 by 50 feet, connects
the chapel, rear classrooms and the
kitchen, v , "::'';:
The second floor has two dormitor
ies, each containing 1 8 beds. It has
also a small, well arranged emergency
hospital, 'a store room, a linen room, a
trunk room. There is a central hal-
cony lanal along the front of the sec
"Let me illustrate, said Mr. Dunbar.
"A high class automobile, such as the
Packard or Tierce-Arrow, occupies,
when cased, 540 cubic feet of space,
which is a conservative estimate. Into
540 cubic feet of space could be packed
500 50-pound bags of four. Now, while
all: of us like our automobiles, we
have to admit that it would be easier
to live, without an automobile than to
live without bread. Furthermore,
there is little doubt- in. the mind of
anybody that 1500 bags of flour would
sepe more people than a single au
tomobile could. It's just another case
of the greatest good to the greatest
number. : If it came to the point where
if one should be shipped the other
would have to remain behind for lack
of space I don't think there would be
any hesitancy on the part of the gov-
cannot afford "to ne
ceding October 1,1917, according to sworn statements
filed with the Post Office Department, was 6303, larger
by 489 daily than any other - newspaper in the Islands
ond story, which, with . the corridor
running . back from it, separates this
floor into two wings. Six teachers'
bedrooms two opening vonto the bal
cony, two in the left wing, and two in
the right wing, have, between each
pahy . a connecting bathroom. The
principal's bedroom, which also opens
onto this, balcony, has its own private
bath. All the bedrooms - have abund
ant closet space. There are also three
extra bedrooms for girls on this floor.
One of the best features of the dor
mitories is the big general lavatory
for the girls, which contains all - the
latest bathroom accessories, such as
wash-basins, ; foot-tubs, hot and cold
showers and nine separate bathrooms.
The third story will contain In front
bedrooms for the two assistant teach
ers, with private bath and big clothes
ordering ' the flour
' "As with automobiles, so would it be
with pianos, talking machines and,
later, bulky pieces of furniture, i; All
these things would have to give way,
if there should be overcrowding, to
make room for foodstuffs, and unless
the shipping facilities which we now
have and which are promised 'for the
future should be very greatly curtailed
there need be no shoHage whatever in
the food supply here so far as freight
advantages, are concerned."
THREE LIEUTENANTS .
' ARE MADE CAPTAINS
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: 1st Lieuts. Charles H. Jewell, Wal
ter P. Pick and Wilfred J. Stokes,
all stationed at Schofield 1 Barracks,
have been ' promoted j to captains and
assigned to the veterinary- corps, na
tional ' army. ' . ; ; :
' This l information was received in
Honolulu today in a radiogram to Brig.
Gen. J. P. Wisser from Adjt-Gen. Mc
Cain in. Washington, D. C. The new j
captains proWably will leave for the ;
mainland in the near future for active '
service there. - v
closets. : There will: be also two extra
oedrooms for - two beds each, on the :
left of these teachers' rooms, and back
of the corridor three similar rooms for
girls. To the right, back of the cor
ridor, will be two more dormitories,
one for fifteen and the other for eight
een beds, - also another- dormitory .la
the rear wing which will have room for
42 beds." The same lavatory arrange
ments will be had for the girls on ths
third as on the second floor. ; - -' . '
' The building will cost, when com
pleted, at least i ?73,000, $40,001). - of
which Is already on hand. Dr. John
F. Cowan, who has been on the main
land for the last six months, returnins
last week to. Honolulu, is at work on'
the matter of collecting the additional
fends needed. He left for Kauai yes
terday on this mission. '
A bazaar will be held at Bishop
Park, opposite Young Hotel, Saturday,
November 3, 1317. - Begins at 10 a. m.,
closes at 10 p. m.:,' - : . ' ' .
Fancy work, grab-bag,' dolls, chil
dren's, dresses, flowers and leis,' deli
catessen, cakest and piescandy, sand
wiches and coffee,, ice cream, lemon
ade, Portuguese sweet bread, shooting
gallery. ' '
Laulau, poi Juncheon' and luau will
be served -from-11 a."m t& pr'm.
Adv. ' .. .rV-;:'v": -"::-".; ' ; ,
Mnny ; incendiary : fires, mostly in
fruit packing plants and warehouses.
are reported from various parts . of
California. : . ;. -
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