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4—The Catholic Tinies Friday, May 3. 1957 IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIH^ The Washington Letter Moral Issues Involved iiiiiiiiniiiiiiiiiiHiiMiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiim WASHINGTON Moral is sues involved in the use of nuclear weapons are being brought prominently to public attention here. Significant in this regard is the imminent expiration of the term of Thomas E. Murray as a member of the Atomic En ergy Commission. Eor years Mr. Murray has insisted on raising the moral issues associated with the use of nuclear weapons. Members of Congress have taken the unusual and perhaps unprecedented course of recom mending to President Eisen hower that he be reappointed. Ten members. Senators and Representatives, of the 18-mem ber Joint (Senate and House) Committee on Atomic Energy have joined in this recommen dation. Mr. Murray, himself, has let it be known that he would like to be reappointed. Mr. Murray received the Ixietare Medal of the University of Notre Dame in 1952 for his distinguished accomplishments. He received the 1956 Peace Award of the Catholic Associa tion for International Peace, But praise for his works has come from a great variety of sources, non-Catholic and non religious, as well as Catholic. The CA1P citation in 1956 said he has “consistently pointed out that the use of force in warfare is subject to the moral law, that the dictates of con science call for rational limits on the size and number of nuclear weapons. An interesting fact If that When asking a group of teen agers whether or not it is a sin to kiss on a date, they often re ply with a loud moan: “Father, why do you think we go on a date?’’ Many youngsters now are making fine (not refined) dis tinctions when asking about the morality of a kiss. They classi fy their kisses into various cate gories. the peck kiss, the tooth crusher, the transfu ion. and so on. The most telling answer to the question, “whether or not a kias is wrong,’’ the one person they cannot fool is themselves. Dynamite There is that perennial type who say kissing does not affect them. One wonders then why does he kiss! Of course it is possible that those long kisses will not effect him he could he sick, or he could have ice wa ter in his veins, or maybe he has a doorknob for a heart. But nf this we can be certain, where a person is normal, passionate kissing before marriage is an occasion of sin and therefore, with certain conditions, it is a »in Passionate kissing is a preparation for the marriage act and unless one has a right to his act, he and she absolutely have nn right tn a passionate kiss. It may seem so innocent— this little, passionate good-night kiss -4 as innocent as lighting a fuse to a distant keg of dyna mite. The Church is not just 1 By and large the Public Re view Board recently established by the United Automobile Workers has had a very good press It seems to be the edi torial consensus that the es tablishment of this so-called "watchdog” committee was a •tep in the right direction, a significant contribution to the cause of decent trade unionism in the United States. Inevitably, however, a few dissident voices have been raised in the Fourth Estate as well as in the world of politics. Raymond Moley, (or example, dogmatically informed the readers of his column in News week-even before the person nel of the Board had been an nounced— that the whole thing was window-dressing. The Board, he wrote, “is to be se lected, presumably, by the top brass of the union and passed upon at the convention of the union. In short, Reuther wants a review of the affairs of his union by a private, hand-picked court.’’ Similarly, N. R. How ard, editor of The Cleveland News, characterized the Board as a “public relations coup fie is going “to wait and see" whether or not the members In Nuclear War Reconsidered while Washington has come to think of Mr. Murray in connec tion with the moral aspects of nuclear weapons, he could very well be the most practical mem ber the AEC has ever had. His is widely recognized as an en gineer and businessman, and he personally holds some 200 patents. Moreover, while he is usual ly associated with the moral issues of nuclear war. much, if not most, of what he has said and written has to do with the most practical military features of nuclear warfare. While he recognizes the deterrent value of large weapons, he has called for greater emphasis on the smaller weapons adaptable Io limited wars. Mr. Murray’s argument is that massive nuclear weapons are so horrible in their re suits that the world just can’t afford to indulge in an all-out nuclear war. Meanwhile, an ag gressor. appreciating this fact as well as we do. can conquer the w'orld piecemeal, through small localized aggressions. Ag gressors might be stopped, if small nuclear weapons were available to use against them. Legislators who have urged Mr. Murray’s reappointment have stressed his courage, his efforts to avoid political par tisanship, and his advocacy of the common good as the cri terion in making policy deci sions. Mr. Murray has for years ad vocated wider public under standing of the hazards associ Making Marriage Click Kissing A Sin? Depends On You And The Situation By Msgr. Irving A. DeBlanc adding another sin to nur lives. This is an ancient sin always has been a sin. The church is no dragon. It is rather offering a blueprint for sanctity and suc cess in marriage. She is a wise and helpful mother. Many a boy would like to reach into the tabernacle and fondly hold the ciborium which contains the body and blood of our Savior, but he must first he ordained a priest Many a boy is tempted to embrace the girl he cherishes but, again, he must earn that right. There must first he a sacramental contract: marriage. Rebel against that contract and it is sure suicide: our whole culture, our family, life, the nature of man and woman are at stake. Symbol of Unity We begin to be mature when we can control our appetites. When a tiny baby smears pab ulum all over its face it is im mature, when a youngster wal lows in dirt he is immature, when a person eats unceasingly he is immature. So, too, when human beings surrender and do not try Io follow Gods laws, they are immature just ba hies. Today, with passionate kiss ing openly presented and dis cussed in the movies, press, TV, fiction, news articles, advertise ments. conversation, many are misled into believing that sex is the most important factor in marriage. But conjugal love is iiiiiiMiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiim The Yardstick Thinks Life Manazilie’s of the Board can be trusted to call the shots as they see them. For the time being ho obviously has his fingers crossed. Let the Record Speak Several other commentators and politicians arc reported to have echoed the Moley Howard point of view with regard to the Board and its personnel. While it strikes us as being a rather cynical point of view, there is no reason to take it too serious ly or to gel all hot and bothered about it. The present writer is perfect ly content to let the record speak for itself. At the mo ment there isn’t any record, for the Board has yet to hold its first meeting and some of its members have yet to lay eyes on one another for the first time. In the meantime, while the Board is getting organized, it might be well to outline the scope of its authority and to in dicate why we think it would have been a mistake to extend its authority into the area of collective bargaining or eco nomic policy, as recommended by Ufc magazine. The above mentioned Mr. Howard and a number of other commentators MBk 11 ated with radio active "fall out." Here again his arguments are being brought once more to mind, by warnings and protests emanating from numerous di verse sources. His concern for the threat posed by nuclear weapons has also led Mr. Murray to advocate greatly increased efforts to de velop peaceful uses of atomic energy, particularly atomic electric power. He has repeat edly warned that our present programs for (he development of industrial atomic power are not adequate and that steps to accelerate its development are urgently needed. Earlier this year, in testimony before Con gress. he again proposed meas ures designed to rectify the deficiencies in our present pro gram. One of the most recent ut terances of His Holiness Pope Pius XII on this topic has been an urging that scientists of all nations expend their efforts to put nuclear energy to work in the service of men, instead of engaging in "this exhausting and costly race to death." This appeal was contained in a mes sage which the Holy Father gave to Japan's Minister Mat sushita, who called uoon the Pontiff in the interests of lim iting the dangers of nuclear tests and warfare. The Pope s latest remarks re call to mind that there has long been one in this country who has given serious and expert thought to these problems. Mr. Murray is that one. pot segmental, it is personal it is not just an episode, it is a symbol of unity and security it is not just a word, it is a lan guage telling of faithfulness forever. Passionate kissing belongs to marriage and then it becomes holy. Then it is a real surrender and the verbs commonly used to express it are “to give” and “to take.’’ not “to lend” and “to borrow” a kiss It was meant to he not the fleet union of bodies hut the welding of two com pletc personalities. Roues from the beginning of recorded his tory have been restless, unset tled drifters. To them and to those who turn to them for the caricature of love, the physical relationship is entirely casual, the occasion for a brief stimu lation that too often leaves be hind not even the memoryrof a name, a face, a personality. The passionate kiss in its Chris tian use is the channel and the means of grace between man and wife. Nonpassionate kissing be tween boy and girl would not he wrong before marriage if the following rules were ob served: 1) if there is a justi fiable and proportionate reason for entering this situation, 2) when the excitement is not deliberately evoked, 3) when there is no consent during the excitement, 4) when the dan ger of consent is kept remote. Bv Msgr. George G. Higgins made the same recommenda tion. Broad But Limited Power* In the language of the U.A.W. convention resolution which authorized its establish ment. “The Public Review Board shall have the authority and duly to make final and binding decisions on all cases appealed to it in accordance with Article 32 of the Interna tional Constitution, and to deal with matters related to alleged violation of any AFL-CIO Ethical Practices Codes and any additional Ethical Prac tices Codes that may be adopt ed by the International Union.” (Article 32 of the International Constitution deals with the rights of individual members or subordinate bodies of the U.A W.) It will be clear from a ’end ing of this text that the Public Review Board has no authority whatsoever to pass judgment on the economic decisions of the U.A.W. In other words, it is not a policy-making Board. To-be sure, it has extraordinari ly broad powers, but its au thority is strictly limited to the adjudication of specific appeals from U.A.W. members and al- I Monsignor Glenn An abundantly fruitful life as a priest of God and a holy death is encomium sufficient for the loved Monsignor Glenn whose untimely dcalh last Saturday took from the Diocese of Columbus a veritable tower of strength. But so much more can and must be added in any words o! tribute to the illustrious Rector of the dio cesan seminary. There were so many things about Monsignor Glenn that instinctively bring to mind the great Thomas of Aquin. Here, with his love of the ology in the Thomistic vein, with his clarity of thought, with his humility of purpose and presentation with his deep learning and love of philosophy, with his dogged and determined devotion to Holy Mother Church and to Truth, with his holiness of life—yes, and with his very stature, there conies to mind that he was as another Thomas Aquinas His# humility in sharing his learning with others was one of his most outstanding char acteristics. His ability as a sacred orator, as an educator, and as an author whenever and wher ever evidenced was always of such caliber as to be called illustrious. The presence at the Funeral of so many of his former students is indicative of the high es teem in which he was held by all of them. The number of young men who have become priests that were recipients of Monsignor Glenn's pro fessorial aid would go well beyond the one hun dred mark. All of them remember him as a great and lovable personality, and not just as. a professor of philosophy with a genius for clarity. To all of them he is already a legend for today they arc recalling a thousand and one little incidents that stand out in their association with him. Nor can his love of and thoughtfulness for others be overlooked. His delight with little chil legcd violation of present or future Ethical Practices Codes of the AFL-CIO or the U.A.W. Unrealistic Proposal The editors of Life magazine enthusiastically approve of the establishment of the Public Re view' Board but would like to see its authority extended into the field of collective bargain ing or economic policy. We think this is a very un realistic recommendation. As a matter of fact, the proposal is so thoroughly impractical that one cannot help but suspect that neither the editors of Life nor Mr. Howard have carefully thought it through to its logical conclusions. The logic of their proposal is that the economic decisions of management as well as of labor ought to be subject to the veto of a Board of outside “experts.” Surely they would not expect the U.A.W., or any other union, to transfer its au thority in the field of economic policy to a Board of outside ex May Queen 11 We Belong To His Flock Scarcely a passage in the Scriptures has struck a more responsive chord in the hearts of men, during all the Christian centuries, than the Gospel of Sunday, in which Christ describes Himself as the Good Shepherd, solicitous of the welfare of each one of His sheep, so much so that He lays down His life for them. In earlier times, this figure had immediate and poignant meaning to peoples who saw shepherds and their charges all around them, and even today it brings up a picture of peaceful content, of sunny days and quiet nights, with the Shepherd ever on the alert to keep disturbance and danger from the flock. The present lot of mankind is far removed from this sheltered, wholesome existence, and the natural yearning for it rises higher as life’s turmoil and discord, its cares and woes, become more pressing. And so. more perhaps than the pastoral people to whom Christ's words were spoken, we members of modern harried, mater ialistic civilization should be heartened by the assurance that we belong to the flock of the Good Shepherd, and that, amid all wretched circumstances that crowd is on us. His solici tude and watchfulness are still being exercised in our behalf. “In know Mine and Mine know Me,” the Good Shepherd proclaims do we appreciate the tre mendous blessing that is ours in belonging to perts unless the Luce Publish ing Company. The Cleveland News and every other corpora tion in the United States were willing to do likewise. Need less to say, short of a first class miracle, there isn’t the remot est possibility that this will ever happen. And, in our opinion, there isn’t any reason why it should. On the contrary, there are many reasons why labor and management should not trans fer their policy making author ity to a board of outside ex perts. Such a transfer of au thority and responsibility however appealing it may seem to be as a theoretical proposal —is not the answer to the prob lem of inflation. Obviously dis interested experts (economists, political scientists, theologians, etc.) have an important role to play in the field of collective bargaining and economic policy, but they should not Jac given the power of veto over the policy decisions of labor and jQ 3| -'W I dren. and their responsiveness to him was al ways an inspiring sight. His humility with the laity won lor him many ardent admirers their number would have been legion had he not been retiring in his life, desirous of keeping to his friends of the printed page. How he loved good books! The delight he took in such humorists as Mark Twain, Bill Nye, Wood house, was only matched by his devotion to Chesterton, Belloc, and even Boswell’s Life of Johnson. He could call upon a whole world of incident of literature to enliven a conversation and teach a lesson. His weekly column of com ment in the Catholic Times was constant evi dence of his ability to keep abreast of the times and to evaluate the events of the hour. His col umn was a special delight to others who, like himself, were known for their reading. After everything else is considered one of necessity comes back to the thought that Mon signor Glenn was always, first and foremost, a priest of God. He had—and in his usual manner of completeness—offered Holy Mass, finished the recitation of the Divine Office for the day, and was just setting off on the journey to his home and family that were so very dear to him when the end came. Feeling the intensity of the new’ heart attack, he bowed his head, say ing. “Jesus, Mary and Joseph,” and died. The death of Monsignor Glenn marks the end of an era at St. Charles where he served almost from its beginning. His heart was in the train ing of priests he loved to have his fellow’ priests around him A vessel of election in all truth fulness, to him can be anplied the words of Our 1 -ord to Ananias, about St. Paul: “For this man is a chosen vessel to me, to carry my name among nations and kings and the children of Israel.” May he rest in eternal peace His flock, and do wre conduct ourselves in keep ing with the honor? “And other sheep 1 have that are not of this fold,” He goes on “them also I must bring, and they shall hear My voice, and there shall be one fold and one Shepherd are we doing what we should, by word and ex ample, to help these other sheep hear His voice? The two questions are really one, for if we truly know' Him. and recognize Him as the Good Shepherd, our first concern will be to obey His commands and counsels there will be no self ishness or meanness in our hearts, no wander ing into evil ways. And we shall have a warm regard for those “other sheep,” special objects of the Shepherd’s concern. Gratefully relying on the care of the Good Shepherd, the Christian does not, of course, evade the responsibilities that are his, or yield to the influence of harmful conditions around him. God’s grace operates through our human faculties, and we are called upon to use, for His honor and glory, to the best of our ability, the intelligence and strength with which we have been endowed. Thus we shall be cooperat ing with the Good Shepherd thus we shall show ourselves worthy to be called His sheep, and thus we shall be speeding the day when all shall heed His voice “and there shall be one fold and one Shepherd.” management. Labor and management are admittedly capable of making serious mistakes in the field of collective bargaining and eco nomic policy. There is no ques tion about that. We are con fronted here with a moral as well as technical problem to which there is no easy short-cut solution. In other words, if labor and management are morally and technically incapable of making the right decisions in the field of economic policy, the experts should be called upon to help them correct their deficiencies. But, short of a major crisis, they should not be expected or permitted to take over, as it were, and to make their deci sions for them. That w'ould be to ignore the problem of labor management re sponsibility rather than to solve it. It would be almost as harmful, in the final analysis, as turning the whole thing over to the govern ment. Father Healey’s Q. In regard to the sick who are allowed medicine be fore receiving Holy Commun ion what is included in medi cine? How sick must they be? A. It is required that such a person consult a priest be fore receiving Holy Commun ion in such instances. Any doubts about the details he will solve, but the general rule is that any specific medication for sickness (even aspirin for headache) is permitted, liquid or solid. It is permitted at any time before reception of Holy Communion it is the only one ol these privileges that does not have a specified time limit. Sickness may re fer to anything of such sever ity as to make the use of medi cation reasonable one need not be confined to bed. Q. Is it a serious sin for a mother to allow a child to live his own life? Does the child have on obligation to break away, especially after marriage? Does he commit sin by doing so? A. One of the most sacred rights of man is the right to freedom in choosing and in pur suing his vocation. A mother or father who interferes with a son or daughter's right tn choose his vocation is guilty of serious sin. Advice and guid ance is a part of the parents’ duty but the ultimate decision must be, the free choice of the son or daughter. Also after the career, marriage, religious state has been entered upon the par ents arc guilts of serious sin if they interfere with the son or daughter in following that slate. In Genesis (2:24) and in the words of Christ (Matthew 19:5-6) we have a warning against parents’ interference with their children's marriage For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh' What therefore God has joined together, let no man put asunder.” The child who fails to recognize this new life and his proper obligation to his marriage partner also sins ser iously. In particular cases, of course, only the confessor could tell the individual parent or child the presence or the de gree of guilt. Q. My wife and I both have to work on Sunday and her hours are from 6:30 a.hi. un til 3:00 p.m. In our parish the first Mass makes it too late for us to hear the whole Mass or to go to Holy Com munion and get to work on time. What should we do in such a case? A. If it is not possible to make some other arrangement about working hours then it is excusable to leave before Mass is over. If you leave be fore the Communion of the Mass, however, you do not hear Mass. If you check the yellow pages of your phone book you will find a list of churches (p. 116) which have Mass at 5 00 or 5:30 a m. and one which has an evening Mass on Sunday at 5:00 p.m. for just such emergencies. First you should check with your pastor and if there is no possibility of having Mass in your parish earlier ask his permission to attend one of these Masses where you can stay throughout and receive Holy Communion. For more particular advice ask your con fessor. Cj. Is there a St. Blanche? St. Carmen? Kay? A. St. Blanche was the holy mother of St. Louis IX of France She has never been formally declared a saint by the Church but the same name in Latin is Candida (meaning white) and there are several saints of that name, including one whose feast day is Sep tember 4th. The Italian form Biancha is also used as is Gwen, the Welch equivalent. There is no St. Carmen listed in the lives of the saints. It may be derived from Carmel if so it would be in honor of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel. Kay is a variation of Caius and w’ould come from St. Caius, pope and martyr who died in 296 A.I)., whose feast is kept on April 22nd. It may also be a nickname for Catherine or Katherine. Q. It has always been my understanding that only prac tical Catholics can serve as godparents at Catholic bap tisms. I see by the paper that Frank Sinatra whom I un derstand is not such. "was asked to serve as god father for the babes of a Cath olic couple and a Jewish couple on the same day.” How is that possible? A. In the first place the ar ticle docs not say that it was done, but -that he wns invited to act as godfather. It may be that the parents had not checked with the priest and that it was not done. Tradi tionally there have been ex ceptions made for honorary godparents who were not Catholics in good standing especially in royal families etc. but such godparents are not really godparents. They simply stand by and are given the name as an honor, but the real godfather and godmother must be good prac tical Catholics. It is difficult to find out the true picture in such cases from the secular newspapers for they do not often understand Catholic teaching and practice in re gard to the sacraments. Q. Is not the K of a secret organization? Why do members take an oath to keep everything secret and act so mysterious about the initia tion etc? A. The Knights of Columbus is a fraternal organization of Catholic men. Its purposes, as listed in the National Cath olic Almanac are: to render financial aid to its members ... to render assistance to sick and disabled members to promote social and intel lectual intercoure among mem bers and to promote and conduct educational, charit able, religious, social and re lief work. Its works are many and varied and there is noth ing secret about the organiza tion in the sense forbidden by the Church (as with forbidden secret societies). There is a ritual of initiation, fully un derstodd by the Church as ac ceptable to Catholics, but there is no oath of secrecy. Members promise as members of any fraternal organization do to keep the details of the “mysterious” initiation secret but that is simply to drama tize and protect the instruc tive value of the ceremony. Wives and non-members who find the references of mem bers to such matters disturb ing should study the construc tive projects undertaken by the Knights and charitably overlook the (I hope excus able) indulgence in fraternal secrecy. Q. I have been troubled lately with a case of scruples and my confessor has given me special rules to follow tn confession. When I read of priests giving different opin ions on whether or not some thing is sinful I wonder if my confessor has the right to give me these special rules. When the priest tells us something in confession can we accept this as final and definite? A. Although the individual priest is not infallible even in matters of faith and morals he does speak for God and when he gives direction in the sacrament of Penance he must be obeyed. Only if there is some solid reason for ques tioning his advice or direction should another confessor be sought. In all ordinary situa tions a Catholic is quite safe in following the advice or di rection of the confessor. If he makes a mistake it is upon his head. For a person troubled with scruples it is es sential that he obey the con fessor. By definition a scru pulous person is one w'ho can not judge rightly in moral matters. He must rely on his confessor and obey the con fessor (as all Catholics should) as the voice of Christ. Any disagreement among priests on moral matters gener ally has to do with complica ted questions. In confession in particular cases the priest has the common moral teach ing of the Church to guide him and the power of the sac rament of Holy Orders. Th# penitent can and should follow his advice and direction. Send questions to Father Ed ward F. Healey. Inquiry Cor ner, The Catholic Times, Box 636, Columbus (16), Ohio. THE CATHOLIC TIMES Published Every Week by The Catholic Times. Inc. Columbus, Ohio NOTICE: Send All Change of Address to O. 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