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Helpful Suggestions in the Busy Lives of Modern Washington Women ■ ■■ 11 * ———**^♦ * 11 ■—i— - - Washington Acquires New Furniture Types That Really Delight Eye “ Examples of Beauty Provide Well for Bride Who Is Making Choice of Equipment for Home. BY BETSY CASWELL. MORE and more the good type of modern furniture seems to be invading the shops of Washington. In place of the old angular horrors commit ted in the name of Modernism, we have placed before us, for our choice, piece after piece of household equip ment that is truly a delight to the eye. The very simplicity of line and color tone is restful and charming—I was reauy surprised: and Immensely pleased to see the : many evidences of beauty and good taste en compassed by the new chairs and sofas, tables and ornaments, just being unpacked and set out for display here and there. Certainly the 1935 bride has i many things to | help her in mak ing her choice of Betsy Caswell. . i____ a » V. V/UJV.VIM VilV. V* her new home. Brown and fawn seem to be the most preferred for living room arrangements at the moment. These harmonizing tones combine so smoothly with the copper-banded furniture, and copper accessories, as well as with the many delightful knick-knacks made of cop per-colored mirror glass, that a room done in this manner is easy to as lemble to suit the individual taste. For instance, in the living room Illustrated, where the furniture and general decor is distinctly modern in feeling, the sofa is In brown and fawn striped chenille. The arms are completely covered in brown, and the welting is in brown. The chair repeats the color scheme, and the glass-topped table, with a copper base, harmonizes perfectly with the general ensemble. All the accessories about the room are of copper, or in coppery tones, and the effect is warm and gra cious to a degree. Such a room would always be In good taste, for neither the coloring nor the pieces themselves are so exagger ated as to be "faddy'' in any way. Silvery white, combined with either palest green or heavenly blue, is muen favored for bedrooms just now. White slatted blinds, with either white or contrasting bands, give a charmingly diffused light, which is restful to the eyes and yet do not give the room such a pall of gloom as do the darker, solid type of blind. White rugs—very im practical, of course, but oh, so pretty! are much in evidence. One way of solving the white rug problem and combining utility with beauty, may be found in the white goat-hair rugs, which are thickly embroidered with pastel-hued tropical flowers and birds. These do not soil so easily, are small enough to be taken up and shaken well and wear surprisingly long. On a dark, polished floor, in a white-toned bed room, they produce a delightfully •ilvery and delicate effect. White-carved cornice* conceal the poles supporting ethereal white, chin kled organdy curtains, lush with ruf fles, which I saw in one model bed room. They were as dainty and airy as a moonbeam, and would be charm ing in a young girl’s room. The wall paper here was also on the pastel, delicate tone, carrying out the fresh, youthful effect. Another point which I have noticed recently Is that accessories are being chosen more and more with care and thought to their position as an in tegral part of the room in which they are to be. The old haphazard idea of ‘‘anything goes," as far as a vase or lamp is concerned, is rapidly disap pearing. Clever brides and housekeep ers are becoming ruthless in weeding out unnecessary ornaments. Even if they cannot afford at the moment to repiace them with some more appro priate piece they do without either, rather than spoil the effect of a lovely room by one jarring note. In this they show wisdom, for a room rarely suffers from what it lacks in the way of or namentation—but oh, how some of them do suffer from an overabundance of it! You know how, if you see a hat that does not go with anything else in your wardrobe, and temptation triumphs over commonsense, you either never wear the hat, because there is nothing to go with it—or you spend a lot of money to purchase a dress and accessories just on purpose to set it off. Unfortunately, a whole room is not such a simple matter to settle—but the offense is just as great in introducing the discordant note. And, most of us, when we have made such a mistake, have to stick by it, until the furniture wears out, the article breaks and the paint peels off j the walls! So do choose wisely and | well, down to the littlest ash tray, i that your four w'alls may hold nothing within their confines that you in stinctively rebel against. In a modem room beware of too ] much metal tubing and sharp angles. S A little is good, when handled with judgment and restraint—too much looks like a so-called futuristic play room of the roaring 20s. Leather coverings are beautiful and practical, unless chosen In too light a shade. They are expensive, in the initial pur chase, of course, but give splendid service in the long run. However, here in Washington, thought must also be given to Summer weather, and if you buy leather chairs and sofas plan to get straw matting seats and backs for them for the dog days. Otherwise, both your friends and your furniture will suffer! And, by the way, did you ever try the tropical trick of putting thin straw matting on your bed for the hot nights? It is so much cooler to lie on than sheets, and will thus insure you more hours of relatively comfortable slumber when Summer really decides to descend upon us. If you wish adviee on your indi vidual household problems, write to Betsy Caswell, in care of The Star, inclosing stamped, self-addressed en 1 velope for reply. Ice Is an Aid to Beauty Young Girl With Normal or Oily Skin Benefits Most. BY LOIS LEEDS. THERE is a difference of opinion in beauty circles about the ad visability of using ice as a facial astringent. But different viewpoints among experts are hot unusual. You have to use your own common sense in the debatable matters or else follow the advice of the specialist in whom you have most confidence. I. myself, am a believer in cold water for the complexion and ice, too, under certain conditions, but I do not advise everybody to use them. The young girl with a normal or oily skin benefits most from this aort of treatment. She should be In good health, too. I don't recom mend Ice or too much cold water for women with dry skins and deli cate health. The woman who is not healthy enough to get a good, warm reaction from the use of cold ap plications should avoid them until her circulation and general physical tone are Improved. Ice. when used, should never be rubbed directly on the skin. A film Of facial cream wiU afford a cer tain amount of protection from the cold, but the Ice should also be wrapped in a handkerchief. A bet ter way to use ice for refreshing and refining the skin is to rub it over a cotton mask. This treatment is for oily, tired skins with en larged pores. The face and neck are first thoroughly cleansed, mas saged and wiped with a skin tonic. Clean absorbent cotton is moistened in witch hazel or other astringent lotion and molded over the face and throat like a mask. The ice rub fol lows for several minutes. The mask is then removed and the skin thor oughly dried. The treatment may be given once a week. One objection to the use of ice on the face, according to one writer on the subject, is that there may be a tendency to encourage red veins on the wings of the nose and cheeks, such as are seen on faces of out door workers and sportsmen. This does not seem to me a valid objec tion, however. The use of ice and ice water on the face for, say, three minutes a day or less frequently, is not at all comparable to the con tinuous hours of exposure to the ele ments for days and months that produce that weather-beaten look. Of course. If you already have these red veins in your face, It would be foolish to expose them to unnecessary ex tremes of temperature. » *C-he*e Outwork -Motif (vie Quickly CDone PATTERN 5161 Here are some cutwork motifs that will be just the thing to use on those imall linens that make such nice pick-up work in warm weather. Pillow eases, towels, tray cloths, scarfs are a few of the things you can make. You can do the motifs in one or varied colors as you wish. In pattern 5181 you will find a transfer pattern of a motif 5x11 inches, two motifs. 514x814 inches, two and two reverse motifs each of two 414x514 Inch comers; detail instructions for cutwork with illustrated stitches; material requirements and suggestions for the use of the motifs. To obtain this pattern send 10 cents In lUmp# or coin to thi Woman s JSditor of The evening Star. » i Fawn, Broivn and Copper Tones Stand High in Favor Brown and fawn striked chenille, welted in brown, cover the sofa and chair above. Brown material also entirely covers the arms of the modern sofa. The glass-tof>fred table, with its cofrfrer base, repeats the metallic note of the andirons, and the stnf> on the end table of Oriental wood. _court«*r of th* H«ht co. Mother 111, Work Done By Children Patient Teaching* by Parent Results in Practical Good. BY ANGFXO TATRI. J^ACHEL got home from school and found the house darkened and still. Mother was in bed, suffering from a severe headache. "I’m so ■ sorry, Mother. I'll put the ice cap on ! it and make you a cup of tea. Don’t think about anything. I will take care of the children and get tea for j Daddy and them. Do try now tc get to sleep.” The two younger children, David and Moilie, came racing up the walk, to be suddenly hushed by the sight of Rachel standing at the side door with her finger on her lips. Softly the two tiptoed to her. “What is it, Rachel? Anything the matter with Mother?” "She has a headache. We must be as still as we can. I have your milk and cookies on the back porch. Go i up the back way to change your j clothes, and try not to make a sound.'’ So said, so done. When father came home the house was in cheerful good order. Three trim, cheerful children met him at the door, and, to his hasty inquiry, "Where is Mother?” Rachel said, "Mother is lying down with a head ache, but she is better now. She has been sleeping. I have dinner ready.” Seated about the table, the children told father how they had managed. Rachel prepared the vegetables and broiled the chops. Moilie had set the table, David had guarded the tele phone bells and the door bell, and watched to see that nobody made any noise, himself included. As a last duty, he had prepared mother's tray against the time when she would waken and perhaps want something to eat. "You’ve done well,” said father, "very well. Mother will be pleased tn lrnntr hfiir nionltr tViinirc want ulrttwr without her It will pay her for all the bother she had teaching you to do things. Remember your first burner, Rachel?” ‘‘Yes. I boiled the potatoes all to squash, and I forgot to serve the dessert, and I didn't put any salt in the spinach, and David cried, and it was pretty awful. It was mighty good of you not to throw me into the ash can that night, Daddy.” "Lucky Mother had something Jn the ice box. you mean. We would have starved. I can do pretty weU, oan’t I, Rachel?” put in Mollie. "Oh, splendidly, Molly. She did the salad all alone. Daddy.” “You’re three mighty good children, that's all I have to say. And Mother will be as proud of you as I am. Let’s wash up now and be all ready when Mother wakes up.” said Father, pre paring to do his bit. “Oh, no, no. That wouldn't do at all,” said Rachel. “You just go sit in your big chair—David has the paper ready for you. and your slip pers—and watch us clear these things away. And we won’t make a sound. You see.” Years of patient teaching had gone into this job. Many a day Mother had been tempted to say, “Run along,’ all of you. and leave me in peace and quiet to get this work done.” but she had restrained herself, taken a long breath, and once more cheerfully di rected Rachel and Molly and David to carry on the household. Not so much that the household might go on for a time without her presence, but that the children might go on when occa sion demanded. (Copyright. 1935.) Croustades. Cut crusts from day-old bread and slice about 1 Vi inches thick. Shape into circles, diamonds, hearts or tri angles. using cooky cutters and a sharp knife. With the point of a small knife, cut around the top y4 inch inside the edge, then carefully dig down with a fork and remove the center to within Vi inch of the bot tom. Toast these bread shells a golden brown, turning frequently so that they will brown evenly. Or they may be brushed with melted butter and browned In a moderate oven. To serve, dip the edges in melted butter, then in finely chopped parsley and fill the centers with toy creamed or • It king ■> ^ I Smart Women’s Choice Tailored Shirtmaker Frock Has Innumerable Uses. BY BARBARA BELL. SMART women the world over love the shirtmaker frock. They wear It all day long. In linen or cotton for active sports, and in plain or small-patterned silks for lunch at the country club, or those hours of shopping when they must be comfortable, but very smart. It has innumerable uses and infinite possibilities as to color and material. The dress Illustrated is one which gives all the nice details of perfect tailoring. Inverted pleats in front and back of the skirt insure perfect freedom in walking and give a sug gestion of flare, which is new this season. The blouse has a back pleat, too, and a very becoming notched collar. Included in the pattern are big, roomy pockets which you will want if you are to use the dress for sports. Barbara Bell pattern No. 1584-B comes in sizes 14, 16, 18 and 20, 40 and 42. Corresponding bust measure ments 32, 34, 36, 38, 40 and 42. Size 16 (34) requires yards 36-inch or 39-inch material for dress as illus trated; % yards of contrasting ma terial for vestee. BARBARA BELL, WASHINGTON STAR. Inclose 25 cents in coins for Pattern No. 1584-B. Size. Name ... Address ..... (Wrap coins securely in paper.) .———■ a ■* J^<3^-3 Send for the Barbara Bell Pattern Book. Make yourself attractive, prac tical and becoming clothes, selecting designs from the 104 Barbara Bell well planned, easy-to-make patterns. Interesting and exclusive fashions for little children and the difficult junior age; slenderizing, well cut patterns for the mature figure; afternoon dresses for the most particular young women and matrons and other pat terns for special occasions are all to; be found in the Barbara Bell Pattern Book. -■ I The Old Gardener Says: Some garden makers complain that it is impossible to grow nas turtiums because of the black bugs which collect on the under part of the leaves. These bugs are reaUy plant lice and are not at all difficult to control if taken in hand early. If neglected, however, they will multiply with exceeding rapidity and will do much damage. Sometimes, in fact, they cause the leaves to turn yellow and perhaps to fall before their presence is suspected, be cause of the fact that they work out of sight under the leaves The one sure method of extermi nating this pest is to spray the under side of the leaves fre quently, using some nicotine preparation like Black Leaf 40, to which a little soap has been added. A tin spray pump, which costs less than $1, will do the work satisfactorily. Spraying should be continued at frequent intervals. .. . iCoprrlsht. less.) Diet Order Gives Need For Health NTancy Page Records Call for Milk and V egetables. BY FLORENCE LA GANKE. gLEANOR was not being too ener getic these days. She had been, so her physician said, an almost ideal patient with but one exception. She did not want to follow his dietary orders. She said she did not like green vegetables, she despised cod liver oil and she had no love for milk. If she were given her way she would have lived on bread, jelly and other spreads, meat, candy and nuts. “I hate to be so insistant, Eleanor." This was her husband speaking. "But you must drink more milk and eat these green vegetables. I know I sound like a doctor, but I have read enough to know that you need extra supplies of mineral salts, especially calcium. Just remember the way you have had to go to the dentist's year In and year out and you won't want to have any child of yours re peat the performance. And I know you need more roughage than you are getting.” Eleanor promised to do better. Her own reading had proved to her that the fate of first or baby teeth and even second teeth was settled largely before ever a child was born. The diet of the mother-to-be was largely responsible for strong white teeth. She knew, too. that any human body which Is having an extra amount of waste material needs to pay espe cial attention to a method of carry ing off that waste. The cellulose or woody fiber in vegetables offers a splendid broom or cleaning device for the human body. So spinach, green peas, green beans, carrots, raw cabbage and lettuce were accepted and. when she forgot her prejudices, honestly liked and en joyed. She would take a cup of cocoa and cress sandwich in the middle of the afternoon as she rested on her chaise longue with sunshine, flowers and book beside her. the was a sen sible person, at that. Cook’sCorner BT MRS CRORC.R. SERVING SIX. Salad Bowl. Cheese Strips. Olives. Pickles. Radishes. Strawberry Sherbet. Gold Cake with Creamy Frosting, Iced Coffee. SALAD BOWL. S slice* tom*toe* V« cup chopped 1 cup diced pimientos cucumbers *4 tea spoon salt 2 tablespoons '« teaspoon oaorlka chopped onion '4 cup French 3 tablespoons chon- dressing ped green peppers 8 crisp lettuce Mr cup diced celery leaves Mix all Ingredients excepting lettuce. Cover and chill two hours. CHEESE STRIPS. 2 cups pastry flour *4 cup milk 4 teaspodha baking ra cud grated cheese powder 4 tablespoons soft 4 ir.blescoons fat butter Mix flour, baking powder and salt. Cut In fat with knife. Mixing with knife, add milk. When soft dough forms pat out until one-eighth inch thick. Mix butter and cheese and spread on half the dough. Fold other half of dough over and on top cheese. Press well. Using sharp knife out into strips 2 by % Inches. Bake seven min utes on greased pan in moderate oven. GOLD CAKE. V* cup fat 1 teaspoon almond Mi cup sugar extract 4 egg yolks Mi teaspoon salt ■a cup milk Mi cup sutar 1 teaspoon lemon 1 teaspoon baking extract powder Cream fat and sugar. Add rest of ingredients and beat two minutes. Pour into greased shallow pan. Bake 20 minutes in moderate oven. CREAMY FROSTING. 3 tablespoons butter ',« teaspoon lemon 1 tablespoon hot extract cream '« teaspoon salt 1 egg yolk 1% cups sifted con 1 teaspoon vanilla fectloner's sugar. Mix ingredients. Beat well. Let stand five minutes. Mix until creamy ud frost cake. Dorothy Dix Says Are Women Spiritually, Mentally, Phys ically Inferior to Men? Dear miss dix: i win prove to you beyond a doubt that women are spiritually, men tally, morally and physically Inferior to men. No one will deny that woman has less physical strength than man, so I will pass on to the question of her mental In feriority. This Is easily proved by listening to a group of women talking. They are gossiping about their neigh bors, backbiting their friends, talking scandal, clothes, bragging about their children. If women wish to be con sidered intelligent, why don't they show intelligence when they are together? Women are certainly inferior spirit ually to men. They have been the cause of all the evil and trouble since the world began. The Bible tells how the first woman forced the apple onto a poor trusting man, just as the modern bride forces her cast-iron biscuit, leather pancakes and other gastronomic atrocities onto her goofy victim. Men are superior to women In being fair and honest. When a woman gets married she expects her husband to be good-looking, a good worker and intelligent. No man can possibly be three men in one, and that shows how unreasonable a woman is. But a man is fair. He well knows that no woman can be perfect and he doesn’t expect perfection In his wife. He takes her as she is and makes the best of it. Don't you think I have proved my point? A MAN. A NSWER—WeU, no, Mr. Man, not ’^v conclusively. I agree with you that in the higher brackets, so to speak, men are superior to women. No woman, for instance, is as strong as Jack Dempsey. There has been no woman Shakespeare, no woman Edison, no woman Raphael, no female Chopin. About the only really notable creative work woman has done has been to produce man and, taking men by and large, that’s nothing for her to be chesty about. But when you get down to the com mon or garden variety of human beings, it seems to me that women average up physically, mentally and morally pretty well with their hus bands. True, we have no women prize fighters, but we have millions of women who have the strength to get away with 18-hour-a-day jobs, while i their husbands and brothers consider themselves overworked if they labor | for 6 hours a day. — , when women gather together over their tea the conversation is pretty piffling and mostly runs to personalities and diets and reducing and what little Johnny did and little Mary said. But over their highballs don’t men discuss their golf scores and the stock market and tell the stories they heard in the sleeper, rather than discourse about weighty policies of state or the last trend in literature. And as for men playing the matri monial game fairer than women and being just enough to stand by their bargains, oh. brother, brother, how can you? Isn’t it the men who expect their wives to be both parlor orna ments and kitchen utensils: who ex pect their waves to keep perpetually young and beautiful: who expect their waves to cook and baby-tend and pinch pennies and still be able to dance the rhumba and look like a million dol lars and be gay and glamorous, while a wife is satisfied if her husband is just a good provider and reasonably domestic? Isn’t it middle-aged men who get divorces from their wives be cause they have got fat and grizzle headed, but did you ever hear of a 1 — - woman divorcing her husband because he developed a bay window and had got bald-headed? Be fair, Mr. Man. Women have plenty of faults, but so have men. Both men and women were cut off the same bolt of cloth. DOROTHY DIX. * * * * r\EAR MISS DIX: I have been mar ^ ried eight years. Have two chil dren, a girl of 6 and a boy of 2. My husband la sensible. Makes a fair living. Doesn't drink, gamble or flirt. Is devoted to the children. We have a nice home and he stays home most of the time. So far so good. The trouble is I am careless by na ture and my husband is very exact and punctual. He has tried to teach me to be careful, but no matter how hard I try I simply can't do it. At my first sign of carelessness my hus band starts picking on me. He scolds me, insults me, calls me names and has got me so miserable that I am seriously thinking of leaving him. The only thing that keeps me with him is the children. If not for these argu ments we would have been as happy a couple as could be found, but when he begins insulting me I actually go crazy. Would you advise me to leave him? THIRTY-ONE. Answer—I would advise you to meet the situation with intelligence instead of hysterics. Why don’t you use a i little sense In solving your problem? Why don’t you say to yourself: "I have : a fault, a serious defect in my char 1 acter, one that is about to ruin not only my life but the lives of my hus band and children, and I am going to correct It. I am going to overcome it. I am not going to let the peace and happiness of my home be wrecked by my propensity for procastination and my habit of strewing things about and never doing anything accurately.” ■You say you have tried to cure yourself of your carelessness, but you haven’t tried hard enough. You haven’t put your whole determination J into it. You haven't brought every bit of will power you have to bear on it. You haven't used your brains in figuring out ways to outwit your personal devil and get the better of him. You are like the drunkard who swears off drinking and then takes a glass to celebrate his good resolution. Or you are like the drug addict who indulges in a few shots on the sly when he Is trying to break himself of ! the morphia habit. The only way to reform is to reform. Just to shut your teeth and say to yourself you *ill overcome a fault or die In the attempt. ■ YOU will commit a crime against j your children if you deprive them ' of a good home and a good father be cause you resented his scolding you ; for your slopplness. When they ask j you: “Mother, why haven't we any ! father like other children? Mother. | why did you leave father?'* it will I seem a mighty poor excuse when you have to tell them that it was because you wouldn't have dinner on time or ; sweep under the beds or put the top on the toothpaste tube. And remember that when you try to support your children you will fhjd that employers are not more toleratt of carelessness than your husband is. and that it will be just as much a bar to your success in business as it is to your success in matrimony. Of course, nobody likes to be scolded, but if you will try to correct your care lessness your husband will be so pleased he will meet you halfway and try to encourage you, and you will get pats on the back instead of the ; hammer. DOROTHY DIX. (Copyritht, 1935.1 Vegetables Need Color And Flavor Dinner of That Type Gains Standing in Food Realm. BY EDITH M. BARBER. A VEGETABLE dinner has come to *"*■ have its place on almost every restaurant menu in the last few years, j It is popular either as a luncheon or a dinner main course. Its success de j pends upon the quality of the vege i tables, upon their combination, upon the proper cooking and upon the ar rangement upon the plate. For the home meal all of these points are just as important. It is hardly necessary to say that fresh, crisp vegetables should be chosen. In selecting the kinds to combine, vegetables of contrasting texture, flavor and color should be considered. While boiled vegetables, | buttered and seasoned well, will form the mainstay of such a dinner, a more attractive and savory platter or pleu will have at least one broiled or sauted vegetable. In one of New York's best restaurants, the following combina tion is an appreciated dish. The veg- | etables are served on large. Individual plates. In the center Is a poached egg. topped with Holla ndaise aauce. It is surrounded by green peas, potato balls, rolled in minced parsley; but tered string beans, glared carrots, but tered spinach and broiled cauliflower. I The cauliflower is probably cooked as j usual, split into flowers, buttered and slipped into the broiler a moment. The result of this varied treatment of the vegetable Is most appetizing. At another restaurant, a broiled vegetable dinner is famous. Mush room caps, tomato halves, celery stalks and sweet potatoes are ar | ranged In individual oval casseroles. ; The sweet potatoes have undoubtedly 1 been parboiled before being arranged in the dish. Butter is generously spread over the vegetables, and they are either baked in a hot oven or broiled under a low flame. Some times stalks or canned asparagus are substituted for the celery. A good combination of 4he inex pensive vegetables and canned vege tables can be made to advantage also. Place a mound or mold of rice in the center of the plate and garnish with a round of pimiento. Surround with glazed onions, sauted parsnips, but tered oyster plant, buttered lima beans (canned) and spinach (canned or fresh). Glazed Onions. Peel onions and cook in a small amount of water with a dash of sugar and salt in a heavy, covered utensil until tender. When tender place in a saucepan with two tablespoons of sugar and two tablespoons of butter. Cook over a low Are until sugar Is melted. Baste with ■ the sirup and serve. Ticket Rule And Proper Bridal Gift Problem of Meeting Parents of One’s Fiance. BY EMILY POST. '•nEAR MRS POST: My mother in sists that it is improper for a girl to buy tickets and ask a boy to a dance given by a girls’ school other than her own. She claims that the girl who is inviting me first ought to invite the boy I’d like to go with, and then he would buy the tickets and ask me. And, of course. I don't agree. What is your opinion?” Answer: I am afraid I am some what bewildered by this question, but let me see. If your friend Mary goes to X school and you go to A school, can you then buy tickets for the X school dance? Or does Mary buy them and give them to you and your boy friend Tommy? Or can Tommy Just buy them at the stationery store? After all. If the tickets are on sale, why couldn’t your mother buv them and then let you invite Tommy? That sounds all right to me. Or does your mother think that Mary ought to sell tickets to Tommy? This might not help you very much unless you can count on his inviting you, and not some other girl, to go with him! As I have already said. I see no impro priety in your “having tickets” (no matter who gave them to you) and in viting him to go with you, provided he Is a boy who has given you similar in vitations, or at least made his friend ship for you unmistakably evident. “Dear Mrs. Post: I can’t find any advice to help me meet my fiance's parents. Thev live in a distant town and have written to me, but I am to meet them for the first time. Please help me to say the right thing.” Answer: Such greetings can only be friendly and warm if they are said spontaneously. But the m-aning would be: “I am so glad to see you at last," or "Jim has told me so much about you I feel as though I’ve known pou all along,’’ or whatever Is true and ;herefore natural for you to say. “Dear Mrs. Post: My brother, who is well established in life, is marrying a widow who also has no end of pos lessions. and any wedding present of diver or linen or furniture would be useless to them. What could you luggest to send them?” Answer: I don’t know what you can io except to ask them to tell you lomethlng they would like from you. [f they have no Ideas, then you will lave to make the best choiee you can. (Copyright. 1935.) Pay While Learning to Fly. Yeedon, England, airport has started t pay-as-you-fly flying school for ihop girls, stenographers, insurance Uerfcs and garage workers.