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Readers7 Clearing: House REQUESTS? I (From Mrs. R. M. W., Washington.) \ We shall soon be leaving Wash ington for far away. The RCH has been one of the most instructive and enjoyable items for me. Please for give me if I act piggish. DUt here are several requests I would like answered before I leave. I have two children, 3 and 1 years. ■ I plan to take a compartment to the coast. How can I sleep the children, especially the baby, so they won’t roll ofT the beds on the train. I could put one beside me, but what about the other? I have a big box ol discarded and broken toys, the latter: could be repaired. Is there a w-elfare agency here that can use these toys and repair the broken ones? Is there a trick to painting ceilings so that paint won't run down the arms? Has any one ever had any luck buying cloth for children's snow suits by the yard? I've been looking for ages but have never found it. Now- for one little suggestion, I've sent in a couple before, so I don't feel like a complete parasite. In making packaged puddings, if you Use 3 cups of milk instead of 2, you get a less rubbery texture r.nd more pudding. I often use 2 cups of canned milk, plus 1 of water, too. * * * * PIANO PRACTICE. (From Mrs. G. L. W., Washington.) To Mrs. D. K. S., Silver Spring, you are indeed fortunate that your 8>2 year-oid boy wants to practice: most don't, you know. From my own youthful experience, may I offer the following comments in case they) may fit your boy? He sounds so much as I felt as a beginner. He probably doesn't have self-confidence, and Important Twosome By Barbara Bell An Important outfit for your *pring-into-summer repertoire — a clever blouse coupled with a good looking skirt. This blouse has saucy sleeves, slimming peplum and bows for trimming. The skirt is •traight and has excellent lines. Barbara Bell Pattern No. 1504 eomes in sizes 12. 14. 16, 18, 20; 40 and 42. Size 14 blouse, 2 yards of 35 or 39 inch fabric; skirt, l's yards. For this pattern, send 20 cents, in coins, your name, address, pattern number and size wanted to Barbara Bell, The Washington Star. P. O. Box 99, Station G, New York 19. N. Y. Colorful, exciting, smart . . . the Spring and Summer pattern book. A free pattern for a hat and bag ensemble is printed in the book. Price 15 rents. r Mammy Goes to Town By Peggy Roberts A real, funny Southern mammy, cooking and tasting and making flapjacks on your tea towels, will add a lot of pep to the kitchen. Pattern envelope contains hot-iron transfers for seven designs, color chart, stitch illustrations and full directions. Our 60-page multicolored book of Needle Arts containing five free pat terns and many other suggestions for dressing up your home and your self is now available. Send your request for this book to the address listed below, inclosing 20 cents in coins to cover the cost and mail ing charges. Send 15 cents <coin> for Pattern No. R2392 to Needle Arts Depart ment, The Washington Star. P. O. Box 172, Station D, New York 3. N. Y. Please include your postal lone number. Contributions and requests must be accompanied by the sender's full name and address. We will withhold both and use only initials. Please address mail to the Readers’ Clearing House, Woman’s Page, The Evening Star, Washington 4. Views expressed in the Clear ing House are not necessarily those of The Star, and as it is obviously impossible for us to test all recipes submitted, we cannot assume responsibility for them. Betsy Caswell. therefore won’t cease to oe self-; conscious, until he’s had a good deal ; more than two months’ study, just how' long would depend on his prog ress. Better avoid the appearance of constantly listening, but if you1 "just happen to be around,” occa sionally and compliment him ->n a well-executed bit, it would encour-l age him. However, the comment must be well chosen and sincere or your purpose might be permanently ' defeated, for he would lose confi dence in your opinion. A child’s ideal is perfection, not mediocrity, so be careful in timing your praise. Criti cism of his temporary failures should be avoided, he probably knows how it should sound and is doing his best to achieve that and criticism W’ould make the temporary defeat more bitter. It might be encouraging to him if you would explain that he may struggle w'ith a difficult passage or exercise for weeks, appearing to make no progress, and then one day 1 to find that he can execute it with perfect ease. He won’t be convinced, until he has experienced it himself,, but the actual experiencing of what you told him would happen would bring it home to him, and also would inspire confidence in you and make him more amenable to sugges tions from you. Perhaps it might help to divide the practice period, separating two sessions at the piano with some occupation requiring 1 physical activity to relax the tense 1 muscles. As for his enjoying his music, I ; don’t think you have to worry. He enjoys H, or he wouldn't want to practice. The harder he concen trates. the more he loses himself in ; his music and therein lies the en joyment of it. (From Mrs. W. C„ Washington.) Perhaps my experience with piano practice may help Mrs. D. K. S , Keep busy, out of sight, but in hear ing distance of the practicing. One: must concentrate to practice and! close supervision is distracting. If I heard my son getting too frus-' trated over mistakes, I w’ent to the ; piano with a little treat, such as a bit of fruit or a cookie for him, but i never a word about the music unless , it was something cheerful. The | short pause would break the mo-i notony and refresh his mind so that j he was able to correct his mistakes with no help from me. Don’t help 1 unless asked. Of course the "treat" j should only be done occasionally, j1 on those specially difficult, days. Try i to arrange the practice time so that : it does not interfere with play time, j To be called from his playmates toi practice is apt to cause a dislike for the piano. Don’t worry about his playing before an audience. When he learns well enough, that* will take care of itself. It isn’t easy j to keep a boy happy at the piano for enough years to make his music of any use to him. but I’ve found that it was w'orth all it cost in time and patience. My son. a scientist,, now finds it’s a great relaxation from work. (From Mrs. J. A. A., Woodbridge, Va.) Mrs. D. K. S„ who wishes her ; child lo be interested in his piano ; study should first make sure that ! he has a good teacher, and let me say here, that a degree does not al- j ways make a fine teacher. Listen1 to his playing and make sure that : he is being taught the l ight basic; work such as correct time, scales,1, chord inversion, finger exercises.' etc., and that his playing has good j expression. If he has much diffi-1 culty have him take extra lessons' for awhile. Then let the child and' his teacher both alone. His teacher has her method and when she wants vou to sit by his side when he goes to the piano she will ask you to. i When he asks you to tell him a note, do so. but not until he does ask. He has little now to play for others, but he will be glad to show off when the time comes. Since he wants to practice, your part is easy, just listen. Don't criticize his playing and point out to him his mistakes or he will soon have little respect for his teacher and pay no atten tion to you and you will have frus trated your own desire. * * * * BREAD SOUP. (From Mrs. W. F. Ba., Takoma Park, Md.) To Mrs. B. A. L„ Silver Spring, who requests the recipe for bread soup. Cut up in small pieces one or two heels of old but not dry bread. Put several tablespoons of butter in a saucepan and when hot, add the bread and toast it until oread is a golden brown. Be sure to stir all the while and do not1 have the flame too high or it will burn. Now add 2 cups of hot water and bring to a boil, add 1 cup of rich milk (part cream is best* and bring to a boil again. Add salt to taste. * * * * UNFINISHED FURNITURE. (From M. W. W.. Arlington.) In answer to a question about un finished furniture, I would suggest the use of a waxy stain, which gives a finish like that of a commer cially done piece with a minimum of effort and inconvenience. For the amateur, this product does a better job than any done by paint, varnish stain, or stain and elim inates the necessity of using pum ice. This product is carried usually by only one paint store in a city and can be located by referring to the classified paint section of the phone book. , I — (From E. A., Washington.) For Miss L. W.. Washington, who wishes to know about refinishing furniture, in my house, I have two bureaus, a dining room table, din ing room chairs and a china cabi net (cover-typei which were bought in the unfinished state. I do not. think any one seeing them would realize it. I have also done over a second-hand bureau which was originally golden oak. It is now walnut finish. I began with the dining room table and chairs. They come properly sanded. Use a val spar type of varnish which con tains the stain you wish. (I use1 walnut because I like it best.) After the first coat and when it is thor oughly dry, sandpaper with fine sandpaper and finally rub down with steel wool. Then give it a second coat. Do the same after that. Finally I used clear varnish and sandpapered and steel-wooled again. Then I waxed. The finish has lasted well. It does not mar under hot dishes with no more pro tection than the tablecloth and even water spilled on it causes nothing more than a very temporary light >pot which disappears within min •ltes when it is wiped dry. The second-hand bureau dates oack about 12 years. At first did rothing to change it from the gold ;n oak because it didn’t clash too iadly with its surroundings and I hought I wouldn't want it when 1 eft. The piece has unique draw lulls, and was quite spacious. When t wanted it walnut, I took off the iriginal finish with a paint and .arnish remover, and then sand lapered with coarse and fine sand laper and washed off the dust thus :reated with turpentine. It must lave used plenty of turpentine as [ remember. Then I proceeded as vith the table and chairs. If you inish your own furniture, be con >ervative in the color and stain ised. I think in the long run :hose pieces which are finished nore nearly like conventional fur riture create less of the impres sion of a home-made job. One al ways recognizes furniture painted n colors as originally unpainted A'are while that stained walnut, nahogany or maple can pass as eal furniture if it has been care ullv finished. To my mind, the eal trick is in the sandpapering rnd sleel-wooling. Don’t rush it. Be satisfied to use a fine sandpaper *nd go over it more often. A coarse sandpaper will make more scratches, rhe same is true of the steel wool. 'T ^ -T WAFER BANANA PUDDING. (From M. E. M., Washington.) Two cups scalded milk, \ cup iugar or honey, sirup, % teaspoon 'alt. '3 cup flour, 2 eggs separated, l1.* teaspoons lemon juice, vanilla >r lemon, spice, ginger, etc. Three nedium-sized ripe bananas, sliced, vafers. Scald milk in double boiler. 31end sugar, or sirup or honey, salt, lour. Add scalded milk gradually, itirring until it thickens. Cook i5 ninutes, stirring occasionally. Pour, itirring slowly, on the beaten egg oiks, then back into double boiler, itir, cook 2 minutes longer, add emon juice, cool. Line bottom of f-inch pudding dish with wafers on “dge around the side of dish, then tdd layer of sliced bananas over vafers in dish, pour over half of the ■ustard, add a layer of wafers over he bananas, then a layer of sliced wnanas, pour in the remaining cus ard, dish should not be full up to op. Break enough wafers in half 0 stand up around inside edge all 1 round dish. Then heap over pud ling meringue of whites of eggs teaten into peaks with 2 tablespoons uigar, sprinkle with lemon juice. 3ake 300-degree oven, 15-20 min ttes. Serve cold from dish. * * * * GINGERBREAD? (From Mrs. A. D., Washington.) Will some one send in her recipe or old-fashioned dark gingerbread, he lucious kind that is filled with valnuts and raisins? + + * CONSERVATION HINTS. (From Mrs. C. E. S., Bethesda.) I am much interested in the ques-; ions and suggestions regarding ood conservation lor I am deeply •oncerned over the plight of the jecple the world round who are •ufTering because of the present ood situation. And so I want to >ass on two suggestions. On look ng over my recipe for lace wafers, [ suddenly realized how it admira >ly answered the demands of the :urrent crisis, it produces a delicious tookie but takes almost no wheat or at. Two tablespoons shortening, l cup sugar, 1 tablespoon flour, 2 ?ggs, ’2 teaspoon salt, >2 teaspoon tutmeg, 2'2 teaspoons baking pow ler, 1 teaspoon vanilla. Cream shortening and sugar together. Beat ?ggs and add. Add salt, nutmeg, latmeal, flour and baking powder ind mix well. Add vanilla. .Drop jy teaspoonfuls on greased cookie iheet, about 2 inches apart as they ipread while baking. Bake at 350 iegrees, 12 to 15 minutes or until ightly brow’ned. Remove at once vith a spatula or bread knife. Secondly, with regard to uses for itale bread, I have discovered that ine crumbs lend themselves to other ypes of cookies than the regular Head crumb cookie. I experimented vith the chocolate chip cookie and ound I could make a most accept ible cookie by substituting 1 cup mead crumbs and >2 cup flour for he 1\ cups flour called for by he original recipe w’hich came from he chocolate chip package. From nv success with this I should not resitate to make similar substitu tions in other cookie recipes. * w- w w CLEANING SILVER. STRAW HAT? (From E. S. D.. Washington.) I want to offer a timely warn ing against the hot water and soda method of cleaning silver. I can speak from a very sad experience. The soda removed the oxidiaed treatment (the dark treatment in the engraved pattern, put in espe cially to bring out the beauty of the pattern) and gave the pieces a yellowish cast and mSide it look slightly rough. The beauty of ster ling silver lies in the satiny sheen and true silver color that only rub bing after a safe polish can give it. Hot-water soaking is dangerous to some pieces, such as knives, serv ing pieces with soldered handles, and candlesticks. Extremely hot water softens the lead used in sol dering handles and weighing can dlesticks. Lastly, silver should never be handled in piles or jumbled to gether because it causes countless little scratches. I keep my polish handy to the sink and clean silver as it is needed. Keep it in a truly iarnish-proof chest and never have to clean the whole lot at a time. Can some one tell me how to clean a good straw hat? It is small, red, and of very fine soft, pliable straw. It is slightly soiled all over and I hope there is something I could use to wipe or sponge the soil off safely. “THANK YOU” NOTE. 'From Mrs. D. E. A., Washington.) Thank y\>u so much for sending in the answers to my problem on waterproofing rooms. They have been of great help and I am deeply grateful. * * * * RENOVATING COMFORTS? (From Miss G. W., Washington.) I have been a reader of RCH for some time and although I have received many helpful suggestions, I have not seen anything about renovating down comforts* I have a down-filled comfort on which the silk cover has begun to split, allow ing the down to leak out. So am wondering if any one knows how I may have it recovered or how I can do it myself. Any sugges tions will be greatly appreciated. * * * * VERSES? (From N. R. F., Washington.) Will some one be so kind as to send in the verses to “Mammy's Little Baby Loves Shortenin' Bread"? * * * * CLEANING COPPER. . (From Mrs. I. F.. Arlington.) For Mrs. B. S., Washington, for cleaning copper and brass, try using the soap pads that come boxed for cleaning aluminum, etc. There are several varieties on the shelves. Step, step, step out in the lower and lower heeled shoe. No longer a rage or a fad, low-heeled favor ites have become a standard shoe fashion. Pictured are some of the newest “flatties.” They range in leathers from rough suedes, pol ished kids, patents, buckskins and crushed goatskin to the very newest of all, cobra and Python skins. As for colors, you’ll find many of them in scarlet and greens, and navy and black, not to mention a bevy of suedes dyed in shades to match and blend with your summer dresses. Dorothy Dix Says— Dear Miss Dix: I am 17 years old and have just graduated from high school. I am madly in love with a girl of my own age and we in tend to be married at once. I think that there is nothing better than for a couple who love each other to be married and have children while they are young so that they may enjoy a happy family in the flow'er of their youth rather than wait un til they are middle-aged. Don't you agree with me in this? AN UNDECIDED YOUTH. Answer—I certainly do not. I think that there is nothing truer than the old proverb that ‘ a young man married is a young man marred,” and that for a boy of 17 to take unto himself a wife is for him to commit a crime not only against himself, but against the poor, silly little girl who accom panies him to the altar. Of course, miracles happen now and then, and once in a blue moon a child marriage escapes going on the rocks, but statistics show that young marriages are rarely success ful. They end in divorce far oftener than do the marriages of mature people. I get thousands of letters a year from the unhappliy married and practically every one of them begins: "I married too young.” And that is perfectly logical and inevitable because teen-age boys and girls are still growing and changing, mentally and spiritually, just as much as they are physically, and they do not know themselves what they are going to be when Why Grow Old? Hy Josephine Lawman xne uuier aay i assea my momeri how old she is. She said. "Honestly, I don't know' offhand. Let's see—what do you want to know for?” "No special reason,” I replied. It’s just natural for an offspring to won der howr old its parents are, I guess.” I thought she was teasing me and a little later left the room. When I returned mother was at her desk wdth a pencil and paper, working on some figures. I asked her what she was doing and she said she was "counting up her age.” "For goodness sake, don't do it eyen if you aren't very old. I think it is wonderful to be that uncon scious of age.” But she continued, "I'm curious about it myself now.” Actually, mother has always been one of the youngest, prettiest women I have ever known, and that’s not just because I love her. She has a skin which puts most younger women to shame. She also has the youthful mental attitude of enjoy- j ! ing life as it comes and a sweet dis position. She has always been better able to adapt herself happily to changing circumstances than any one I have ever known. She typifies w'hat I think the attitude toward years should be. 1 It, is not a matter oi preiemuug to be younger than one is. This course highlights one's age and keeps it even more painfully in the foreground of consciousness than the usual attitude. However, why do so many women count each year so carefully ^tnd then seem to plan what they want and what they do by what ihe calendar says is right? I just do not see how life can be measured in years and remain vital and exciting! Those who are busy living and enjoying it are the ones who seldom think of years at all. Of course, there is always some one who says, “at your age.” The funny thing to me is that I do not remember ever having heard that phrase with a happy connota tion. It is always brought forth in connection with something like creaking joints or not knowing how to jitterbug. I have never heard any one say, “At our age, isn’t it wonderful? Now heavier responsibilities are lessened. I can do this or that which I have wanted to do for so long,” or “At our age we have more sense, or more fun. or more joy out of living, or more love.” If the phrase, “at our age,” begets such dreary thoughts and attitudes it seems it had better be left unsaid. If you want ybur roofing done the right way, depend on Rose Brothers Roofing Co., Inc. That puts you on the safe side | We have been recognized expert Roofers since | 1892—with the biggest buildings in Washington I 1 —private and Federal to our credit—also thou | sands of private homes—enjoying long-time sat = isfaction. § ! • I We are ready to execute any job—with the re | quired materials and a corps of workmen trained ! § in the Rose Brothers way, and who have served 1 | with us up to 20 years and more. I • I | Your call will bring us promptly—giving you an f | estimate you’ll appreciate—and service that will 1 | be assuredly satisfactory. § I Office and Plant just across the river— 5 | 1441 North Nineteenth Street, Arlington. § I i | Rose Brothers4Company | | Arlington Chestnut | 1 Va. 1223-1224 | if 1 they are adult. Nothing is further from the truth than that when boys and girls marry they will grow up together and have the same tastes and habits and points of view. It is pure luck if they develop along the same lines. Of the two who seemed on a par in their teens one may be a star in the 20s and the other a dim wit. Also, there is a practical side to consider. Few boys in their teens have any way of supporting a fam ily, and no marriage can be happy in which incapable children are wrestling with the problem of how to make a living. And many a boy who had it in him to go far never rises above mediocrity because he is sunk by the wife ahd babies tied around his neck, r 1 g*f p^ ^ (hk fa BUTCH NORCROSS GREETING CAROS l ..“"i ‘Shop-Talk’ By Dorothy Bihinian a word to male shoppers on their; floral purchasing for this coming Easter Sunday. Orchids have always been associated with the “money” set, but^since the general public has come to realize that in spite of its comparative high cost (especially around the holidays) and fragile ap pearance it is one of the hardiest of cut flowers, the orchid has reached the top in popularity. Here's a tip for recipients! We always found it worked wonders. Dampen a small piece of absorbent cotton and place it gently in the “tongue” of the orchid. Put the corsage back in the box between the shredded tissue, then place the box in the refrigera tor. Properly treated an orchid will be wearable for many days. Spicy scented gardenias are a ''surefire'1 choice unless your lady fair hap pens to be allergic to the fragrance. The snowy white bloom will go with any costume—be it tailored suit or ficval print. For the subdeb age, W'hether she be your best girl, or vour daughter, by all means con sider sweetpeas. The various pastel: colorings of this bloom are dainty and sweet and go well with her un sophicticated ensemble. Violets are another favorite for Easter and the color of this flower certainly is ap propriate for the day. You might consider camellias for they are lovely yet aren’t as popular as some of the above-mentioned flowers so you won’t see so many duplicates of your gift. If you men have any bright ideas of your own for an un usual corsage arrangement, you mignt suggest it to tne norm ana u time, help and equipment are avail able he'll co-operate. Honest to goodness, since the men have returned to the fold, all we hear is bowling. In fact, we've heard so much about it that we decided the conclusion was to get Interested ourselves or become a ‘'bowling widow.” This having happened to us B. W. (before wart we knew some where around we'd find a pair of bowling shoes. Yep, under the back seat of the auto. The shoes proved good enough to wear on the alley, but mighty soiled to be cairying Back and fbrth. Rather than invest in a new pair, we scouted around and found a nice “toter” made especially for this purpose. If you're interested you'll find this well-made canvas bag is equipped with zipper closing and a strong handle for con venient carrying. It also has a card holder w'here you may place your name and address—this in case Joe Blow mistakes it for his. A new pot cleaner on the market Is made of Monel, a rustproof alloy containing approximately two-thirds nickel and one-third copper. They claim it will not rust or corrode un der the influence of soap or other cleansing agents and is soft and pli ant so that it will not injure your hands. This pot cleaner differs from most in that it is knitted in one pure roll. This construction prevents un raveling as well as splintering. How ever, it can be unrolled for cleaning purposes. Neighborly Co-operation By Atigeto Patri Rearing a child from birth through adolescence is a 24-hour round-the-year job and anybody who thinks it is an easy one is very much mistaken. The child who never gave his parents trouble of some sort is yet to be born. Most parents get on well with the chil dren while they are children and behave in childish ways. The real difficulty begins when the children are half-fledged, the adolescent pe riod. At this time the children, both boys and girls, are a bit unbalanced. It is as though they had one long, sturdy leg and one short wobbly one. They waver between child hood and maturity. Sometimes they behave with adult discretion and the next moment relapse in child ishness, tears and complaints and even threats. There is no royal road through this period. The children suffer and their parents suffer with them. If during their childhood, the chil dren have been kept close to their parents by affectionate understand ing that ripened with the years, the struggle is not painful, the suf fering not so prolonged, nor so keen. But, if the parents have been occupied with other interests, if they allowed the children's interests to take second place, there will be division tension and discord. The parents suddenlv discover that things are not going well with the half-grown children, that they have scant influence over them, and that other people have taken their places in the affection of the children. It is in such situations that neigh borly kindness, neighborly sympathy is demanded. When a neighbors child takes his place in your fam ily, becomes the daily companion of your son or daughter, step care fully. Study the newcomer, try to. make him happy and at ease, and’ at the same time say nothing and do nothing that will pull the child away from his home. The day is coming when that same wayward child will long for the comfort of his father’s understanding, his mother's affectionate care. Keep that fact in mind when the neigh bor’s child seems to adopt you and your family. He will, in time, when this phase of his growth is com plete, go back to his own family and you would not have the an tagonism of a neighbor darken your life. Remember that your child also, is or will be, adolescent and he will in his turn go through the stages of maturity, he, too, will struggle to find a place for him self in the outside world and adopt somebody else In your place—for a time. Do to your neighbors’ chil dren as you would have them do to yours. 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