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jp ( pi:a:itrr r,VEN'ixo kbwsj patukday ArrtTL sn. isnn. I ! The Threefold Girl. H w, i K., NoBloot of Paronts to nducato Tholr Daughters Morally as j " W II as Montally. W IV Overload Young Mnd, uilh Ano-ttedg-M,ate of Thinking Girt, ere II Angeh-lorgetUng the Animal toture Width .SlwM be Hatched and If ': D.reeted-Coachmen Lot.ng tlaident-VnUd, Itcmen-The .ridge IttUten If ; childhood and Womanhood-The l)agtroui"Old I mly triend" and the I h "Perfect Centtetnan " I "lt, It seems lo be the prevalent Mei I J" i nrnon American parent! tint Rlrls n.l I J "f 1 only menial guldsncc In tills hrc, tint I I m ll the daughter of the family Is only It- ii "' "given a chance" to study, and has her I I j1 mind crammed with knowledge, her I if r future It assured III If )ou tell them that their daughter Is II a three fold being, vvlth amoral and a III'' phjslcal nature which needs careful guld- III J ance, they will assure ou thit church III Influences and good companions stir II round her morall),nnd that, as ahe Is I J endowed with excellent heillh, there Is II no anilely about her phslcally. ft In consequence of this one Idead and 19 I shortsighted Influence ol parents, wo b !' have n vast number of astonishingly I I w ell educated girls- as lir as book cdu I cation goes who are erratic, h)slerlcnl, Wf , ailing, nnd totally unfilled for the If j exigencies and demands of wifehood If I I anil maternity when these relations I I come to her. Ji llcslde lh!, our dally pipers teem Ml 1 1 with accounts of, girls who stay aw-iy 7 Irom home In moods of mchnchol), or HI If who permit ihctrnelves to be 'kidnap K , I ped ' by v Iclous people, or w ho concel e ' Jfl j morbid nnd unaccountable puslons for Ii 3 , cotchmen and Inferiors, or otherwise il develop propensities as distressing ; '$( uneipecled to thcli losing but blind I SB ' parents. if, The moral nature of a girl needs jg I something more than a Sunday service P, ( to prepare It for the exactions of duty. J. 5 Morality means more than keeping llie H fit r ten commandments , V A man miy bo driven lo marital K ' unfallhfulncss and children to dlsilpa I jii M , and folly througli thu door of n disorder- Ii ly and uncomfortable home. 11 J The religious convert who attends C j church servico with holes In her stock- Li Ings nnd rags on her underwear, leaving , B an untidy room behind her, Is not on the , road to correct moral training li' Order was Helen's first law, and it should bo th first lesson taught a child, especially a girl Not by scolding nnd preaching, but by persistent example, j cheeiful tact, and frequent praise. Now and then a grown person may be taught a memorable lesson by a round scolding; ' but I doubt If It ever taught a child any. thing except distaste for the neglected duly and the scolder I once knew a man who, by n seiles of misfortunes H shlpn reck, Illness, and loss had become . very poor. He was reduced to one suit " of dollies, which he wore many months H while seeking for employment, jet he H I nlwasbore the appearance ol a well- 1 1 dressed gentleman Indeed, he tolled LI t to obtain one position for which lie ' applied during his dark days (a position H ( much below his station) on the (.rounds W that he "was too w ell dressed." Jf After lie again grasped Ihe reins of I) i prosperity I nsked him how he had K If y managed to present such an appearance Vf during that lime "It was all due to my H early training, he said "A more care- , less, disorderly child than I never lived My mother saw this, and made It her H duty to overcome the habit. No servant Hit was ever allowed to bang up or brush a Hi. garment lor me after 1 reached a reison H fug age. 1 was taught how lo fold, H hang, and care for my clothing, and I H was quietly told that I could have no H jif replenishing of my wardrobe until I B rfj I learned to take proper care of what I H n had. If, through hurry or laziness, I H norc acreised nnd dusty garment out H among my playfellows, my motlicr H expnssed her mortification at seeing me H present such nn appearance, and 1 w is B shamed into tidiness, while an orderly H act met with her warm praises As I H grew older my own pride came to the B rescue and spurred me to the care of H! my belongings, and it has proven a Hj priceless blessing to me all my life ' HL If this habit ol neatness w as so valuable HJ to a man, how much more valuable Is It Hj to a womanl for on woman depends the HJ ' comfort of an ordctl) 1 nme. An unlldy Ht h woman is a monstrosity to me. HJ V i A Icrvent joung convert recentl) HJ " ' asked me to tell her how she could be HJ come more like Clirlsl. ' lly darning B your stockings, hanging up j our clothes, HJ and keeping )our room In order, so that HJ jour parcnti are not ashamed to have It HJ seen by visitors." 1 rtplied "He that HJ , is lallhful In little is lalthful in much, HJ show )our love fur Christ by making HJ i those abuut )ou comfottable and liappj, HJ and no one can be comfortable or HJ happy w Ith n slatternly w oman about." HJ. It is not only in the lslblc results of HJ material comfort lint a g.Irt is benefited HJ by this training, but the habit of s)sle- HJI matlc thou,lit will follow her through Hji all the small and great matters of HJ ' life HJii Disorderly habits produce n elisor- Ht ' dcrly mind and conduct Hj. Mans moral and social relations to HJI the world ate such that uc art liable HJ to forget that la Is an nnlmal I specially HJ f do we lurgct It In regard lo )uung (.Ills HJ ' While they rolllnthesindnndbakemud HJ pies in Uie sun as children, and roar HJf with hunger, we speak of them laugh- HJ Ingly as 'vigorous joung animals" HE i "t when their swelling furmi nnd HJ j blushing checks nn I drouping lids HJ denote that Ihe child Is developing Into HJ the maiden, uo lurket inul ignore the HJ animal nature, nnd think of tliiui as HJ divine Kings with grow Inj; minds HJ etmer was there a time In a gills HJ career when tlio animal nature mtdtd HJ sui.li thought and tnreful ilireLllon h HI wise pin nls and gumlians ns during HJ theftwjears which brl ke childhooT HJ and womanhood Asldi. from wise nnd HJ dlscrtet couiklIs, a joung titl'a time HJ and mind should bu lully occupied dur- HJ , nglhuseviars To simply crowd hi r HJ ' brain with a multiplicity of studies will HJ not do, there is an excess of plisi ii HJ vitality which must bu considered. 1 he HJ air she breathes, the nourishment she HJ imbibes, the sleep she takes are all com- HE bining lo supply her with Ihe magnetic HI and electric qualities which form Ihe HJ perfect woman oa nolo ber expand- H Ing beauty, her Increased vivacity, nnd H puire delighted but remember such HJ Changes do not take pi ice witliout dls- H lurbfd emotions nnd nn excited Im itln H itlon. Outdoor (lull's or games in the H country and gvmnaslum work in the tow II, Indulged In sufliclently to rroducc n pleasant lallcue, are n great promoter of balance and nn outlet for this ixlra supply of vitality. Such excrclie should le Imposed with religious earnestness by all Judicious parents I believe the old fashioned prejudice against dancing has been productive of men phj'li-al and moral disaster In Ihe world linn all the high kicking ever done mnurthea ires, lime known an h)Slcrlcnl girl, sulfating- from insomnia nnd all mmncr of nervous troubles, lo become noinial and strong simply by dancing vigorously half nn hour every evening before retiring , ' Oh pshaw! ' ou sa, "let nature take her course. .She will set matters light In her own lime " My dear inadim or sir, ;ou should pause and nnalyjc the tnesnli nf vour words lour drvclOing child Is a growing animal hut to lei nature take her course would be inconsistent with the social and mor d obligation! resting upon her. Natures impulses are the same from Inserts uptomin but man must govern Impulse by reason and Judgment unless lie wishes to lie onl) nn an mal, Instead of the highest cxprciS ion of divlnlt) yet evolved from animal tile Iherefore, Insteidof 'letting niture take its course,' jou must direct nature's impulses by wisdom nnd care Into healthful channels. Avert overwrought Imaginations nnd excited nerves by a systematic course of cxerclso which produces thorough clrcu lation of the blood Give her pleasures suited to her age, and divert licrirlnd from dwelling too much upon herself. Let her be fatigued enough to sleep when she retires, and see lull that she gets up as soon as sho awakens "Nothing gives my daughter such pleasure as lo lie and dream." said a blind mother to me once. She Is no hand for outdoor romps, like other gill', Just give her a book and a lounge ami she will he happy all day long " "It would be better lor her health to romp outdoors nnd read less," 1 sug gested. ' Oh, she Is In excellent health; she never lias an ache or pain; lhat languid way Is natural to such dreamy tempera ments, I fincy." If 1 had told that mother what was the niture of the dreams I read In her uung daughter's eves she would have shown me ilia door. Hut let me beg of )ou to be alert nnd avoid allowing jour daughter to form this habit of languorous day dreams It is mora fascinating than any outdoor sport, once formed, and more enervat ing than the hardest labor. Many a wcakl) woman might trace her ailments back to this period of luxurious Imagin ation in her jouth'sdiwn. "Hut I never recollect any such dan- Serous period In my life, or any such iseaseil Imagination," you tell me. Quite likely. Girls of the olden time were not brought up in such case and luxury as are the klrls of today. House hold duties and the care of vouuger children devolved upon the daughters of the household Instc id of upon ser vants nnd nursemaids, as In the present time. Then, too, you may have been one of Ihe exceptions to the rule; but remember tint it Is unsafe to expect vour daughter to be exactly like ou bhe has a paternal Inheritance. Many a calm, practical mother forgets that the fathers fiery or poetic nature may ol right descend tu her daughter, nnd that it needs n more careful guarding than did her own. And the strangest fict of all Is that the father forgets or Ignores this also It Is well tu keep the fact before his eves Ills well to make him realize that a certain amount of social amusement, where games and dancing predominate, among carefully selected companions, Is n necessity to the physical and moral well being of his daughter. Call his attention to tha f act that a tightly closed vessel ol boiling steam explodes and causes devastation and destruction If it lus no outlet A human being develop ing into vigorous maturity Is like this csct, and the outlet for a portion of the surging vital forces should be made In hcalihlul pleasures and amusements When your daughter rciches the age of twelve cars at latest you should Instiuct her that it is not modest lo allow gentlemen guests nnd friends to take her upon their knees anil caress her. 1 et no false idea of keeping her "a childws lonir as possible" render otl careless In this mailer And do not nuke the foolish blunder of thinking that all your men fiiends are ' perfect gentlemen," who could not entertain nn unworthy thought toward our daugh ter: In jour quiet domestic role jou know very little of what Is going on in the minds of men ion think of jour twelvc-j car-old daughter as n child the) think of the woman she Is soon to be. 1 heir thoughts and fceiiigs arc contagious One of thu most carefully reared and severely chaperoned girls I ever knew told me that her first know ledge of evil c line to her at the ago of Ihliieen through n lifelong Irieud of her faniilj n nun old enough to be her firindfathcr, and n man occupvlng n nth social position. While she was not nlluwed in nssochte with liojs uf her own age, she w aspermitled to rectlv e the caresses of this 'line old fimlly filend ' until her own modest) gave the alarm iuu can Instil .an idea of dignity and wumanl) rcservuinto jiur littiodaui,h ler' mind nbuut these matters without destrojlng her Innocence, but even if vou must startle her -.omewlnt outof her childlike Ignon n q mid freedom of conduct, It is littler that the experience should come through jou linn through Ihe men who frequent jour house Makt jourself her confidint, that she mav avoid revealing herself in Ignorance lo dangerous conip inions of cither si x i ou tell me witli great dignity an I some severity lhat "jour diuejitcr Is not al lowed to nssociatu Willi dangerous com panions of either sex, tint jou know tier mates thorough)), and they arc ex optional joung people." My dear madam, jour words are e mply air. i ou know im mora of Ihe secret thoughts and feelings of vour diughtcrs mates than )ou know of the man in Mars. ou might bo startled nnd shocked should vou think aloud hi your presence once Ihcy are not vicious, but they are In the unformed chaotic state of which I om trjlng to warn jou iu regard lo jour own daughter, and their mln clcd curiosity, ignoran c, nnd dawnlmj Knowledge render them unsafe confi dants for one another unless there Is n svmpathetlc, wise counsellor back of them , ,, , Again jour dignity asserts Itself, and jou tell mo jour daughter his no curi osity on forbidden subjeels and no dawning knowledge and no dangerous Impulses. Then, dear madam, vour daughter is not n notmal being bhe is not In good heilih.she linn nrrrmlc To build her into it woman fitted for domestic duties she needs iron Ionics and blood foods The world will be much belter off when we get over the romantic idea that n joung till is in angelic creature who communes w Ith seraphs in the privacy of her room, nnd who is to be guarded to the very altar Heps from any knowledge of evil Such gl'ls sometimes exist, but Ihcy arc not normal beings, nnd tiiey do not make good wives nnd mothers An 1, again, gills whei have shown what jo i would term a precocious ten dency to villous thought have, when properly guarded and guided over the dangerous chasm, nude Ideal vvivrt and thu must pcrlcct mothers later In life The wise mother, when discovering this tendency fun joung girl, does not suite lo scold punith.nml sliaino her into rclorm, ahu docs not say to her 'This Is n poliuil weed root it out of Jour mind at once, prajtoGodlo aid you In casting ouf this noxious weed" I uilrml she si) s ' 1 Ills is the root of a beautiful vine, God Implanted, which by and by will make juur lilc sweet nnd fair, but if jou limine it no It will lie dwarfed or hideous, think of it vvllh reverence, and my God to guide ll w Isel) In its e.ruw ttl " 1 hen she giv cs her plenty of h-nlthful books to read and though study, and occupies all her leisure lime Willi physical cirri Ise mln glcd with agreeable companionship, until nature has accomplish'-1 in revo lutionary work and the chaotic period I ai passed and the t,irl is a woman Hut alas' and nl is1 for the scarcity of sech mothi s. I lie average Amctican gill dwells alone with her imagination nnd the con fidences of equally unwise companions through these jears, exposed tu all Ihe dangirous freedom of msoelitlon with the flapilig wings of our American raglcproclaim to all the world to be her rlgnt If she goes wrong In ever so slight a mctsure her pucnts arc crushed to the eatlli b) surprise and sorrow, but lhat she ever goes right is an Increasing won der to inn Hie more I see of Ihe worlJ and the deeper I study human nature Indeed, it speaks w ell for Ihe level head and the good heart of the American till lhat to few, comparatively speaking, make serious mistakes but tills Is due to her own Innnle woilli and not to the wisdom of her parents TLLA WlltF.LEX-U'llCOt. eooooooocoo O Worth a (lulnc.a n llov. (5 Stubborn tendencies q to digestive troubles Q in tnifi en ill nlu a s O yield to a mild doscQ 8of 8 Beecharn's Pills gCTaitttcul I f ems s toi Q oooooooo o iLirKD4Tu IeMarkot talntd n4ill 1 u J tni bu arsj c i id tut modcratc nil ou orncc it Otfot tr U. PATiNTOrncc' iniMctrtnieiuiii jtfntlllcitUBig isUoUwuj tltnot(roni .ihlns m. i &caJ modil duwiuf or rbcta , w ih dttcf lp- Jll n. tiiilvull patcnUblt cr not lrc tt 4 Aire Our Ice not du t ti pitr.t it tiitrtJ A PM"MitT, MlowtiObl.aWtcr.ti.'with; Jcort ol tutu in th L',a,ioa fjioigacum irltiS teat lite AlUeu, jC.A.SNQW&CO.j 5 OfP pATrftTOrncc Washington DC GUNPOWDER. lt tm nou (Aacf ieA tt tr lAaf Man 4ftd Aim wA9akflillAlfMWA06llAmOTft HAtno' Ktiueiy KISs." IIAXUHD'S -Trip Stoollnf IIXAKI' "TlntX SHootls iiixiHiv -mamma nuiotr UAXAUII'A bruds tksisoit MllsUs iDIUsnsrtil MtSCfAClPCXl St THE UlZiRD POWDER COUPAET. Htlsrdvllle, Conn. 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