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Common Sense m tk Home Edited wMarion Oakland ^ COMMON NEIGHBORHOOD NUISANCES. THE other day I was the victim of one of the commonest and most unpleas ant forms of neighborhood nuisances. While the occurrence did not take place near my home it was an inci dent which might have happened there, al though a trolley car was the scene of this particular experience. Just after I had taken my seat my ears were pierced by a loud scream from a 3 year old boy sitting directly behind me. “I will get on the other seat! I will! I will! ” he yelled. “Be still!” said the mother. “You can’t have that seat. The lady has taken It.” ” I don't care! I will have It! I will! I will! ” " Stop that noise! ” orders the mother angrily. “ Stop it! Do you hear me? Stop % it. I say! ” * “ I won't! T won't! ” I want the other seat! ” persisted the boy. There is no need in going further with the repetitions which lasted for blocks be yond. The child continued to shriek, cry. and fight, the mother kept up her com mands and her scoldings while I sat re straining with difficulty the unhallowed longings to take hold of the child and ad minister discipline of the kind he evidently ^ needed badly. This illustration of a neighborhood nuis ance is nothing unusual. If I have in * stanccd it I have done so merely as an example of the sort of thing we are forced to endure in our vicinity on public con veyances. on the street, in shops and places of entertainment, as well as In our homes when these adjoin the residences occupied by parents of unruly children. *r* y ells at Daylight. " May I come ami spend the night at \ your house tomorrow? ” asked a friend of me on the telephone recently. " i am worn out for lack of sleep.” She went on to explain that the 2 year old child in the house adjoining began crying at 4 or 3 o'clock every morning and continued it steadily until after 7. The partitions were so thin that it was impossible to exclude » the sound. My friend was a business worn * an; she had no chance to make up lost sleep by a daytime nap and the constant disturbance was telling on her nerves. *' 1 suppose the parents get used to it,” she said wearily. ** If it were mine I’m afraid I d want to choke it. It's not ill and is quite old enough to have learned to stop crying when it’s told. If this sort of thing lasts much longer I shall have to break my lease and move away. 1 can't stand the strain! ” I have called the noisy and' unruly child one of the commonest of neighborhood y. nuisances. Hardly one of us but could tell mournful tales of the fashion in which he has disturbed our peace, sometimes by disobedience and cries, sometimes by yells apparently emitted for the pure joy of the vocal exercise, sometimes by unmeaning and unnecessary racket. Perhaps it is-be cause I am only a woman that I cannot comprehend the desire of the young of the species to hammer with a stick upon the fence, to bang on the covers of the coal holes, to shout and howl for no cause what soever. I grant the rights of the child to his share of amusement and diversion, but I hold to the belief that he should follow this with some regard for the comfort ot others besides himself. * * Dogs with Private Criefs. But neighborhood nuisances are by no means limited to small children. Even as I write I am conscious of the almost incessant barking und yelping of a small dog. I don’t know the cause of his dis tress. It may be that he has been shut in ami wants to get out or that he has been tied up and longs to be loose; he may have private griefs for which he is seeking ut terance; it may be that like the whooping small boy he is expanding his lungs and exercising his throat for simple pleasure in the experience. Whatever the cause hunger, thirst, ennui, or exercise—the re sult is the same—the annoyance of all with in reach of the sound waves he starts. About his owners 1 wonder, as l do about 'the parents of the howling children, how they can stand it and I api forced to the conclusion reached by my friend—that they must get used to it! Yet 1 am quite sure I would never reach the point where my own child or my own dog would not worry me more by the noise he made than he would any one else. I would suffer vicariously for the others who were objurgating the disturbance, as well as on my own account, and I am swayed to the conclusion that 1 must be In a singularly small minority. 1 wish some thoughtful reader of these remarks would try to explain to me why we have such a weak sense of neighborly responsibility along the lines 1 have men tioned. By what process does one arrive at the point where she can turn over and go to sleep, no matter how weary she may be, while she knows that In all probability her child’s wails are robbing the neigh borhood of rest? How does the owner of a dog adjust himself to the situation of leav ing a howling canine to bark or whine or yelp himself tired (by the way, did a dog ever do that? I think I have known them to keep it up for hours at a stretch, ap parently unwearied) with no thought of the dwellers In the vicinity whose nerves are racked or who are held from needed slum ber by the sins of his pet? * # Pervades All Classes. Back of what I likvo called neighborly responsibility seems to be conspicuous through all ranks and in all occupations of society. You can understand the conduct of the knife grinder who blows his horn or rings his bell under your window regardless of the rest or work he may be interrupt ing. just as you can excuse the yells of the itinerant vegetable or fruit vender who cries bis wares raucously along the street. These noise producers an; working for their living and their calls and Hangings are part of their stock in trade. Without them you would not know their goods were offered for sale. You can even tolerate the hanging of the beaters on rugs on the roof or in the back yard, because you know tlie cleaning must he done and it is being performed in the only locality that presents itself. But what good is gained by the unneces sary honkings of an automobile which wake the echoes of your street at mid night'.’ Why should the collectors of ashes and garbage make unnecessary noise In the discharge of their duties? And to come within the house and in touch with those who are supposed to have gentler ten dencies, why should persons of like nature with ourselves keep so-called music—either vocal or Instrumental—Ruing- at an hour when ordinary, every day folk are sup posed to be asleep? * * They All Played and Sang. A couple of summers ago 1 was so un* fortunate as to have to spend two or three weeks in a city apartment which backed up to within thirty or forty feet of an other apartment house. It was hot weather and the windows were ail open most of the time. There were two or three flats to every floor and the buildings were seven stories high. Perhaps I pus mistaken in stating that there was a pianola, a victrola. a piano, a mandolin, a violin, or some simi lar instrument of torture in each apart ment and that every one was on a differ ent key and that all played at once, but my remark was not so much exaggerated ss one might think. During the daylight hours there was an occasional grateful cessation of noise, but soon ns the sun be gan to fail the alleged musicians took up the wondrous tale and kept it up until I f< It 1 was going mad. They all played, they all sang! Of course no two chose the same tune and they con tinued their Instrumental labors or their vocal performances with a cheerful disre gard of the efforts of any one else in the vicinity. To this day I cannot comprehend how they stood it and l have never been sure why I was not taken from the apart ment to the psychopathic ward of somo hospital. Again I ask for an explanation of the want of neighborly responsibility? Did the players of Instruments find that their own noise deafened them to that of all others? Did they have no consideration for those who might be disturbed by their attempts? Did they reap so much enjoyment from these that it was worth the possible dis tress to every one else’ If any one can rise and explain 1 shall be most grateful. H« * ■Some Zones of Quiet. For some time there has been In certain of our large cities a movement on foot for the suppression of unnecessary noise and in many ways the societies have dona good work, lam told that It is largely in consequence of their efforts that quiet ha* / been established in streets near hospitals, that the needless tooting of horns or clat tering of wagons has been eliminated from localities where they might do positive harm to invalids. The managers of thu society have also endeavored to check tho over-much blowing of whistles and steam sirens and ringing of bells. The business committees who have charge of the churches possessing clock chimes atop those early in the evening and do not start them again until late enough in the morn ing to prevent Interference with a reason able amount of sleep. There is even a law which undertakes to regulate the beating of carpets, the noise of the knife grinder and huckster and other street sounds which may be deemed not strictly necessary. But when it comes to the front door-« « and the back door—of our houses and apart ments such surveillance ceases. You may invoke the assistance of the board of health to check music at uncanonlrul hours or the noise of dogs and cats if you don't ob ject to getting yourself on unpleasant terms with your neighbors. But 1 have struggled In vain, on my own behalf, and for the sake of others, to induce parents to quiet a screaming child or oven to close the windows of the room in which th® child w aked the midnight echoes. ib lb A'oivcs of Another Pattern. I have entered futile protests against the pet cut which is permitted to make night hideous on the back yard fence of my next door neighbor, i have besought the owner* of chickens in the vicinity to keep them shut up until after daylight that my family might not he aroused by shrill crows at dawn, and in tin* country I have protested almost to tears at the noise made by the cows and calves in the barnyard, not only after sunrise, but for hours before it. What is the matter with the noise makers and their associates? Are their ears built differently from ours or are. their nerves mad* on another pattern? And even grant ing this, have they not sufficient Chris, tian consideration to grasp the fact that others suffer from their lack of neighbor ly responsibility? Isn’t there place here for a reform and an not we housekeepers the ones who should organize and start it? MARION HARLAND’S HELPING HAND. . . FTER years of bard work and kk months c.f nursing those who were { #"% dependent upon me have died, and • • in the loneliness which follows I am glad both of the work which is necessary for my support and for in terest in the sufferings and needs ol others. 1 therefore send suggestions in reply to some of the letters which appear in the Helping Hand department. 1*. C. states that saturating the head with hay rum will remove vermin. 1 will add that satur I ating with listerine is equally good. To .1. a. W. I would say that rubbing a band of turpentine around the table, cupboard, or other article of furniture will drive and keep away any kind of ant as long as the "dor lasts, which usually is several days, and by persistent repetition of this remedy the ants will become discouraged and leave altogether. 1 am glad to give Mrs. L. A. S. a recipe for chile gravy. I wish to say, by the way, that 1 have many embroidery patterns which 1 will send to such as will state just what specific pattern—that is, for what article—they need. *• ** CHIHE GRAVY—Soak dried red pep pers in cold water over night or for several hours until soft; scrape out the pulp, freeing from seeds, with the flat of a table knife. In hot lard fry minced onion and if liked, a little garlic; also if liked, tomato pulp may be added. Then add the wet pepper pulp, stir until well assimilated. If preferred thickened, add flour or cornstarch as usual for this use. Salt to taste. This is a standard gravy, used by the Mexicans to pour over al most any meat or vegetable dish—for it is r mistake to think they cook everything with chile—they only add the sauce as above made. Fresh green peppers, mild or hot, may be substituted for the red, v first toasting them, peeling off the thick, j tough skin which blisters up, then mincing and using in gravy as above. This is not chile sauce but gravy. J. H. A.” This correspondent shows her apprecia tion of the truth that work for others is the best way in which to ease one’s own ^ heartaches. I only wish I could have printed one of the most valuable items she gave, telling of the method by which she had exterminated bedbugs and other vermin, but unfortunately she used for the purpose a proprietary article, and this I 1 cannot mention. I am sorry and will * * send her address to any one eager enough to know the remedy to write and ask about it. I am grateful to her on my own account and on behalf of those whom her suggestions will help. * * Recommends Formaldeh\)de Candle. ■ I wish to say to thoae troubled with bedbug:, that the remedy recommended by s health officer Is to seal the room airtight and burn a formaldehyde candle In It for twenty-four hours. Not a living thing can or will remain In the room. If the man , who wrote of the trouble he had In tl-oae \ lilies live* near, we might be able to look if,, him up or get In touch with him and learn / Just what he needs and relieve both him ", and hie family. Mrs. F. F. 3.” I hope the writer of the letter may aee thla offer and write for the addreaa of Mra. F. F. 9. Aa to the formaldehyde, I regret to sey that personally I have not found It entirely satisfactory. It will undoubtedly scatter' the bedbugs which are lodging In parts of the room where the fumee of the formaldehyde can get to them, but if they are intrenched in the walls or in the wood work my experience has been that after the odor bus evaporated they will show themselves again. * * Student in Agriculture. " I would he thankful for those farm journals offered by Grace S. 15. 1 am a* student "in agriculture and they would help me a great deal. If you will ship them to me the charges will be gratefully paid. “Joseph G." Although the farm journals offered by Grace S. B. had been given away before this letter was received I print it in the hope that some of our many readers who have similar periodicals may be moved to send for the address of this student of agriculture and supply him with the reading matter he needs and craves. * * Cant Afford Much Music. We are two sisters and have a fine piano, but can’t afford much music ami would be so much obliged if any one with pieces that are no longer needed would send them to us. We would gladly pay carriage for them. Maybe we could be of some use to some one some time. “H. L.“ Nearly every musician has music she could spare without much self-denial. It would be appreciated by these girls, and I trust they may not have to wait long for a response to their appeal. ♦ * Likes to Read. *• Although 1 am not an invalid my oldest cjild is only 0 year old, and I have three younger, so that my hands are so full that 1 have not been inside a church for seven years or to visit a neighbor for three years. I get so lonely and tired at times that I couldn’t resist writing to you. I dearly love to read after the children are in bed and if any of the Cornerltes have books or magazines they don’t care for I would gladly pay postage on them, as I am too poor to buy them. Also if any one has a story book her children have outgrown J would be most thankful to get it for mine. A card or a letter from some kind heart would also greatly cheer me up. Let me make a little return by telling what I think makes a pretty and inexpensive gift. Last summer I made my mother a floor pillow out of W'hite India linen and cross-stitched a basket of roses for it, using green silk thread for the basket, stems, and leaves, and pink tor the roses. It wa*s pretty. I will be glad to send the pattern to any one that wishes it. It can be used on an apron or table cover as well as on a cushion. “M. A. H.“ Those of us who live in towns or in thickly settled neighorhoods can have little notion of the loneliness which besets any one tied dowrn as Is the writer of this letter. I am sure there will be many applications for her address, not only for the purpose of sending' her the magazines and children’s books she longs for, but also in order to correspond and bring a breath of outside cheer Into her life. There is no estimating the benefit and comfort that have been brought to our Cornerltes by the letters sent to them from other quarters of the country, giving them new ideas,. Intro ducing them to fresh surroundings, and bestowing some perception of the many I interests there are in the world to make even a shut-in's life worth living. '!*• $ Chairs for Invalids. I have two wheel chairs to offer your Corner; one has a handle so that it can he pushed, the other can be propelled by the person who sits in it If he or she can use the hand*. 1 could not pay the ex pense of sending them, but would gladly give them. They b< longed to a dear old lady who wanted worthy people to have them. Now I have a request to make also. Is there a bicycle anywhere for an 11 year old boy who has to work most of the year and can only go to school a short time? The school is too far away for him to walk. His mother is too poor to buy a wheel for him, but I would be glad to pay the expense of getting it here and a few repairs. He is a bright and hard working child and is in sore need of a little educa tion. Mrs. Job E.” It a pleasure once In a while* to accom pany a request by an offer of a gift as Is done In this case. So many of our letters are merely appeals for help of all sorts, for gifts of various kinds, that it does me good to receive a communication from one who offers us well as asks. I am sure some applicants for her address will soon come from those to whom the wheel chairs can he of use, and I trust that there will he no delay in an offer of a wheel for th« bright 11-year-old who has to work for his living as well as go to school. # * Wants Copies of Poems. “ I would be pleased to have copies of the following poems, also the names of the authors. The first 1 wish begins: “ ‘ I would flood your path with sunshine. I would fence you from all 111.* “ The second starts off: " * I’m thankful for sun and. for showers. The Gord makes the winter and May.’ " The third begins: " ‘ Great old world! I tell you, Don’t care wlmt they say.’ “ 1 would be most grateful for copies of these. Mas. W. A. H." I hope some one may be able to supply the desire of this correspodent and 1 will give her address on application. ❖ sk An Offer and an Appeal. " I have lots of magazines that I would like to give away to any one who wants them. Some of them are yours old, some this year’s, but they have nice stories in them and wrill be new to any one who has not been able to get them and who loves to read as much us I do. 1 saw a notice* of some one who had three ear trumpets to give away and I would like to have one for my mother, who Is quite hard of hear ing. I am not able to buy her one, but will pay postage on one if it can be sent to her. She lives with mo and never goes anywhere. She does hard work and would be glad of some quilt pieces if uny one lias some to spare. I will pay postage I FAMILY MEALS FOR A WEEK. SUNDAY. BREAKFAST. Oranges. CereaI. Fried seal lops. Waffles, .Coffee. LUNCHEON. Cold lamb sliced. Mint Jelly. Browned sweet, potatoes. Cream toast. Lemon Jelly. Cake. Tea. DINNER. Mock turtle soup. Roast shoulder of veal. Stewed tomatoes. Fried oyster d1oj»* Pineapple ice cream. Potato flour cake. Coffee. * * MONDAY. BREAKFAST. Grapes. Cereal. Boiled eggs. Bacon. Rolls. Coffee. LUNCHEON. Cheese fondu. Baked potatoes. Crackers. Cheese. Jam. Tea. DINNER. Black bean soup. Stuffed beef’s heart. Carrots ar.d peas. Spaghetti. Cottage pudding. Coffee. * * TUESDAY. BREAKFAST. Baked apples. Cereal Bacon and fried rreen pepper*. Toaf Cofff LUNCHEON. Minced beef's heart wanned up In gravy [a left over]. Scalloped spaghetti. Whole wheat gems. Gingter snaps. Tea. DINNER. Pea soup. Curried veal fn leftover]. Boiled rice. Iced bananas. Cauliflower. Apple snow. Coffee. * * ' WEDNESDAY. BREAKFAST. Grapefruit. Cereal. Parsley omelet. Corn muffins. Coffee. * LUNCHEON. Fried scrapple. Baked potatoes. Toasted corn muffins [a leftover]. Canned peaches. Tea. DINNER. Cream of cauliflower soup Ta leftover]* Pot roast of beef. Mashed potatoes. Fried eggplant. Vanilla Ico cres^ Co" x THl BRE. Ora Cei Bui Poachet. Sally 1 Tea. Coffee LUNCHEI Scalloped eggplant with ch , Potato puff [a lef Toasted Sally Lunn [a Hot glngerbrea Cocoa. DINNER. Oxtail soup. A savory stow of beef and tomatoes [a leftover]. KIciU potatoes. String beans. Orange roly-poly. Coffee. * * FRIDAY. BREAKFAST. Baked apples. Cereal. Fishballs. Brown bread. Coffee. LUNCHEON. Panned oysters. String bean salad, gulck biscuit. Jam. Crackers. Cheese, Tea. DINNER. Brown potato soup I a leftover]. Baked striped bass with malt re d'hotel sauce. Parisian potatoes. Ladies’ cabbage. Bavarian cream. Coffee. * *H SATYR DAY. BREAKFAST. Oranges. Cereal. Bacon. Tomato omelet. Rolls. Cofree. LUNCHEON. Liver and bacon. Baked sweet potatoes. Jobnnyeake. Stewed apricots [evaporated]. Cookies. Tea. DINNER. Fish chowder [a leftover]. Fried chicken. Sweet potatoes hashed and browned [a leftover], French peas. Cabinet pudding. CO ft Mb on all that are sent her. Mu*. A. R. B." Another offer which accompanies a re quest. Surely some one will be glad to get the offered magazines. 1 am sorry to say that the three ear trumpets ihat were of fered have been given away, hut her re quest may bring one to the old mother, as well as the quilt pieces to help while away tin* long hours which never are broken by walks or drives out of doors. Let me ask, by tlic way, if any one qf the Cornerltes has experimented with the home made ear trumi>ets, for which full directions were given in the Helping Hand not su long ago? To me it seemed ns if those Instructions might assist in solving a prob lem for those who could not afford to buy a ready made ear trumpet. * * Pictures for Class Hoorn. " 1 am writing for our seventh grade room. We want to get some pictures, either geographical or historical, of Eu rope or tho United States, and will he glad to pay any express or mall charges, or we will call for them. 13. It. D.” This appeal comes from a schoolgirl. I hope there is some one who will be able to comply w'ith her request and supply her with the pictures she wishes fur her school room. * * Would Help the Sick. “I am glud of the opportunity of telling you how much pleuaure i have from the Helping Hand department and how much pity comes into my heart sometimes as 1 read it and know of tho luck of joy and happiness in some lives—perhaps because my life has always been so full of happi ness and love. 1 wonder if there are any readers of the corner who are ill near here. If there are any that 1 could help with magazines and flow'ers, or by reading to them, I would be delighted to do so. I would also like to add that I have a copy of * I’m a-Wearyin’ for You/ published with the music. The music is quite as beautiful as the words, and l would be glad t,o semi tho words to any one who would care for them. Mas. E. F. P.” Thank you for the nice things you say about the Corner. It is always a lovely thing to mo when those who are happy themselves wish to pass on some of their •heer to others. There must he some who arc ill and lonely, and I hope they may srae your offer and be able to accept It. ♦ * Some Family Papers. "I am a boy fl years old and fond of reading. As we have a large family, father finds it Impossible to subscribe for any ramily papers. I would much like back numbers—as many as possible—and would gladly pay postage on them. It. M. L.’* This Is the sort of request which ought lo appeal to a large class of the community. We always wish to encourage a boy who loves reading, and I am sure there must be In several houses accumulations of such magazines as he wishes w hich would glad ly bo sent to him. - I will give his address Dn application. * * Fig Layer Cake. " Can you give me a recipe for flg layer 1 rake, also a recipe for cup pudding* with (rult dropped In center, the cups put in hot water and steamed for half an hour? J ate some at a friend's house which were nice for deeeert and simple in an emer gency. I recollect that they contained Hour, baking powder, and milk, but lam quite sure no egg. B. S." For a llg fill in* for layer cake, put on* cup of water into a saucepan with half u cup of sugar, set over tho Are, cook ten minutes; stir in one pint of tigs, chopped fine. Cook together until soft and when cold spread on cuke. 1 am sorry I cannot give you the exact recipe you desire fof cup puddings, hut I hope some one els«v may *ee your request and send the direc tions. * * Interested in Moths. " Aly brother and I are greatly interested in moths ami spend the time we can spar* from our school work In hunting them and their cocoons. We have eecroplas, promethias, lunas, several line varieties of the sphinx and tigers, and a few Im perials. Have any of your readers litera ture on moths and butterflies that they no longer use? Wo would be happy to ob tain such books and would pay expressage. Could you inform ine of houses or persona who buy and sell moths and butterflies? Surely there must be some of your readers who are Interested in these little creatures. Every one who knows them loves thesa exquisite winged beauties. AnnaG." 1 am always happy to encourage interest In such subjects us these, not only becausq they have always had and still possess great fascination for me, but also because I think most highly of the value of nature study and of any branch of knowledge which leads young people—or old ones, either—out of doors and gives them a per ception of the wonders of tho animal and insect and vegetable life that surrounds them. So I hope the girl and her brother muy receive letters and books from other students of these topics and may learn from them the names of dealers in moths and butterflies. I cannot give such ad dresses on this page, but I can gladly put my young correspondent into touch with any one who can supply the information sho asks. * # Appeal for Books. \\ on't you pleaaA make an earnest ap. peat fur books for tho little library some interested purtles are trying to eatabllah In our little town for the benefit of the boys and girla of this community? The need Is great and the benefits to be de rhed cannot be estimated In dollara and cents. There are many discarded books that would otherwise be of no use that 'an be of great service, and perhapa some philanthropists may be leached In this way who might supply our wants In this missionary way. Even the smallest dona* tlon will be greatly appreciated. “ Mhs. O. H. D.” Such an appeal as this from a little town should need no indorsement—It speaks fop Itself. But I wish to emphasize the sug gestion that there may be books no longer In use which would be of great service to the boys and girls of whom Mrs. O. H. D. writes, and I hope most sincerely t#at hey may be sent to the correspondent. I shall be happy to supply bar addraag e* abdication