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VIRGINIA'S CURL PAPERS <J7se Proper jyiyvy y P of F^Tj^^h^cJ^k frock .-raft? 11 w qnHE girl in the pink frock lay back 1 in the hammock, and, swinging the daintiest feet in the world, held forth: • "The only trouble with this bringing up of patents is that you can't start with them early enough in life. They may havn acquired some very bad habits before you get at them. Of course parents arc harder to bring up than children, because they are willful and calmly superior. Why 1 have actually known parents who thought they know more than their children! Indeed, this is a quite common trait among them. They show it very early in life— in the child's life, I mean. When .■».' -■ '', are only five and don't want to / \tke medicine which you know is bitter ani nasty they will try to force it down youi throat, saying: 'Tako it; it's nice!' Now, if they thln.v '.he^ know more than you in this matter they are positively mistaken, for you are positively certain that no medicine is nice. They also have a nice way of ss/lng, 'If I were you I wouldn't do such and such aj thing,' which is another mistake on their part, for if they, were you they would be crazy -to do it. If they say 'If you were I' there might be some truth in the matter. It's a strange thing, by the way, why parents always believe that the things you want to do are bad for you. It's only a habit, j I'm sure, for certainly sometimes some thing 1 you want to do must be good. Unless a parent is broken of this early in life the habit is apt to become a flxPd one and you will suffer from it as long as you live. It will begin with your food and toys and continue to your choice of a husband. I should never encourage this superiority In a parent and the mother or father who 'If I were you'd' mo should be sent to bed supperless. "P^- ".i should be ruled by love, not fear, and if you want a kind old daddy to come around to your way of thinking against his own convictions just love him a little and make a fuss over him. numple up his hair around his ears and you will find him coming around twice as easily as though you threatened him with a slipper. It is wholesome for par ents to let them have their way occas ionally—Just occasionally— to keep them from thinking you undutiful, but in the really serious matters of life, such as putting on long dresses and choosing your husband, they ought not to be al lowed to interfere. A glimpse of your own feet tells you when long skirts are necessary, and as for the husband— if by persisting in having your own way you make a mess of it the consequences are sufficient punishment. Again, In the matter of husbands, have you ever noticed the wishy-washy, die-away young men mothers select for their daughters? Narrow shouldered creat ures, with straw colored hair, who have no more tendency to sport than a white rabbit— the kind of a thing you feel like taking up with a pair of pincers and dropping gently but firmly out of the window. I might also speak of the wives mothers select for their sons, but that is by the way. "It is never by any possibility the ghi a boy wants the one that can ride and swim and hunt with him, but a plain, large waisted individual, with straight hair.'who has never worn high heels in her life and who has a pious horror of rings and ornaments. Moth ers cannot be too severely reprimanded for interfering in this way with the laws of natural selection. A girl of proper mental balance hates a man with straw colored hair and ought to put her foot down flatly if a mother who has only been married once in her life tries to Impose such a specimen upon her. I would not suggest disin heriting the mother or anj thing like that, but I would just shut her up in a room with the straw colored specimen for Ihrce or four hours and let her see what it would be to have to spend much time with him. That ought to cure her, of her obstinacy. I "This matter is much like the medi cine problem early in life. If at the age of two a misguided parent should persuade me to take a dose of castor oil or asafoetida, saying how nice it was, I should make a supreme effort to converse and say, 'If it is so nice take it yourself!" If the parent did not take the dose, liquid or human, I would prove to her that it was because It wasn't as nice as she represented It to be. A boy would do well to carry this out with tho girl his loving mamma selects for him. He might shut her up In a deserted house with tho large waisted, straight haired person while a party of high heeled, fuzzy creatures were across the way. Slio would soon ■ see which made life pleasantest for their companions, for those big waisted. straight haired things are twice as catty as the pretty, jolly ones. " "Your father was not a sport when I married him, but an earnest, indus trious young man,' a mother is fond of saying; and somehow when you look at the poor old daddy with his pink J bald head and funny little glasses way down near the end of his noso you can't understand any one ever being madly in love with him and marrying "Ah, When We Were Twenty at the Beaux=Arts!" LIKE most things viewed from a dis tance, the life of the art students in Paris bears a peculiarly dis trrted appearance when reflected ill the average American understanding. A sort of huiiy burly of gayety, vice and very little painting (except the kind that is done with carmine or vermilion and has not much to do with art), a maelstrom of sin, a vortex of frivolity, an apotheosis of consequent joy— such is the mental picture cherished by those persons whose views of the quar ter are gathered and formed only from "bohemian" novels — usually written by English "temporaries." The real life Is as different from that pictured sem blance us gold is from gilt and that is saying a very great deal, indeed. Gay ety there is, but that gayety which comes as a necessary relaxation after superhuman work, and Is accordingly violent and irresponsible as the work was desperate and earnest. Painting, sculpture, architecture— these things are the working and sleeping dreams of the students. They may in the less er intelligence become mechanical; they never are incidental. A certain well-known painter, Wil liam Dodge, in fact, was asked the other day for a typical story of stu dents' li.i in Paris. He hesitated and lnughP .' "That is a difficult matter." he tem porized. "We are in America." "What, are they all so wicked?" "They are not wicked at all, from my point of view, and the view of Faris. But they are not strictly Amer ican." All in the View Point One of Mr. Dodge's salon pictures was opposite, leaning against the wall of the huge studio. The beautiful nude woman standing in the pool pervaded the scene, and Mr. Dodge seemed to gather inspiration from her and the gorgeous' butterflies fluttering around her as he talked. "Now, some people don't approve of her," he said, regarding her affection ately. "But she isn't improper, really. There, again, it is the point of view. You see we come back to that always." "But Paris, and art, and the stu dents there?" "Oh, well, it Is different from every thing else In the world, and in some ways 'it is as fine— genuinely so— as any life you might cite. }//;/■_ ; "I remember one big Swede who came to Gerome's atelier to paint. He was n huge chap'and minded his own busi ness, also he could paint, so we let LOS ANGELES HERALD SUNDAY SUPPLEMENT. him for any sentimental reason, al though he is perfectly lovely as a father. "Another bad habit of parents is correcting you before people. I would almost recommend spanking for this crime, it is such a particularly odious one. But In case the spanking i? un available a severe reprimand before going to bod at night should certainly be administered. If you arc too young to talk when it occurs remember it and have It out when you are oiu enough. "The books you should read and the plays you should see arc another thing which parents think they understand better than you. For some strange and unaccountable reason mothers are born wilh the idea that they can read books and see plays which their daughters pant. Could anything be more absurd? And yet have you not noticed how pre him alone at first. But after a while we decided that It was high time he was hazed, like everyone else, and properly initiated Into the studio. He was a nouveau; he must boar the al lotted torments of all nouveaux. W?ll. first we ordered him to go out and get some black soap to wash paint brushes. That's one of the first gags in hazing a nouveau, you know. "But the big Swede had been warned. He pulled a piece of black soap out of his pocket and asked very mildly if it would be enough! "Well, for a bit we let him alone after that. Then we commanded him to go up on the model throne and sing a song. So he climbed up on to the platform and faced that room full, of howling demons. And he began to sing. Well, the walls expanded, I give you my word! The fellow had a voice like Edouard de Reszke— gorgeous! H<s opened his mouth and let that superb voice roll out over the turmoil, and in two seconds every man In the room was silent— and when he stopped the applause shook the building! "But there was one ordeal which all nouveaux must go through, and which he had failed to undergo. He had not stripped before the atelier. So one day he was orderer to do that. Ho quite calmly began to undress. He stripped t ) his waist and then, suddenly folding his arms across hlB chest, said quietly: " 'Is there anything else I can do for you ?' " "The man was a Sandow! He stood there motionless, with his enormous muscles standing out under the skin, staring us all down with his calm eyes, and we wilted. Some of us were big chaps, but by Jove! he could have licked any three of us! We never troubled the big Swede any more after that. He had won! "It's a great life over there, . liks nothing else in the world; and one may only live it once." There are cases where the poor nou veau wins our sympathy, but even then we know that he was not lastingly the worse for his ordeal. Did you ever hear the tale of Malterre— pale, pretty, yellow haired Malterre, who wore velvet coats and store collars ami bouffant ties and gloves that just matched his curls? He drifted into one of the big ateliers one day to learn to paint, and he was the most tempt ing morsel of a nouveau that ever dropped from the gods into the clutches of f dozen or so of scalp seeking savages. valent the notion is? They hide the books— l wonder if they think you can't find them under that old camel's hair shawl on the sewing. room couch? — and discuss the plays with other mothers behind closed doors. This is another odious habit, and the measures taken to cure it cannot be too severe. You know the saying. 'It's a book no proper young girl would allow her mother to read,' and there is much truth in the saying. I believe that the book which does a parent so much harm should be kept from her. It puts notions into her head, and tho first thing you know she may bo eloping with the coachman or getting off the shawl speech from 'Can dida.' "A young girl seems to be the only one who can read Ibsen or Bernard Shaw without being corrupted. She never gets notions from books, especial ly if she skips the inscriptions, and Another nouveau arrived about the same time. His name has not come down In history, and «s he disappears from our story shortly It is immaterial. But, first and foremost, to help them both to feel at home, Multerre and the other nouveau were stripped and *et to fencing with big paint brushes. Miilterre's brush was filled with chrome yellow, the other's with Prus sian blue, and with these awful weap ons they fenced and fenced, growius angry with each other as they found themselves becoming more and more thickly daubed with blue, yellow ani a beautiful combination green. When the buttle was over they were made to sit down near the stone, so that the paint could dry on, and meanwhile Malterre's clothes had been confiscated by the board of Inquisitors. The other nouveau got off more easily and wns allowed to go home. You see, he did not wear curls, nor Eton collars, nor yet canary colored gloves. Malterre's garments were carefully mutted with quantities of nice, wet, sticky modelling clay and rolled up into balls. Then they were fired up to the ceiling, where they stuck i fast. When Malterre, still dyed in exquisite patterns 1 of blue and yellow and green, desired to go homo he had to get a ladder to reach his clothes— and filled with wet clay at that. "Sometimes the poor nouveaux are sent from studio to studio in search of 'black soap' or 'red oil,' and escorted back to their own quarters by a crowl of howling students and a brass band. Sometimes they are put in improvised cages and' have paint rags burnt in front of them' by way of burnt offer ing. It was in Gerome's steller, I be lieve, that the idea first originated of lugging the pedestal of one of the big gest of the antiques up to the studio. LIFE'S SEASONS Flow tide and glow tide And glad sky above, And youth to sing the joys of spring With heart full of love. Strong: hands and sturdy faith All the world to meet. And here and thorp, for love and care, Patter of small feet. » Twilight and afterglow, Hours to dream away. And days to glide on ebbing tide Under skies of gray. Until the nutumn breeze Sways the goldenrod, And tlio light fades In the night, lieavlngr us with God. — F. H. Sweet In the Sunday School Times. it is the same with plays. If the lead ing man hag lovely, curly hair and shiny patent leathers she don't look for hidden meanings in the text. I am sorry to see this tendency In parents nnd think bread and water and a diet of prudy books might be beneficial. At all events it ought not to be encouraged, and if you find your mother going to see plays which arc not fit for her you should cut down her pocket money at once, and then she couldn't attend the matinee. I am sorry to say that I have my suspicions of people who see so much evil In a lovely place like the theater. Once Dimple Young and I overheard our mothers discussing 'C.'i mllle' and saying it wasn't tho sort of play for young girls to see, bo we saved up our allowanco for two whole weeks, then slipped off to the theater and got seats in the family circle. We thought It the loveliest thing that ever was written. Camllle wore a lace tea gown which was a perfect angel and her cough was the saddest thing. Dimple and I cried all the way through and decided that our mothers must be, well, not exactly evil minded, but a little. turning it on its side and making th* fellow within a cell, or cage, for nou veaux. using pokers for bars. But through all these bewildering trials the right sort of nouveau passes pluekily, rather the better for his experience and usually on excellent terms with the very men who contributed most mark edly to his wretchedness in the days of his initiation. If he be made of tV.P proper stuff his time of probation will be short. Even it he be not a barytone or an athlete, like the big Swede, )r.< will win through good comradeship, good nature, pluck, Intelligence anil hard work. It is only the weaklings who usually suffer, and they have no business in an atelier anyway. . "Once accepted into the actual life and work of the atelier a new existence begins for the student in Paris. For the first time in his life he finds out what work means, for work, is the guiding star there; work in the morn- Ings, as soon as a cup of coffee is swal lowed; work until dark. Work in the hottest, summer afternoons; work in winter weather, when, as one young American Quarlier Lattnlat observed, 'You have to put your feet in your dress suit case to keep warm." Work .for eight, even ten hours at a sitting, snatching the first and the last gasp of daylight, and in the ateliers of archi tecture and sculpture, working far into the nijfht. . "I have known men to go for nights at a time without sleep. They work then under a strain which can hardly fall to leave a permanent mark upon their health. The years seem too short to accomplish all that they have to, do and the high pressure of skilled compe tition and medals of honor to be at tained keeps every one at fever heat all the time. "We certainly played hard in Paris when we played at all, but the pervad ing myth of depravity and dissipation in the Quartier Latin Is one of the most preposterous In existence. There ar* men who live riotous, useless lived there, who play at their work and steep themselves in vice, but they are not representative— thank goodness !— any more than certain classes and types in New York are representative examples of American life. And, to our shame ba it spoken, the wildest and least honor able aspects and elements of Parisian life in the Quartier are introduced by outsiders, by Anglo-Saxon specimens of the cheap bohemlan type who come to the student world and by their habits just a little, honl soit gui mal-y pense-y, to find the slightest suggestion of wrong in a high souled, persecuted consump tive like Camillc! lam tr'u..-. sorry to sec this tendency in' parents, and feel that something should bo done to eradi cate It. I fear, though, you would have to begin in your infancy, it seems so deeply implanted. "Your music lessons and practicing are another thing which requires con stant reproving on the part of parents. Why they should make such a fuss over so trivial a matter is what puzzles me. They are perfectly aware that you will never be a musician and that it's an ab solute waste of time to spend all that money on your musical education. You don't even want to play — that is, anything more than 'Arabella' or 'Be delia'—yet they are forever nagging at you to know if you have practiced and if you know your lesson. You would think it one of the serious matters of life to hear the way they go on, and you are often quite out of patience with them. I know of parents who seem to think that their children's practicing is of more consequence than the salva and widely bruited reputations win ill fame for the old Quartier and the right ful denizens thereof. "Play? Oh! yes, we played! The time I mean was just after Beranger— he was the Anthony Comstock of Paris —had been making himself obnoxious. The two heads at the gate of the Ecola —I don't remember who they were, but they were of some tremendously cele brated, dignified old chaps, and had had their noses chipped tince the commune —had been taken away for repairs, ani the pedestals looked empty. "The name of Beranger recalls to mind that queer little uprising in Paris not ho very many years ago, which threatened for an ephemeral day to be come a second commune. It will be re membered by many, but chiefly by those who have ever followed the me teoric career of that strangest and most fascinating figure of bohemian life in Paris— Sam Brown. "The name sounds harmless enough, but Sura Brown made more trouble In her brief public life than any hun dred other women that you could pick on two continents. Her antecedents were exalted— Kusslan and English in the way of nation and as high as pos sible in the way of birth. Of course she was illegitimate. "Her childhood was spent in a French convent, from which she ran away at the age of fifteen. She became a cir cus rider in the Hippodrome, and so began her career. The various Inci dents of this career will only baro re peating in briefest outline. She was one of those extraordinary creatures for whom laws or standards do not exist. She ruled supreme; with her pink hair and beautiful figure, over all men. Her brain was almost as marvel ous as her body, and her charm was monumental. "She posed for some of the most wonderful pictures of modern times; she flitted, a glowing, vivid figure, from studio to studio; she loved many times, enjoyed tremendously, suffered horri bly. Four times she tried to commit suicide nnd all her life bore the scar of one jagged wound which she had given herself in a fit of desperation. And all this before she was twenty. "Her escapades are legion and are known to every man or woman in the Quartier. But probably her most fa mous one was the Quatres-Arts affair. She went to the ball as Cleopatra, wearing only a jeweled head dress and emerald studded belt, and was carried In this garb— or ungarb— through the tion of their souls. To those who think this I should suggest making them sit at the piano practicing scales and ar* peggios for two hours at a stretch In* stead of going off to their bridge and tea fights. If that di&n't make them behave I fear tho reformatory is tho only alternative. Now, of course I don't mean to be too hard on parents, for I approve of them thoroughly — In their place, that is— but I don't believe In sparing the rod and spoiling the parent. As I said before, it is better to rule them by love than by fear, but if they are particularly obstinate and the love doesn't work, you will have to try the other. You see, they have been allowed to go on for so long thinking that they know more than their chil dren that they have become exceeding ly difficult to manage, and infinite patience on the part of the child is necessary. I would not have them eradicated, the way they do little girl babies In India — far from it — but . I should certainly advise going about It with a firm and determined hand to sen that they become true and noble grand mothers and grandfathers!" streets of Paris on a platform that was borne by four huge negroes as black as night. "That was the time that Beranger remonstrated. A gendarme attacked the man who was protecting Sara. It was in the Luxembourg 1 , and the man threw a bottle at the gendarme, and! so began the little commune — all on ac count of Sara Brown. They even got up a little communistic paper called Sara de Luxembourg, all of which ia another phase of student life in Paris. "The papers had it a few years ago that Sara Brown had been assassinated by a revengeful lover whom she had forgotten. But one day a certain great artist stood in a toy shop In Paris buying toys for his children, and at a counter near by stood a lady, heavily, veiled, also buying toys. The great artist could almost have sworn that ft was . But after all, who can know the truth of it? The Great Event "That Quatres-Arts ball, by the Way, is the great event of the year In artis tic Paris. For months beforehand the different ateliers prepare their cos tumes and effects, and gorgeous enough they are, indeed. All the thought, ajl the research and all the money possi ble are made use of in the preparation of these costumes and the perfection of detail and accuracy of period ob served might be models to the pseudo artistic theatrical managers who pre-" tend to have the costumes correct in their great productions. Women there are at the Quatres-Arts, but the puri tanically inclined woman usually wears a mask and keeps as much as possible out of the thick of things— that is, if she wishes to remain puritanical. "One of the merriest times ever had in a studio was in the quarters of a, well known young artist, where an en tertainment, in the American style* was given. We blush, to record that the leading features of this affair, were the presence of a 'chorus girl" (one of the students dressed up for the occa sion) and a great number of glasses) and siphons, and— other things! "It is strange to realize that after a right of this sort the young students rose promptly in time to begin work In their respective ateliers, all things: forgotten in the close and imperative desire ' for accomplished work. "Do you remember Jacques* cry as they lowered Francaise into her narrow grave: " 'Oh, ma jeunesse! C'est yous qua lin enterre!' ('Oh, my youth! 'lt is you; wrom they have burled!*)" 1 :