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THr , "2 ' 1 n-yN.FFRAYt MAY 1 4, 1920. 5
I " JlOVE and MARRIED LIFE!
Saj. the noted author i
Idab MGlcme Gibson j
I Alice returned from Ruth's with a
very sad face.
"What la the matter, dear," I In
quired, "didn't youhave a happy lime
with Ruth?"
' "No, my dear; Ruth la very unhap
py. Like many women, she has
learned to appreciate her husband
whon she has him no more. She said
to mo, "I did not know. how lonely I
would '.be without Bobby coming In
with his laughter and carefree man
ner. I thought that my children
would make up for any loneliness II
mleht have, hut. Allrp. I haw found
!out differently. 1 wish I had kept
him."
, "What do yoil mean, Ruth?" I said;
"would you have kept Bobby whenj
you knew he was In love with another
woman?"
"Yes, I think I would now. That
kind of love wears away always. You
know .that Goethe and Heine, the
great lovers of history, insisted that
romantic love hover lasted over two
'years, and did not last that long if tho
lovers marry. As I think of Bobby
T ' and. myself today. I believe that while
K I he-was romantically In love with
mk I Helen, that ho had a great affection
H and regard for me, and I bellevo that
- III LI1MU 1113 lUii; 1UI JIUIUII WUUIll IlilVV
worn off, and he would have come
Hp ; back to me."
WKT ' Bobby's Heart Still True.
H' I laughed, for this fitted-In so well
Hr 'J, with Just what I had been thinking.
mt i "Ruth thinks," I said, "that Bobby's
Hp'" ' heart Is still true 1o Poll." .
; "And I believe Helen thinks o. too,"
said Alice gravely. 'Oh. my dear, my
dear, 1 wish 1 could teach all you
H women that are wearing your lives out
Hf as devotees of the little god of love
that life Is so much bigger, that this
! thing you call love is only an Incident
of life, and as such holds a kind of ln-
" terest, hut not the great Important,
absorbingnterest that life has, if you
only look at it in the right way. Joy,
, sorrow, laughter, tears, wealth, pover-
' 4 tj'j. pleasure and pain, love and hator
hold their, places in. Uiio .momentous
thing we call life, but not one of them!
is big enough to absorb 'Into its keep-!
Ing life Itself."
Again I looked at Alice in surprint.
.She was always saying something, that
showed me a deeper and more splen-
did side .of her. And 1 determined
that as soon as T was able, I would try,
, and lake a leaf out of her book. SI-i
' leotly I handed over to her John's1
note that ho had sent with the flowers,
and with It his telegram.
"Did he. know I was 111?" r asked.
"I wired him," sho answered.
"J don't want him to come just
now," I said, rather querulously. l
want to make up my mind about
things."
"Make Up Your Mftid."'
"That's right, Katherlne," said
Alice, "do make up your mind ana
then stick to It one way or the other "
"I could do this very easily if I
never saw him again. But you know,
Alice, ns well as 1 do, the influence he
exerts over mo when. .he is with me."
IXlIlt u lo lilt lUi J u II
I to make your -choice. Do you count
those moments of ecstatic happiness
Katharine, worth the depths 'of despair
he causes you? If so, stay with him;
If not, sot yourself free."
"It la a sure thing, Alice, that you
have never loved a man, or you would
never give me this advice soc6olly.
("Why, you tell me to make my choice
with about as much emotion aa'
though you were advising me on the
rival merits of a couple of new hats.
Tn fact, I am not sure but that you
would have more emotion over the
millinery puestlon."
-"Well, today, my dear, I really can't
become Interested In the love affairs!
You see, I am very much excited ovor,
the fact" that we women are now a j
factor in the affairs-' of the nation, po-j j
Iitically. I mean."- j
"Good heavens, Alice, are you a suf-
fragette?" '
"No. I am not an 'ette.' I am an
i'sl." "
"What's the difference?"
Avoids All Responsibilities.
"A suffragette wants all the privi
leges of a man, and Is not willing to
.shoulder any of the. responsibilities
She insists that a man shall give her a'
scat In the street car: and forgets 10
thank him for It. She is always talk-.
lngi atout the battle of sexes, audi
wears a chip on her t-houlder every!
minute. On the other hand, my dear 1
a suffragist Is a woman who wants the
ballot, so that she' can help redreys
the wrongs of other women, so that
she can make the lives of little chil
dren happy, so that she can help her
husband to protect their home' from
encroachments of greedy capital and;
the malignant shafts pf demagogues.";
"Why, Alice, a suffragist Is truly
womanly." 1 said, rather wonderingly.
"I hope so, my dear. I'm one."
Tomorrow The Comiiur Woman.
I; Sister Mary's Kitchen
Ii In the kitchen of her own home,
i Sister Alary cooks daily for a family
of four adults. She brought to her
kitchen an understanding.- of the
-Jg"-" chemistry of cooking gaiUcd from
study of" domestic science ' hi a state
university. Consequently 'the. advice
she offers is a happy combination of
iJi theory and practice. Every recipe she
j gives is her own, first tried out and
jfgja served at her family table.
r-J Sometimes there seems to - be one
Wifl "vvay to clean a hardwood floor and
;;l iha.1 is to get down on one's hands
S and knees.
J j , ly "prayer-bones" are 'rather sensl-
';.; live and develop an annoying burning
F - unless I uso a small kneeling pad we
. I- have.
'j.' ; x This pad is made of several thick-
1? ncsscs of an old quilt covered with
'.1 orlnary brown table oilcloth. Twelve
w 1 by 24 inches makes tho pad a con-
l&gjl venlent size. An inch and a half
or two Inches of padding offords am-
,Bl 'ple cushioning for the knees.
35 v 'nc tnouBhtfulncss for com
fort seems to appeal to help-by-the-
SSja day and tho pad protects skirts fronij
dampness as well as saving knees.
Menu for Tomorrow
I Breakfast Sliced pineapple,
t., French toast, maple syrup, coffee.
Luncheon Tomato succotash, bran
Lj-sA bread and butter, radishes, plain
Vr cookies, tea.
Dinner Casserole of chicken,
mashed potatoes, baby lima beans,
banana and peanut salad, chocolate
roll cake, coffee.
My Own Recipes
I Just this. time of year many farmers
are weeding out their flocks of chick
ens. An elderly hen may be cooked
I In a casserole till tender and still not
taste like chips. Fry the chicken
first, make a gravy in the frying pan.
pour gravy over chicken placed In ces
serole and cook in a slow oven as
wiany hours as necessary.
Tomato Succotash
2 cups canned tomatoes
1 tablespoon minced onion
2 tablespoons minced celery
1 1 tablespoon sugar
1 teaspoon salt
1-4 teaspoon paprtfca.
2 cups cooked dried Ubul fc&n
' 2 cups canned corn I
i Bacon
," Cook first S ingredients together
' . for 20 or 25 minutes. Pour Into a
! buttered baking dish. Cover with
J . thinly sliced bacon. Put in a very hot
R-jjf'. - oven or under the broiler till the ba-
W"t 'iSl con 's cr'sl)ed-
9 Tf)f Chocolate Roll .Cake"
ijjJ r 1 cup sugar
1-2 cup butter
i 2 squares of bakers' chocolate
' 2 eups flour
1 1 cup milk
I 1 teaspoon soda
, 2 eggs
I Cream, butter and sugar. Add
'yolk of eggs well beaten. Make a paste !
UL UIUi;UliH.V illlll Uilf-lillll tU)l Ul iimrw.
Add -to mixture. Add' remaining milk
and flour alternately to mixture. Add
soda dissolved in a little hot water.
Add 1 teaspoon ' vanilla and 1-4 tea
spoon salt. Turn intr a buttered and
floured dripping pan and bake 25
minutes In a moderate oven. Remove
.from pan to a damp towel spread with1
! boiled white frosting and roll.
1 The cook who can sit with outward
calm and silent tongue and see the
man of the house batcher a perfect
roast Is Indeed a woman of rare
virtue.
MARY.
SILHOUETTE FOR FALL.
Tho tailored Crocks for fall will show
j longer waists and slightly longer skirts
Sleeves will be either short or long,
i and the skirt will be wider. j
Paris designers say that the new:
silhouette will show a low waist, slim 1
hip line and a skirt with a-flare from
the knees to the hem. j
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GAY-COLORED SASHES.
Vividly-colo'red sashes are now sold
for wear with dark serge suits or
dresses. Sonic of" the designs for gir
dles are hand-painted after the silk
has been printed. One of the latest
designs shows a pattern in orango and
black against a flame-colored back
'giound. I oo
DYED LACE GOWNS.
Dresses of georgette, net or satin
are being combined with Irish cro
Ichet laces dyed to match the material
I The gowns are shown in all colors, in
cluding coral, apricot, citron and tur
jquoiso green.
KillS OF PYTHIAS
. JTTFJTIOi
Special meeting Saturday evening
S p m.. May 15. Please attend.
By order of the C. C.
E. J. ROWETT, K. R. S.
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Sounds travel about 1125 feet in
' a second
Scene From u Romance of Ogden"
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"The Romance of Ogden," the motion picture made here exclusively with local amateur! j
talent will be presented at the Alhambra theatre May 26, 27, 28 and 29. 1 5
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WDONT MOVIE MARRIAGES LAST?.
I Jl S
. BY JAMES HENLE, ,
j N. E. A. Staff Correspondent. '
t NEW York, May 14. Many's the
'heart that goes pit-a-pat. many's the
'breath that comes deeper as the movie
herb discloses his love to the film
heroine.
"Ain't he just too grand for any
thing?" asks Sadie.
"Ah-h-h h-" sighs Mabel.
Well, the testimony of movie wives
.doesn't seem to run that way.
There was Mrs. Douglas Fairbanks,
the first, who found it necessary to
divorce "Doug, while scores of other
women have come to the conclusion
that though motion picture stars may
be all right as sweethearts, they are
! often far from perfect as busbands. 1
I "Too many vamps about the stu
dios," is one wife's verdict. i
"Their high salaries turn thoir
heads," is another's. t .
Mrs. Ruth II Dlaekwell, 'wife ofj
Carlyle Blackwcll, Is the latest one of
the movie wives to bring her marital
difficulties into court. This is not tfio
first time that she had appealed to tho
law, either.
On this, occasion Mrs. Blackwcll.
whd is separated from her husband,
asked that her husband be compelled
to pay her $150 instead of 110 a week,
the amount previously fb:eu. Her mo
tion was granted.
Mrs. Blackwoll's attorney says that
his client obtained the star his first
motion picture job, but that his suc
cess "went ti his head" and it became
impossible for Mrs. Blaclcwell to con
tinue to live with him.
i! Dorothy Dix Talks I
At What Age Should a Man Marry? !;!
! By DOROTHY DIX, the World's Highest Paid Woman Writer ;
(Copyrighted, 1920, by the Wheeler
Syndicate, Inc.) I
A correspondent asks: "At what age
should a man marry: '
That depends upon the man, and his
circumstances.
The only age at which a man should
'not marry is when he is not a man,
(but only ii boy, with a boy's changing
taste and standards of emotions. Thero
(are enough risks in matrimony without
I him taking any chances on what ho is
going to be himself when ho grows
j up, and the kind of a wife ho will want
when lie is a man.
That early marriages are much more
apt to turn out disasterously than
those entered into by mature people is
amply proven by statistics, which show
that far the greater number ol di
vorces are asked for by people who
married in their salad days. More
than this, if you will -notice you will
find out that the men who at fifty and
over suddenly kick over tho traces
and become involved in disgraceful
scandals with, women, are men who,
nearly all, married whon they were
boys.
They married when they were so
young that the' had not had their
fling, they knew nothing of women
and their wiles and arts, and so when
they got middle aged, and had accu
mulated enough money to make it
worth while to be plucked, they fell
victims to tho first siren who made
eyes at them. Moreover, the woman
a man marries at twenty is seldom
tho typo that ho would pick out at
fifty. Wo may be crazy about pink
ice cream sodaat twenty, but our pal
ato craves something sophisticated
when wo are fifty.
A girl whose step matches his. who
has a curl on her forehead, and who
thinks Mary Pickford just too sweet
and Douglas grand, and who can chat
ter his own lingo, seems to a boy to
have every qualification for making a
life companion. Ton years later, when
he meets up with her, sho bores him
stiff and he wonders what he over could
have seen in her to have admired. It
takes an entirely different set of graces
and charms to fire his fancy then be
cause he has come to man's estate,
and thinks as a man and not a child.
Another objection to early marriage
is, that a boy is selfish and lacks self-
1 1 1, li l ii i 'n-.! i m-m
control, and is arrogant, and very su-
perior to woman In his own opinion,
, and so unless ho marries a Patient
Griselda, they are sure to spat and ,
fight like two children. It takes age
and experience with life to discipline
a man to tho point where any woman's
happiness is safe in his hands.
Still another objection to the early -marriage
is that unless a boy has in
herited a fortune, marriage simply
spells ruin for him. It shuts the door
of opportunity In his face. It clogs,
his feet so ho cannot climb. No young I
boy, by his own efforts, can get ahead I
any in these days if lie has a wife andjf
children to support. He is doomed to 1 1
I the clerk's stool, or the work bench '
because he cannot risk his job by mak-1 j
Ing any change. The wolf is always ;
howling outside of his door and that
breaks tho nerves or the strongest and
makes them lose courage.
"He travels the fastest who travels'
alone," said Kipling. He doesn't travel :
at all nowadays who attempts double,
harness in his boyhood. He stays put
In the grave he has dug for himself
if he is a poor boy who commits sui- j
cide by getting married.
But. if marriage is dangerous for the)
young boy, it is equally Hazardous fori
the old bachelor. When a man is on!
the shady side of fifty he marries atj
his peril, and is pretty sure to find a
wife excess baggage that ho wishes he
had left at her home. By that time!
he has acquired ways that are dearer,
to him than any woman will ever be,
and formed habits that are harder to'
break than his heart Living alone!
unconsciously and untentionally cultl-!
vates selfishness in one. and makes It
a perpetual irritation to have to adopt'
onc-solf continually to another.
We are, alas, not plastic after wei
become middle aged. We have run
into our moulds and are seL We have'
formed the friendships we enjoy, and
worked out the scheme of life best
suited to our taste, and to have to give
them all up and adjust ourselves to
another, requires the heroism of a
martyr. And few men enjoy qualifying
for that role. So tho old bachelor
makes tho worst of all husbands be- ,
cause he is a miserable one.
Between old age and youth there is !
a happy medium when a man Is ripe
for matrimony. Ho has come to him-,
self. His tastes are formed but they
have not become petrified. Ho Is set
tled, and yet subject to change. He)
has gotten upon his own feet so
that he can support wife and children
without feeling them a crushing bur
den. Dealing with the world has
taught him tact and diplomacy sol
!... I. ...in l i . . i i
wife peacefully Instead of doing it I
with a club. I
He has seen many women, and has
dallied at 'many a shrimp. He has
ticketed them all off in his little book
tho girl who is good to danco for
an evening, but whoso brains are all in -her
heels. The intense maiden with
whom it is fascinating to speculate on
the inner meaning of lifo, but who
could never come down from
tho infinite far enough to keep the
grocer's book straight or cook a din
ner. The domestic girl who has not
a soul above bread and butter. The
soulful one who has no head. And the
human girl who touches life at every
point, and who will be comrade and
friend, and working partner. Ho knowb
what he want when he goes shopping
Tor a wife an(l -ho gets the one who
will be like good wine better and
better as the years go by.
Pie is old enough to judge, and
young enough to love. His brain is
ripe but his heart is not yet dust and
ashes. He loves with the strength of
a strong man, not the changing fancy
ot a lad which follows after every
fluttering skirt.
This age is, roughly speaking, from
twenty-eight to thirty-eight. That is
the ideal time for a man to marry;
oo
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