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\ \ . \u25a0: / . The San Francisco Sunday Call THE broom Is still an important factor In the good housekeep er's supply closet, and when sweeping day arrives it is faithful in chasing the dust and dirt. .My little talk today is to the power behind the broom. Work, regardless of the fact that it Is exhausting, is a natural and healthful outcome of housekeeping: It can be made much easier and decidedly less harmful If the v.'err.an who wields the brush be sensible and devote a little time to the proper outfit for cleaning day. In the Jirst place, a sensible sweep- Ing dress should be owned by every woman. Use material that will stand a very necessary boiling after the cleaning, and select a comfortable eize that will not restrict the move ments in any way. Short sleeves and a short skirt should figure prom inently in the cut of the garment, while the soft collar will give neat ness and comfort to the sweeper. Now, dust is foreign matter, and has no place in the openings of the body. The ears should be protected and the hair covered in euch a manner that the particles of dirt should not be able to lodge in each strand, destroying the health and beauty. ADVICE ON SOCIAL CUSTOMS PRACTICAL JOKES •y AST summer I had occasion to \ meet a little woman from Ken | J tucfay who was brought North to a well-known hospital for an operation. She was unable to sit up dur ing the tedious trip; Inde?d, she caught only a fleeting glimpse of the scenery by raising her head, for her spine bad been Injured by a practical Joker. Oh, It was such a joke! He had cut the hammock in which she was lying. , and tie result was not what he had ex pected. All his repentance will never give to his victim h"er former strength and enjoyment of good health, and I doubt if she is even walking now. It is the extreme case of what prac tical jokes can do. As a rule, they are never founded upon malicious or^ cruel' intentions, but they always embarrass the victims, and usually hurt some one. There Js a class of practical jokes that is played on innocent children, vho. by their very inferiority of in tellect, are unable to realize the joke element. Older brothers and sisters, . and. I regret to add. some parents." consider it a great joke to scare, the little ones. Please think of the.re sults. A child Is a creature of imag ination and little Judgment, and' the fright In his mind cannot be counterbalanced by arguing or ex plaining afterward. There is the practical joke which come guests must- always". play, upon a newly wedded couple. Besides be ing absolutely vulgar., it \u25a0 is . a sign of a lack of friendliness. Any auction that increases the embarrassment and* annoyance of the bride and groom 6hould be strictly forbidden at a wed ding. From the stealing of the trunk; "^| key to the kidnapping of the. groom, I it is a long cry, but each is. an evi dence of bad form. A wedding joker should be crossed from your list or friends. A practical Joke has the enjoyment on one «ide only. It is a selfish-dc CONCERNING HEALTH AND BEAUTY THE WOMAN BEHIND THE BROOM sire to put another unsuspecting per son .in an embarrassing predicament. It is a distorted idea of what consti tutes fun or humor. It is a repre hensible act that \u25a0 people, ought to punish quickly and decidedly. The jolly funmaker who insists upon removing a chair from. a seated person to secure the laugh has very little; reliance- on his ability to at tract attention In any valuable and well-bred way. ' He should be treated to a polite talk on the subject and requested to call elsewhere. , There Js. always a lack of kindness In a practical Joker!s motives. I think that few- ever Twelgh the'sub ject enough' to consider where these outrages against' good sense might end. But If they. .think not, then we must think for 'them.- .., "" . I'mtght.write. columns on the prac tical Jokes played at home, in schools • and- on the-streets, "but- you know a Joke of . this kind, when : you se« it played. . \ : .' . ;'-'-'.' > • I believe that, women, as a -rule, are Icath' to play theee Jokes. Our power., lies* in the; contempt -and dls - approval that* we can ' show for. them and their, perpetrators. , 'We are powerful/ numerically. Let us- take a forceful: step Mn the right direction-^ to . . make practical . I Jokes things of v the; bast." i ' Sblutions to Social • . "Problems Who Should \Orderf ';' DEAR Mrs. ,' Adams. \u25a0-. : .t,^.Vv 'i Would 5 .- you J.klndly. .tell me' who'; ihould do'the^'or'derinciwhen'alady; and gentleman . go : to -a , restaurant ?. Also, when a couple Invites. another. couple out to din« with it.em, shouM the lady do th* -ordering, or let- "eaca, one- order -his or her own?. • . -:-,.- - \u25a0«-.,- -v \u25a0\u25a0•-\u25a0; . • .^PERPLEXED. In the ; first- casa the f m'an should do the ordering, alter having, consulted the woman. 'In the second case the - man who^ "has : Invited - - the mother persons should order 'the dinner.- .- \u25a0 Anxious to * Learn • Dear Mrs. ~ Adam». • .--;--•\u25a0 I am a girl of 16. and as I had to leave school , when <- I r.wit i only 12 . 1 -did - not > get >_ much of an education. >-l;have only been in this, country -three years. Can you tell me, of a few books \u25a0I -< could study ' in order to learn to ; *T>«»k ; th% \u25a0 English language cor- I r«ctly? You will be dolnjme a kind favor by advising me. - / AGERMA.V GIRL.. Your letter Indicates that you are on the \u25a0 right: .; road i-to '. Jearnin g, ; and \u25a0>- \u0084I assure -you- that -success \u25a0will- be 'yours if . youi perfiist. ." I think ; you \ will gret MRS. HENRY SYMES much assistance from the readers which are now used in the public schools. These are very-well'chosen' and are most instructive. You can buy them for a small sum of money at any second-hand book store,' or it may be that by applying to a principal of one of the schools in your vicinity you may borrow the, books you need. In the readers you will find suggestions of standard .works which you should read.' There is also an easy gradation of the work, and a well-thought-out plan of a growing- stock of words. No As sis tance Needed Dear Mrs. Adams. • When a younir gentleman - calls at my home, .is.it p: oper for me to assist- him with his overcoat when he Is leaving? . Is It proper for me to go out with a young . gentleman unchaperoned? I am. 18 years .old. DOUBTFUL. No assistance Is ! needed in such a case. "~ If your parents are well acquainted with the young man, and- are willing to let you go without. a chaperon, then it would be permissible. SeverahProposals Dear Mrs. Adams. I am a girl 20 years old' and work for my. living. < My ; father is dead: and I live with ' my mother:. ' I have •-«. eoo«i many .young men friends and have had several good op . portunities " to marry. -young -.men-' whom I like very, much .as 'friends, but reel that'll could not love any one of them.-, lly. mother, thinks it foolish - for ' m*' to refuse under the . circumstance?. . as«.l am a'- frail, girl and comr>ell«'d to' work.": What' would youadvl^e me to do?: Do j-ou ' think tha right one .will" come .along? . •.-•' ,:.. \u25a0".'.\u25a0- • "TROUBLED. " You are doing the -.right > thing to Ve fuse the proposals,- for you would never ' be " happy if you married a' man whom you do not love.". Some", day the '\u25a0- "right one" will present- himself, and : you will be glad . you . waited. ; ' ' Not Proper Deir:Mrs. Adams. \u25a0 ' . • \u25a0\u25a0; W^lf^tsi&tZv, I am, a. girl of .16. and am ; . keeping •- company with -a ' joun? man ' of 2?. > He : has \u25a0 often ', asked \u25a0 mt: out to ;\u25a0 dine ar.d - f»* attend • the > theater.' it- t<e t all ' rlcht "for ' ns to •• co . without .t chxperon if we are not out 'later than, 10.30? -. . ' ; -If a rrmnp woman and ayouop man, were Tery '. devoted to each , other ; and < the j mine man snd- 1 denly • rtot'ped i»arinß • attentions to • her, \ should • she: sneak: to him wben she meet s hinj nn the street?... - . • THE ; FAIR ; DAMES. You Jare 'young ; .to /.go .urichapefoned. Have you not an older sister. who could" gO With .YOU? •'.-' '\u25a0- \u25a0\u25a0'\u25a0\u25a0•;. -: -.-.-:.:\u25a0: » • : ,;/.:-• Certainly- if . she does not speak she •will! lose- all. chance >cf "an -explanation for his strange - conduct. Topics to {Discuss ; * Dear Mrs. : Adams. ..X \u25a0-.'.'\u25a0'" A . 1. On what" topics. should a eirl talk to a young man -who -Is -not s a reader, and . who does not talk much? 1.- \u25a0...:> •*" .'. r:- r : . • 2. ils ; it \u25a0 improper : to ' allow » a k young man to pot hiy arm.; around me -while; riding? WlH'lt'makeThlm think illiof, me? -.. *. Is it improper tT. write to a young man . that .. I ' do- .not. care; for, . he- sendiag 1 two:' Doetal cards to my one? \u25a0"\u25a0•• \u25a0 \u25a0 ;*: .;-.-."- ' '- ; '-4. How should one act: to" bft popular? ' '. \u25a0 - h.'\ Does It '. nay ,to \u25a0. be v too . popular « with \u25a0 the. opposite 'eex?, •:.•".\u25a0 ir • r ANXIOUS. . ' 1. Find out* in s Just: what -things he? is N' interested." \u25a0, If ( you ' bring, up 1 the : subject There Is a covering which Is nothing but clever manipulation of a hug© square of muslin. Fold back "a point and place the double bias edge across tha eyebrows, around the crown " and pin at the back; That \ will give the remain ing points of the • square at \ each side. These'can then be tied under the chin. Dust cannot possibly settle on the hair or in the ears when this headdress is worn. ", V Large gloves protect the hands. They must be -loose, to offer no interference with- the free> and easy- play > of . the muscles of the forearm. The hands. can be kept soft and white, . even by one who sweeps.: The object; Is to keep the dust' from closing the pores and^from drying the skin. One of the most' harmful , and eaally acquired habits of the sweeper _ls to open the mouth -while" breathing. ' The .mouth, you will remember, Is .for; the passage of food only.. There are no fine hairs In the membrane, as in \u25a0 the nose, to siftthe particles of dust from the air. It was never: meant ; for breathing pur poses, and colds and throat troubles will surely; result from mouth-breathing. Dust must be kept out of the throat. A bandage "of swiss or soft . muslin Is all that you will require. It will pay, to take this precautionary measure. After the reign of the broom all nasal passages sfiould. be .thoroughly cleansed of the irritating particles of dust. £ A weak solution of 'peroxide of hydrogen or of salt and water ' Is within every one's reach. The atomizer -is effectual In this step. . A cleansing, with cold cream, of the face that . has been ex posed to I the dust is Important for the healthy condition of the skin. I advise a warm bath 1 for the entire body after the work of the morning. "Of course, I need not urge that-wln dows should be open during;the sweep ing hourl And that the final dusting should be accomplished with a damp cloth. ; Here's health and comfort for the woman behind the broom! , . _ I am sure he will start to talk, if he U at all enthusiastic. 2. Most improper, and may cause ' the man to lose his respect for you. A girl cannot be too careful about her actions when out with .young men. 3. It could' hardly be called Improper, but it would be unnecessary. 4. If you want to be popular. dc» -not strain a point to be so. Be natural at all: times and treat all persons, with a kind and courteous manner. Do not' be deceitful. - - ' \u25a0 «\u25a0 \u25a0 i •• 5. Not- If: It^ means that you -have to give up your, girl friends. . The friend ship of girls who are . sincere at all times is never to.be shunned. \u25a0.. .:\u25a0_. . ' \u25a0---\u25a0\u25a0/•.. \u25a0\u25a0• ' .. Eating Olives Dear Mrs. Adams. " t n - v . 1. I am H years old: WTiat Is the correct length for my. skirts?, I am about 5 feet in \u25a0 e 2.*ls" it .proper to eat 'olives with a fork? 3. Is it Improper for a girl : to stand Jon g the corner and talk with a, boy friend. who is a schoolmate?- \u25a0 -^ \u25a0\u25a0\.., \u25a0 4 Mow* old should one be when she stops wearing hair ribbons? ,'. GYPSY. 1. Two inches above. the shoetops. * •• 2. Olives are eaten. with the fingers. 3. Yes. -If the^boy has- anything important to say. to ! her '"he should walk with \u25a0.: her ;until he >haa finished talking. .; \u25a0 \u25a0 \ ; \u0084: , '- - - •.'- .-. : .. •.;..; -.:.• 4. There is <no rule . laid down \u25a0 re» gardlng the. age. a girl .be .when she discards her hair ribbons. So long 1 as she Is girlish lookineL and wears her dresses about six: inches from the ground,. she'may,wear..rlbbons' on her .hair.-;, y * \u25a0'.- -z-' .. :., : .,^ \u25a0 ; .-v; ' : ' ';,.'-\u25a0:. '.x^\ Pony] Skin Coat Dear Mrs.; Adams. .' • / " ; :"[ \u25a0-\u25a0A: '.Do -you thlak Jt propcr^for a' your, g : lady ;of.- 17,: a' stenographer, .to wear a pont* ' Fkln coat that ,cost-a tmall, sum of , money ; .: to s work, every. day ?;.->•/ -; \u25a0••,: :'.->.? •:-.. ._ :-^2.. AVas it proper: for me 'to accept gloves : as a CThristmas: present from 'my emp.oyer? \u25a0 \u25a0; He Is married..- - * "•*-"• \u25a0\u25a0•\u25a0\u25a0:\u25a0}•' .~~. ~~ \u25a0 \u25a0-,:..-,, ! :\u25a0•- 3.: is improper for him to accompany me*" \u25a0 '\u25a0 to . the I street \u25a0 car when -It • rslns ; if . we both . - have but;> one"; umbrellJU' and r It Is ' his? ' Should \I ; allow • him zto ;v; v take my ,- arm - «»ti that -occasion? •.-...\u25a0\u25a0'\u25a0' K> • \u25a0 .-,.., . : i M4'-- Would it . be r wrong, to : let him put my " rubbers^on for-nje?- , ; ,.- ; ; " «, OENIS.\ < l; . "It His "hardly! this proper 'thing, to wear to business,; but. if. you- have, no ; other .warm coat :you. should f eel inde pendent'enough-to wear^ it. - .; 2:-Yes. ; v ' : .•;'- - : J :.->-. V-v.J .-.: ' . /, \u25a0'/ , \u25a0'; 3. It ' >is - proper : ' for %, him * . to .i protect you from the'rain.*:but heihas no right to take holdof yourarm.- : 4. Decidedly so.-, -; . ~ " "'/ ; \rf Schoolgirl '/Dear"- Mrs." 'Adsjns.'-iv 1 .. , : *. "'..-" .,• Is .-it-proper ,I or , a ', schoolcirl 'to ; accept* tha -attentions of »'younc man of 23? — • \u25a0 .*\u25a0 \u25a0 ,\u25a0\u25a0 If 1.-?»a' secure a, position.- should leadearor to do it along^ with my, school work? . --\-~ . \u25a0 • '\u25a0."'>*'\u25a0;.- 'v : '- S.-".--tV;^-"';.-rV'.BLUE = 'ETES. i ' . A J schoolgirl i should : not , allow \u25a0> a'i man v to ; ijer.-tinie. .^Her. * studies "and'houra : of, recreation "will i' not' ailio'.v her.: much"; time ' f or ' the ; attentions of Ta - young ;man:^W : - . " x: '' '-''\u25a0'\u25a0 ' : . \u25a0"> You -and? your, pa rents 'are'. ljetter ; able -to? decide this j question 'than, I. : -. Re : member.i that ' it \u25a0 will not; payj to '; overtax i your: Btrength., ••-:- .; •.. ..\u25a0 ; ymm. ANSWERS W BEAUTY OWING to the great amount of mall; : received > and the limited spate i \u25a0 giveli this department.- lttis»abap-, j lutely Impossible to answer letters in the Sunday .issue. *jrollowlngi their, receipt, i The \u25a0 letters must be answered . in turn, and \u25a0 this of t times .requires three or • four , weeks, v-t •. '.--'' '• ~-~ \u25a0\u25a0.."-'.- "• ; \u25a0 i'- 4 "'.,* -" i All correspondents who .desire . an Im mediate-answer." must -inclose ; a .self addressed I ,stamped envelope for a reply.. \u25a0 Thlsrulemust also . be: compiled^, with' ln :; regard *to personal * letters;- ; ;' I y }f o: Soften the Hands Dear Mrs.;, Symes. ";-^- '.' l v » ' W"lll you pleas» tell me of something. that "will: soften the hanrif?- •• . \u0084,. ' M - =v-: ' You * will i nrid \u25a0; that ; olive t oil ', Is s excel- , lent for softening*. the skin, t Iti-mayjbe : used : on • the r face ; as well as the' hands. .To Rimove Warts „ ;* ,' "'Dear' Mrs. r ~- Symes.' \u25a0 -'-\u25a0, ~ '•\u25a0 " '^'! v -r.'. ''"I c^WHK you" please inform -me 'what will re- . move Warts from the ; hand ?.; GRATKFOL.. - • Use. the, following. recipe and 1 the, warts • will r soon disappear: .•'->„ 'i : -\u25a0;: ";. r - MlxV one *- grain • of *- caraform-- with \u25a0 nine \u25a0 parts "or .flexible I collodion. ? and ; apply .to y wart three -tiroes i a. .lay.-; After ; two* ( or j three"; days. ; the 'epidermis peels off."' and tn« . wart will, come .with it. .•:* - \u25a0 '. ptease r tell me -"how to: bleach my hair. I am sending you a sample of: It. • I tan' t \u0084 afford .to 'pay,* a hairdresser-- to-, bleach It-, :Is the Chinese' eyelash stain, good! for the ,-\u25a0" 'i eycbr.Tv* "> How.'lobh' does- it- stay on '.Wk'th-- i out applying it again?; ' r. . D.':C.v.v, v • \u25a0\u25a0•Ann amateur .-. can y seldom,, •ii- over, .. bleach .her -r hair; successfully. < If \u25a0} you * cannoti; afford:; to go to -'a "hairdresser, I It? would better ; <oro r let "it •. remain X its." natural % color. \u25a0•\u25a0 • -- - * • : -; ; ;;> The h Chinese < eyelrlsh stain \u25a0.-; may :• be \u25a0 used ' on I the • eyebrows, | : but -it does ; not remain on permanently and will have to be applied every day or so. Red. Spots and Pimples "\u25a0 DearJ Mrs.* Symes." r • ' \u25a0 > v * : : • I, am -a:, boy. 17 years ..01d., -Red spots on; s the sides of my nose break out. and pimples -appear.,- How-- can. I : : get. rid, of them?., •.-\u25a0 , .1. also 'have a corn ton- the . sole .of my ' foot.' What can I do forjt? ... . ALVIN. \u25a0 -You>~had better 'consult a 'physician, foryour blood'is probably out *of order * needs special: treatment. >' \u25a0-.-.' I -To \ get. rid of your corn, use ; the fol lowing recipe: "."' :. .. Corn Xure.- t ' \\ • : Salicylic add ....'...'..1.............. 1 dram Collodion. •\u0084J..7'..f.\.;....7..i.; .:..'- H ounce * Paint -;over» tbe> corn . once' a- day. and scrap** away the superfluous jrrowth at tha ;end. of- three or four. days. _*-\u25a0 \u25a0\u25a0_ > \u25a0 .; ; Vermin on theiHead • ' . Dear "Mrs.- 1 . Symes.* . " "" • : \u25a0 "My little- jtirl has causht^ Hce from tho -school children, and "I have tried gasoline, but lt'faUe&^Kindly.advUu' me. \u25a0i "* t .;.... _ } ;-\u25a0>• A .CONSTANT READER. 8 Get : some 'quassia* chips i front- your •druggist.* boil, them-for afew minutes, \u25a0strain- and mop the'svater'on ; the scalp nntlLthe. hair-is thoroughly saturated. This is a sure andjharmlesscure. " Dear." Mrs.'fS-nnes.-' \u25a0,*\u25a0'. J uWill-you.'klndly. publish -a'. r«medv that' '-* will remove .the. overgrowth of -hair?. '.l do ~ ' notv like • to'uie* the electric ' needle " on my - 'face. ::"',••;- v. ' :\u25a0. DOLIX ,' .The; electric;: needle is the only -thing JthatjWill. remove the" hairs permanently. ; I . am , giving -the recipe ' for a depilatory .which will remove the'; hairs. for. a short : time. • but ? - they , will r come »back again. <: Sulphide -of • soda or \u25a0 calcium \u25a0 sul-^tBH^IBCB V-'ohMe .V..V... "....... U:.;r».'.r :'lX\ era ins 'Chalk •-\u25a0......•....\u25a0.*..'.......•....\u25a0.."\u25a0.\u25a0..... 100 grains -\u25a0_ Mix wthoroujchlr and ;keei> dry^in. wtll \u25a0 corked , : bottle \u25a0 until -. wanted i. for . use. ;\u25a0 Take \u25a0 enough tomak« a paste, and add .-warm wa ter to It until the crocer consistency is se cu-ed Spread over the hairy surface ana allow to remain for from one to five min utes according to the nature of the growta and the susceptibility of the skln^h^n scrape oil with a blunt kn!fe-a paper knife, for example. It should be removed, as to everr case with a depilatory, when tne burning sensation la produced. Too long contact with the »skln should be avoided, and immediately after the hair has been re moved tha denuded surface should be Kently wash-d with warm water and a ol.» c-eam or a bland oU applied to prevent Irritation. Hair a Muddy Color fcair Its natural color again? It used to b« a real dark brown; n Ts &t&^«^°£o-d f« the faceT Will It crow hair on the sk.ri.. What will remove red marks from tn« face after pimples disappear? Also, what Is good for large pore, on thy***"^. It may be you do not give your hair proper attention. Every day brush X thoroughly from the scalp down to th© wv ends: then massage the scalp with ., the" tins of the fingers. -When washing the head add a pinch of washing soda tO Wifch' a haTel cream Is excellent^ for a dry skin, and it will not promote the red marks use the tol lowins lotion: Boric acid »««™ W Ti?abs?« lotion p«" be" us«-l for ea larged pores also. \u25a0 ' Hands and Face M vou S ffie- tell me something th,t will soften and whiten the hands.' Al^ something that will clear the complexion without harming It. My skin seems to t*» dry but I am afraid t»> use creams. \u25a0' Is there anything, with the «ceptton of dye. that. will make tLe hair **£*£• c I thmk olive oil will help both your face and hands. Massage it Into them once a day. This will take the place or creams, which you do not care to use. A laxative taken once a month is excel lent for keeping the complexion clear. Nothing except a dye will darken tho . hair satisfactorily. Bust Too Large but 12 years of age. and 'T^&^^fi-n^/ou tell \u0084 What is^a -re J^cha^^and^. 1 I would not be guilty of advising any treatment for reducing your daughter's bust. It is never a safe experiment, and anything- you might do now might ruin the ciul»Vs health and figure- for the future Cant you make her clothes in such a manner that her bust is not quite so notlce 2 A pinch of washing soda added to the water in which you wash your head will make your hair -lighter. Never use any greasy tonics on your hair for they will make It darker. 3 If your skin is naturally dark, you cannot do very much to make it lighter. If the sun or wind has dark ened it. you may use lemon juice -as a whitenef. , \u25a0 4 To avoid chapped hands, care must be* taken that they are dried carefully after washing. Use tho following lotion to heal your hands: Tincture benzoin » drsps Clycerine 2 ™™22 . Rrsewater :.:...-........ 3 ounce* Kub this on the bands ni.ght and morning. Dahdruf-^Hair Grower. : wtth daodmrr. it forms a hard, thick crust on the scalp and. when I comb It with a nn* comb, it is sor» underneath. Can-jrou tell me a cure lor Can you rive me a recipe that will make the hair crow? .4 KE.\DER., Use castor oil to cleanse the scalp, or even ' vaseline. Do not use a fine-tooth comb. Go to. your physician for treat ment. .' — - \u25a0 ' ;_ ; Biting Finger Nails Dear Mrs. Symes. - What on i do to stop biting my Cncer n£*ls' Is there anything to prevent white spots' on the nails? I hare very anany on all nails. B. M. D. Nail btting is often the result of an extremely nervous temperament. If this is your trouble." have your family physician prescribe a good tonic to brace ui> the ntrvous system. Mean while, paint your finger nail 3 with quassia, which is quite bitter but harm less, : and v/ill remind you of the effort you are making to stop the habit. White spots on the nails can be avoided if, careful attention. is given to the. nails "and they are not bruised -in any way.' TpMdke Bust Firm Dear Mrs. Sxmes. . - Kindly advise -me through your colum* what to use ti> . make my Bust firm. _ Bathing the bust with cold water will give It firmness, and massage with the preparation made according . to the fol lowing recipe: - OU of sweet almcnda ....'.. • ounce* White-wax ........ 3, ounces Tincture binzoln • .I*3 ounces Rosewater ".• 1% ounce* Pulverized tannin ••••'•• ••••»•••*»• • ffrin»