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• \u25a0 .The San Francisco Sunday, Call •w v O YOU remember, wtoen yoa I 1 were & Kttle girl, hearing the :' JLy very moral tale about the child who had "ten little servants" .to work for her, which,. after, all, turned oat to be her ten pink little* fingers? "Well, you may ba cure that you have two willing, uncomplaining and efficient servants always at your beck and call —your two very useful feet. To keep : tjie«» servants In health, to beautify them end to give them proper atten tion should be the aim of every woman who cares at all for her feelings or htr •ppearaace. . Pew feet are beautiful naturally; tho* wearing has stopped all that: and if we all west back to the barefoot fad. In stead of only a few of. us, one shudders to think of the esthetic consequences. But there la no reason why the feet which nature has given us should not be kept as well shaped and smooth of ek]n &s possible, even If no one but our selves Is aware of their attractiveness. First of all, never we&r shoes too short or too tight or with too high heels. Nothing so effectually ruins a foot. If your feet are too long, wear a ehort -vamped, laced shoe; If too short and fat, a long-vamped one. buttoned cr laced at the side. White shoes make your feet look larger; black, smaller. If your ankles are stout, wear hlgh . clocked stockings. Try always to have colored slippers at least one 6hade darker than the gown with which they jare worn. .• When the feet are tired and ache and burn, bathe them In hot salt water (the sea salt which comes in bags at about 10 . cents «ach Is best). Soak the feet and :<lash the water upon them, drying aft ' crwiard with a Turkish towel. Either alum, borax or lemon juice In the water .•will do almost as well as the salt. \u25a0 It Is just when your feet are mojt •tfr^d — in the evening — by the way, that v»u should try on new shoes. The feet «je then as large as they ever are go ing to be (for walking increases their ' Wze). ar.d th*» shoes that fit then will be comfortable always. ; It 5s hardly necessary to crge strict cleanliness. I hope. Still, a. woman I know to be refined and well educated raid to me the other day. when I praised the comfort and wearing qualities of nry suede pumps. "Oh, I never wear j>umps: they make your feet so dirty *th.al you have to wash them every day." . A remark like that ought to be rele gated to -the dark ages. l'\?~L • Callous .spots are most common of foot Ilia. The best thing to do is to rub well with clean sandpaper. Do not be afraid of -hurting your foot; callous skin is thick, and you will not reach the true akin, which contains the nerves. Sand ?aper will also remeve the hard ridges ormed over rhe instep by too tightly laced fshoes; and be careful not to let it occur again when onoe cured. '• " ' For a «oft corn, eprfnkle powdered «iluan on lint or some such soft maie r'al as an old handkerchief, and bind loosely overnight. If the corn is be tween the toes, put the aiutn on ab •rwbent cotton, lightly but firmly wedged 4nto the afflicted spot. Cotton soaked in turpentine is also Kt>oa\ Bunions are usually caused by an ill f.ttlnfr shoe, and the cause must be re moved before the cur© ca.n be complete. This done, brush th© bunion every day ADVICE ON SOCIAL CUSTOMS /mow *cetebz6& -t*ux/u f Ae4y*tif%£&' fry Z&i&4/'a/-*2*ty'Cune' PEOPLE WHO IMPOSE THE bablt of allowing others to furnish, amusetnent, entertain ment and some of the neces saries of everyday Hfe Is one that is so easily formed and grows In force with such alarming rate that it Is one of the" prevalent types of minor evils that mar our social happiness. People who impose are perhaps among your friends. You know the person who uses your telephone as if it were a . public convenience, and does not hesi tate to rout the owner out of slumber to convey a message of slight impor tance to a friend a few blocks away. A few of these favors are all right, but when the habit of Inconveniencing others becomes the rule, then that person. at the freehand let me add, comfortable end of the wire Is imposing. Then there is the woman that imposes* en iher neighbor by borrowing a little *ugar, a few spoonfuls of flour and Just ( ' & little butter, and forgets to return, Slriem. The good-natured lender needs ' *hl* and throurh a»-laclcof foresisrht conbernlnsr <£\u2666\u25a0 limit 'of •neighborly, isaf • CONCERNING HEALTH AND BEAUTY CARING FOR OUR BEST SERVANTS position, runs short herself in a much «nore urgent case. At social affairs— picnics, bazars or Gatherings of a like nature— did you ever notice- that a, few -women or men. sit calmly in the background and let others do the work? ' ~ • They offer no helping halid, but in crease the labor of willing workers by Imposing on good nature, i; do not know whether these people feel any discomfiture far down below the surface; I fear not The habit has become sec ond nature, and; they unknowingly* de lude others into doing more than their share of work. Guests ar a sometimes guilty' of -im positions.- Staying too long, - expecting too • extensive entertainment, disrupting plans of a household or showing an utter: disregard for the \u25a0 feelings '. of >: the : kind host or, hostess are Just!aifew.*of -the annoying actions that' come under our notice., • •-. • •\u25a0; \u25a0 . -. . :-•.. * . Now,- my friends, what ; is > the " proper thing to do when you" awaken \ to the fact, that others are so far lacking in a well-bred consideration, that .impositions amount to absolute injustice? I advise that you, first of all, make yourself cer tain of the truth that, the imposing habit Is. there. The. short. 'decisive dictum of Captain- Smith, .years-ago.-.that' ''those who; will -not work j cannot* eat," j settled the * impostors "> in '^ the ; southern • colony. The ; same idea ; holds' good now > In ~ a slightly altered » form. - \u25a0. - v -Bring ; to" mind .that In a gathering there are * obligations \to be met ; by * all, end . show » a firm L but : clvil'i disapproba tion of* people who > impose. v if they. are uniware- of' the fact, they should fee-told. * -••'"'/"• ' \ - .- , MRS. HENRY SYMES If they are cognizant of their imposition, there is but one course "to ; follow. ;They must ; be f ; excluded^ from - any. \u25a0function* that will give them opportunity, to show their, lack , of .what is; known", in politics as the ''square deal." ... . ' .!:, In' parting, let me ask {that each of you ask yourself •if ;• this" habit ; of -im posing |on i others Is I one 'of * your : faults.- And , remember :\u25a0 that \u25a0 if is never \u25a0 too late ,to reform.-'" ;;•\u25a0•-- : • ' .:\u25a0'::\u25a0.' ;;•.» \u25a0-.. SOLUTIONS TO^OCIAL PROBIiEMS- Anxicus,. for: Her, Address ! TO FRIENDLESS: -Some > time', ago I "your 4 letter 'and" my -feply ; to it 7 \u25a0 were ; published In /these 'columns, i I ; . have '* been . very > disappointed '-. not : to receive :' ; your., name » and = address, ,% and urge- you now ; to send^ them JtO' s me at-. once," for: many readers have \u25a0 seen | your I ap»eal - and : are ; anxious \u25a0 to : communicate with .you. ; ;\Von't^you? : write jto \u25a0•me,." so that you ;•'. may -- gain some .' friends who are Anxious to help you? " - | Parents Object to 'Mdrriage \ i Dear Mrs. Adams. i>T. -~ \u25a0 ,'\u25a0\u25a0':';-\u25a0\u25a0\u25a0' .' ..'''\u25a0:-,- ~~\ _ I am-a- young. lady almost 19 years old.'; 1 *\u25a0 * * have i been -. going i with ': ai young s man > of ; : ! -about 22 for. over.a year, without the knowl- ,' § edge of my parents., steallngr 'out; at? nights j : to meet. hlm.v About -two . weeks ; ago -hei.' asked \u25a0\u2666 me \to i marry • him and ? I consented ; • * to' do ; so. -iTwo * nights » afterward ihe gave 7 ma a handsome' diamond ring and: mad* me . prom!»» , not ' to 'take It off until * after <we wttih a mixture, of equal parts of tinc ture of lodine, carbolic acid and glyc erin. An equal ; mixture of spirits of turpentine and lard is another, good oure ; and \u25a0 a bunion plaster . should be worn, ' with a bit '• of . felt between the great and 6econd toes. Everybody, it seems to me, either has were married and I promised. My parent! asked whose ring It was. and I told them it belongred to a girl friend. The next night my nance called an* asked my parents for their consent to our marriage.. They grew very angry and forbade him to ever speak to rtie again, and commanded me to Rive back the \u25a0 ring, which \u25a0 I. have not done. Would you advise us to marry, without their consent? . • >B. Z. R. I certainly do not advise you to go against your parents' wishes. The fact that you were not candid and truth ful about the whole affair is enough to arouse their anger. Why don't you ask their forgiveness' for your dis loyalty to them-. and then ask their consent to your, marriage?. You are young, and it is better to weigh the) matter carefully than to repent when it '\u25a0'\u25a0 is too late. The outlook of a mother or father is generally a sen sible, sane one, and no daughter can afford to do without a parent's ad- Meeting Several Times X>ear Mri. Adams. ,s, s 1. When one is walking. on the street and has met ; and \u25a0 spoken ; . to a friend, cither- man or woman, '. with whom on©l» not intimate, what would be " the \ proper * thine. to do or. say upon meeting either the second or third.- time within a few minutes? ; \u25a0 -\u25a0' \u25a0 2. In. a .\u25a0mall town where, everybody knows everybody else and where chape rons are \u25a0 never la evidence, \u25a0\u25a0 whose place Is if to suggest leaving when a younav couple are at a dance or banquet? BLOISB. 1. A* smile or glance -of recognition Is sufficient when one meets the same per son several' times in -a day ' _\u25a0\u25a0•\u25a0" - 2. The young woman makes th© sug gestion; .\u25a0\u25a0;•\u25a0 .____:.\u25a0 v 'Afternoon Callers Dear Mrs. Adams. ';, s : - 1 have afternoon . callers who sometimes remain to go to church. Must I invite them - to supper? What: would be nice to serve? a We hax-e^no servant girl - and never have warm supper. If anythlnfr Is served, should , itbe >«,^a» nln * / . 'It would :be very pleasant *to invite your ' callers.; to- have : a i light supper, which : you had | better serve ic^the din-, ing room.* You i might serve lettuce salad with T dressing, heated crackers, fruit, cake and tea. This, ; of course, may. be varied according to \ your . likes and dislikes. .-' \u25a0 - - - ... ! \u25a0 ' . . |.. t Addressing; Invitations Dear Mrs. "Adams. ' . ,-'. - ' ..,'\u25a0' 1' To whom- Is 'the -outside -of- a -weddinc ' Invitation addressed -when Inside envelope •\u25a0•'reads 'Mr. .and ' Mrs.-- — ? - > -- >\u25a0• 2: Are \u25a0 v/eddlng announcements •-. ever \u25a0__ mailed the night before when the marriage ' '• 1: ~ The outsldeTenyelope' is addressed in full to the matron of the house. 2 " ; /rhe,.--wedaing; i announcements should-notJbe^mailedsuntil the cere mony has taken place; Many things • can-happen, to prevent' the" ceremony,^ ; end the \ results t mlght be embarrass-r Ing "if haste is shown; ,. i v Letter^ Not 'Received Dear MraT^Adams. '' ' «". \u25a0..."- '\u25a0- \u25a0 .-:- \u25a0 Over a- month ago we wrote you concern- . - Ing problems of the .utmost , Importance to -: -, us and 'although" we have waited patiently : you have not yet f given us an answer. ;. We • a iKink that " we are entitled to as much " aiSeratlon' as other, correspondents.^. 1 Please I - let us know whether you ; wlsh another, copy '&\u25a0\u25a0 Tour letter' has evidently !gone astray, .. -andil fshall -be % most -glad \ to; give you 1 the 'best -advice^ possible s if » you iwul - -.write-again.; Remember; that* thelde-: H tnands - of i hundreds Fof 'correspondents . i must s be I inetr, and .try,. ,to ; be Just ias V; "> explicit a» % poßslble-ln your \u25a0 questions. corns now or is doomed to have them in the future. For this hard, conelike spot, reaching .far/ below the skin, there are many cures," A hard corn. just formed can be removed by means of pumice; for one of longer standing one of the collodion and salicylic acid preparations is best. Here are two excellent ones: ANSWERS TO BEAUTY QUERIES OWING to the ( great amount of mail received and, the limited space given this department, it is ab solutely k impossible to answer, letters in the Sunday issue following' their receipt. The letters must be answered in turn, and this of ttimes ; requires three or fcjur weeks. : : . All correspondents who desire an im mediate answer must inclose a self addresaed'stamped envelope for a reply. This rule must also Be complied with in regard to personal letters. ToGalitWeight • Dear Mrs. Symes. • ; • *"-•-*' I am a boy. of 17 and weigh 114 pCAind« • and am \u25a0 about five feet - teven . Inches tali. Will you kindly advise me what to do to build me up and , giv« me more weight ? I think if you -will join a gymna sium" class and enter Into all exer cises prescribed you will be- greatly benefited. As you grow older your body will • become developed ana' your weight will Increase. :. "i: To Color a Switch \ [ Dear Mrs. Symes.'. \u25a0. ' • ',*'".'\u25a0 *< \u25a0' X have a \u25a0 hair jj»witch and Its colot Is auburn or red. -Iklr hair is a medium shade of dark ' brown.' Please .tell ,me how _ to darken it to match : the color of # my_hajr. . .".-- \u25a0 .\u25a0 \u25a0\u25a0 \.^ .-^ a' v \u25a0. ' \u25a0' . \u25a0 : *'CHIC. / 3 I am giving a the \ recipe for a brown hair stain and advise you to let your switch remain in- the stain for a day or. so until, it becomes the right shade. \._ ' Green walnut 5he115.............. 3_ ounces Alum •— •••• ...' 14 ounce Pure 0i1........ • ;...... 4 ounces Heat together. In . a water ; bath until -the-, water "- haa been r. completely evaporateo. Then express, filter and perfume. r : To Remove the Streak \ Dear Mrs. : Symes. \u25a0>\u25a0 »V'- '.."»».. Will > you kindly • adtlse me through : »• . paper what I oan do to fatten my neck?. Also what will take the streak away^hlch is; from : RBADERT To fatten your neck 1 massage dally with .; cocoa buttwr and ; then* practice "deep breathing. is excellent for; filling out the hollows in- throaf and ohest. 'To remove .the streak -from. the neck "bind . slices .of cucumber round: the throat' when- retiring; or apply peroxide of s hydrogen v and. water/ allowing the auulight to bleach it. " Tonic and Massage r Dear Mrs.- &ymes. :•' / \u25a0; 'V- i-"*^iJ - I* am taking. Dr." Vaucaire s tonic for en larging the : bust and-am . also ' massaging :. with cocoa butter;;- Will you please tell me * 1 how many bottles of the remedy 1 shall have ' to use before there will be a changer ' Also , rlf anything - Bhould be - mixed > with ; tie cocoa, butter to.be used for */ massage ?_' • --".-\u25a0-\u25a0\u25a0 \u25a0-•\u25a0:;"..'\u25a0 ?;--'. : it~" .\u25a0.•"-\u25a0,,':; A.*iK- . T. ,-\u25a0\u25a0 : ; *As v the effect fof the < tonic depends en tlrely.-upon-,the individual; lit Ms hardly I possible s to I say' justi how i many > bottles :you will -be obliged to !take.%«lf r you are in . good ! health and, take the tonic regu- : ' larly; th»: time : will ; not ibe.very f long. - It is not "necessary. 1 , to mix ! anything with the cocoa butter. '\u25a0/\u25a0\u25a0' ; ' ';< \u25a0:', A Skin Disease^ ' Dear! Mrs. Symes. -.- . . \u25a0 " -. , | - Please > tell me ,how ;.tt> • get rid '.of a skin I disease i which f- 1 1 have s reason •• to 6 believe I ; .-> contracted in a, barber, shop.- Small nimnles-' Tareak out on my face.^".'*? DISTRESSED. : •.^lnsyour'CaseUhe'bestUhingrlto'do'lS; -to i consult i a reliable ; physician,.* who .wilL bo able" to, .tell -Just; what -the. troubl e > la, ; and • may; then ' prescribe a Salicylic add. W rratas Kxtract cannabls lndica..~ °,. Brra ~ Collodion jounce Or, in simpler form: Salicylic acid > *i, dram" Collodion i» ounce Either of these should be dusted on the corn once a day. and after a week cure. In the meantime, bathe the skin In hot water to which peroxide of hydrogen has been added, and be careful to use your own towel. Anti septic salves are good, thus destroy ing the disease germs and healing at the same time; but I prefer not to suggest any, for I know too little about your case. To Remove Wrinkles Dear Mrs. Symes. - ; , >' - . My neck Is full of deep wrinkles, so please tell me something to remove them, and to make my neck white. What do you think causes so many? Do you advise the use of the wrlnkla plaster? - ' . - ANXIOUS ANNIB "NO. Z." - •\u25a0If: may .be, that you have not given your neck proper attention. Instead of using plaster I advise the following recipe: Milk of "White Roses. (A Cure for Wrinkles.) « •'-:';= Rosewater . % pint Simple tincture of benzoin- % ounce Attar of roses ......... ........1... 3 drops ; Put the - rosewater '• in a basin. Add the tincture of benzoin a drop at a time. . Add attar of roses and bottle. Apply with cow . ton at" night. To whiten your neck, apply lemon juice once a day. . -yiv Using Egg on Hairs Dear Mrs. r Symes. V , 1. Please tell me if an 1 egg la good to use when washing the hair and how to w It. , 2. My hair -used -to be nice and thick, but now It Is getting 1 thin. Could you tell m» what to use to make It thick? Would you advise vaseline? . 3. I have been using vaseline on my eye brows for over two- months, and it doesn't • grow very much. Could you tell me what to use Instead? . D. M." S. -1." The: hali is often , greatly J benefited -" by the ,use of an egg, and I am giving • you the recipe ' for a shampoo which 'contains egg. -This should be used one* ;every four or five weeks.'. . " . l&j^'Eggi Shampoo. . "? To half a cake of pure white. castlle soap add one pint of .hot rainwater. Set on the stove and heat until - the soap Is perfectly . dissolved.: To this add ; an egg which has been thoroughly whipped with «n •ggbea.t \u25a0~ er. - stirring • it - Into the mixture with th« beater .to prevent curdling. -Add one-third \u25a0 of a teaspopnful of borax and one teaspoon : "ful .of alcohol ",to - preserve - the ahamaOo. -When ready to shampoo the hair, rub well Into the scalp. \u25a0 and : . rinse •In • several clear waters, 'using a bath spray, if you have one. '': ., 2., Yes. vaseline, is .very.:good for in creasing; the growth -.'of : : the hair, but I bear in mmd J the fact , that ; the masaag "lng.of.the scalp counts as much as if not more than " the -tonic used. • Spend « bne- 9 half hour, a: day. in; caring.f or, your hair. . 3. : 1f. the vaseline : has done no good \u25a0: for ' your ! eyebrows, il advise .you to .try . the • following recipe: ' " .^Cologne *.:......V..-..f.V.V..^;^.v;; 2}j ounces Glycerin \..;.:.r... ....... .'.; -1H ounces • Fluid extract of Jaborandl ..2 ounce* .. " , Agitate ingredients till ..thoroughly lncor . rora-ted. - Apply- to the « eyebrows with,, m truih and.to the lashes ;wtth \ a tiny cam . els-h air < paint \u25a0 brush. i , -.. - v 'Small Eyes: 'Dear Mrs." Symes.' -'3l --.»*. •'\u25a0" \u25a0.;;\u25a0"-!;.'.' 1. -Will you kindly, tell 'me If there 'ls any way to make the eyes appear, larger? -~.f 2.« Is there any way to make dlmple»?"*spg . 3. How 'long, will i the i hhai r ; stay - curled after using the recipe you gave -some time ago ? : When 1 1 us© it. J should 1 1 let' the hair ' . nans /until \u25a0 dry? ; V •\u25a0> -WEAK ; EYES.-; V \u25a0 I.* There is ] no ; way to enlarge - the . eyes.'' ; If yours .are " at " all weak/- you C should; go 'to : an «? oculist .; immediately nbeforeUheyigrow'any,',worse.-* r .-'- . ' -r. 2.* lt -is '\u25a0 not ; possible ! to ; make dimples, ' except -by 7 a ;surgical 'operation/ r ?\u25a0>*\u25a0;\u25a0 ~ '3.' I* cannot > say * Just- how- % long- : the the foot should be soaked in water as hot as can be borne and the softened corn cut away with a knife which has been -immersed In carbolic add and dried with a clean piece of absorbent cotton. Blood poisoning Is the penalty of lack of care In dealing with a corn. For a not-too-obstinate corn, wool soaked in castor oil, or a poultice of breadcrumbs soaked In vinegar thirty minutes, is an excellent cure. They are especially good if the corn is tender to the touch. Feet that are sensitive and easily Irritated should be washed in cold water to harden them, rubbed dry and mop ped with a solution of a half ounce of salicylic acid to 4 ounces of alcohol. Dry by dusting with rice powder, which does not clog up the pores like talcum • powder. Ingrowing toenalls are a painful source of irritation. They may be pre vented by cutting the nails square In stead of in a rounded shape. To cure the evil already present, try applying to the Infected parts a solution or len parts of guttapercha to eighty parts of chlo roform. Use about four times the first day, and then gradually less often until; the flesh is hardened and forced back. Another cure Is to loosen the flesh, cut the nail and moisten 'the spot with, perchlorate of iron. Many persons have feet that perspire too freely. Bathe the feet twice daily, once in mustard water, and dust on a powder consisting of 60 grams of tal cum. 45 grams of subnitrate of bismuth. 13 grams of permanganate of potash and 2 grams of salicylate of soda. An occasional rub In cologne or pure alcohol refreshes the feet wonderfully, and should be given after a long, hard walk. Try wearing slippers In the house; that also relieves tired feet and is but a fitting, reward to the slaves who have served you so well. hair will remain in curl, for some hair is more obstinate than others. Do not allow the hair to hang after applying the preparation, but arrange it in the customary manner. To Apply Tannin ' i Dear Mrs. Symes. . > In a recent paper you stated that tannin was good for reducing the lips. Will you •kindly advise me how It Is applied? Is It mixed with some kind of a liquid ? A CONSTANT READER. ; To one teaspoonful of tannin use eight ounces of water. Apply to the lips daily with a bit of absorbent cotton. Cause and Cure Dear Mrs. Symes. . Will you kindly publish a cure, and yet one which \a not Injurious to the skin, far freckles? Is there such a thing as "liver freckles"? What really causes freckles and what should be avoided to get rid of them ? If It were not \u25a0 for my freckles I would have a very good complexion FRECKLEFACED. The following is a recipe for an excel lent freckle cure and will not harm tha skin: - >. Citric add (1em0n)................... 3 drams Hot water 11 ounces Borax 2 drains Bed rose petals .* 1 ounce Glycerin 1 ounce Dissolve the acid and borax In the water; Infuse the petals for an hour; strain through a Jelly bag after twenty-four hours: decant the clear portion and add the glycerin. Apply as often as agreeable. - I suppose "liver freckles" is a nam» applied to the brown spots which appear on the skin, caused by a disordered " liver. "v •- Freckles are caused by an Increase of . coloring matter In the dennis, or under . layer of the skin. To avoid having them one must protect the face from the sun * . and wind, as the action of either one on the skin is what heightens the pigments that are present, r; -. / To* Remove Warts Dear Mrs. Symes. Will you please tell zae some way that I may take off warts? UNSIGXEDC Here is, the recipe for & wart cure: .Mix. one' grain of - paraform with ntae parts -of *, flexible collodion, and apply to •wart- three times- a day. . After .two or three days, the epidermis peels off and the wart will come with It. - - N ' -To. Cover a Mole •• \u25a0 Dear '• Mr*. Symes. . '-;\u25a0'.> \ - Wlllydu please print In your columns aa Inexpensive recipe for a flesh-colored past* .which I could put on a mole to 'keep- It from showing so plainly? > ~. ' -' I wish to • wear a low-necked dress, .but I have' a very large mol^ »n my neck-." * .. AN ANXIOUS READER. ' I do not have the recipe for such a paste. Why -not wear a piece of flesh colored court plaster over the mole? '//Dr.'Paucaire's Remedy ' Dear Mrs. Symes. - \u25a0 Please . publish the recipe for Dr. Vaa calre's bust remedy. How long muat one take it to show results? '-, : •'.-.-." * ANXIOUS READER. - I am herewith giving the recipe you desire. . but • it Is not possible- to say when results will be noticeable, for th« effect depends entirely upon the individ ual , taking the tonic: • Dr. v ryaucaire's Bemedy for the Bnst, -Fluid extract 'of galega. (goats \u25a0 '\u25a0* rue) —..\u25a0..\u25a0.. .w. ..;..."..\u25a0. .;.... \u2666 n. ars. Lacto-phosphate of 1hne.. ...... 154 grains Tincture of fennel 1» grain* Simple :syrup ;.......:......-. 13!, ounces - The dose is two soupspoonfuls with water before each meal. _ ; \u0084