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BUYING COOKIMG MBUT, o o THE HOUSEWIFE SHOULD UNDERSTAND THE VALUE OF THE VARIOUS GUTS IN THE DIFFERENT KINDS OF MEAT T B "HE girl who Is learning to 1C keep house and furnish food for a family soon discovers that there is something to know besides just how to cook the articles which she has prepared. Not only must she, if she aspires to be an adept in the art, and to acquire a basical knowledge, at least, of the sci ence, know -vhat to do with the materials Eut into her hands, but she must know ow to select these materials with a view to economy which not only considers the financial, but also the nutritive values of the food which she provides. Xnew Whit Ton Are Boring She may learn from her cookery book the lists of different cuts, so as to order quite glibly and with an air of familiar ity from her marketman, and she may, from the same source, get directions for cooking them. But unless she knows how they should look when- they come to her, how can she be sure that she has what she has ordered, or, that having it, it is the best of its kind ? The average marketman is honest but human, and so worldly wise that if ad vantage is to be taken of any of his patrons to work less desirable qualities of meat upon, it naturally will be the one who "doesn't know a good thing when she sees it." No risks will be run with the woman who knows what she is buying, and just the sort of appearance it should present. - . , Beaf The first thing that your marketman will tell you will be that good beef should be bright red when it is first cut, and this red flesh should be well marbled with yellowish fat, with, also, a thick layer of fat on the outside. If it does not present this appearance, you may be sure of one of three things : either the ox was not well fatted, was too young, or was not in good condition. In any case, you dp not want to buy such beef. ; It is dear at any price, and is unwhole some. You can see for yourself if these things exist, and can tell at once if the beef is good. Another point: the flesh should be firm to the touch, and no mark left when it is pressed with the finger. If it feels flabby pass it by. See to it, too, that the suet is dry and crumbles easily; that is another indication of good, wholesome meat. Tli Virion! Cot Understanding how to tell the quality of the meat, the next step is to study the anatomy of the ox, and firrd the loca tion of the various cuts. It is quite probable that, if you make an appoint ment with your marketman, and can be at the stall early enough in the day, you may see him or his assistant cut up a whole .beef, intb. parts for selling, and that will give you a clearer idea than seeing the cuts after the division. The first step is to divide it into the hind and fore-quarters. The hind quarter contains the most expensive cuts of the meat, although not by any means the most nutritive. The "choice" pieces are found here the tenderloin, the sir loin, the rump and the round. The cheapest portions of the hind-quarter are the flank and the shin. Tli 7or6-q.narteTa In the fore-quarter are the ribs, the shoulder, the shin, the rattleround and the brisket. The ribs are at the top of the back next to the loin, joining it in fact when the animal is whole. The best cut in this portion of the beef is the "crime" ribs, which comprises the first five ribs; these are used. "as a rule, for roasting, although now and then some one buys a rib steak. Next these are the five "chuck" ribs, used for the same purpose as the "prime" ribs, although the meat is not quite so BRINGING UP A FAMILY One Way of Solving the Problem of Educating and Training of the Little Ones I 'B ELOW is given a suggestion on i l- the problem of bringing up a JL family of three or more children under the age of ten years with out the help of a maid, and so systema j tizing the housework that the household wheels move smoothly. The schedule published refers to a home in a country village. Conditions of Life 1 Six in Family Father, mother, boy of seven, girl four, boy two and one-half, and girl one year. Location Country village of 4000 in habitants. House and Surroundings Set in large yard, with room for lawn and kitchen garden. Seven rooms, all on one floor with bath, two pantries, closet and two porches. ' Helper Woman comes eac' alternate Friday and sweeps the entire iiouse, the bric-a-brac being attended to by the housewife also the dusting. Corning Schedule 6:00 to 6:30 Arise, wash, dress, and prepare breakfast while husband helps children in their morning toilets. The two elder children can dress and wash themselves, but need help about tidying their hair. 6:30 to 7 -oo Breakfast. 7:00 to 7:30 Gather up dishes, brush up dining-room, curl girl's hair. The boy fills woodbox and the girl puts beds to air. 7:30 to 9:00 Sweep and dust rooms in front part of house, and make "p beds; tidy everything generally for 1 day. During this period the boy swWs the kitchen and sidewalks, and the girl sweeps the porches. q '.00 to 9:30 Wash and put away dishes with help of children. 9 :30 to 10 :oo Prepare vegetables and dessert for dinner, order supplies, at tend to morning mail. 10:00 to 11:50 Attend to special work. On Tuesdays this is ironing; Wednesdays, scrubbing, cleaning pan tries, bathtubs, etc; Thursdays, bakings; fine in grain or rich in quality. The neck is used for stews and for boiling. The side of the animal, running along under the ribs, is the rattleround. This is used for corning. The brisket is un der the side of the animal's body, and that, many people myself among the number consider the finest part for corning. The shoulder is used for steaks and coming, though the less said about the tenderness of shoulder steaks the better. The shin, both in front and back, is used for soup and soup stock. the marrow in the shinbone giving the richness so desirable. Hind-quarter Th& hinrl-niiartpr fnrnictipe flin finact roasts and steaks, as well as the juiciest meats for making beef tea, meat pies, CUTS FOR beef 1 la mode or potted beef. The sirloin gives the very, choicest roasts and steaks, and next comes -the rump, which is cut in three parts the back, the face and the middle cut. All are good roast ing pieces. The back is the most costly, the face the leas so, while the really most economical is the middle, as it is free from bone and has not a scrap of waste on it. In price, as in situation, it is between the back and the tace. The top of the round furnishes good steaks : indeed, the second cut on the top of a round makes the best-flavored steak, although it is not so tender as a sir loin. A "porterhouse" steak is the sir loin, tenderloin and flank cut in one slice, and is, undoubtedly, the king of steaks. The lower portion of the round is used for braising, potting and for beef tea. Sirloin and Tenderloin The tenderloin has the tenderest meat and is considered the most delicate cut, although it is not so juicy nor so well navored as other portions less tender, and it is not nearly so nutritious as parts that require the most cooking. 1 his and the sirloin cost more than any other cuts, but there is less nutritive value than is found in the cheaper parts. Indedd, the prices of meats seem to be in inverse ratio to their real food value, which is because of the much smaller proportion of the so-called choicer cuts. It is one of the wise economies of na ture that it should be so. The class of people who do the hardest labor, and particularly those whose occupation takes them much into the open air, need the nourishment and sustaining qualities of the heavier" meats. And these are found in the less expensive parts, in the meats which are rich in juices, with bones heavy with marrow. Stews and braised meats, and those steamed in their own juices, as pot-roasted meats. give the. most nourishment, add to the Fridays, sweeping, or cleaning windows, polishing stoves, etc ; Saturdays, baking, scrubbing and preparing for the Sab bath. On Sunday the routine work is made as light as possible, then prepara tion and attendance at church services, and dinner at 1 :30. On Monday, of course, the washing takes first place, and the general work left as much as possible until later. 11:50 to 12 :30 Prepare dinner, and tidy self and children for dinner. 12:30 to 1:15 Dinner. Afternoon Schedule 1 :i5 to 2:00 Wash dinner dishes and tidy kitchen. 2:00 to 5:30 If, as on Monday and" Tuesday, there is work left unfinished from the morning, finish this up. On other afternoons tidy self for sewing, entertaining, or going out. This time is when the children really get their les sons in right living, right thinking, good manners, etc., for it is in contact with others, with the resultant lessons, that these are most impressed upon the little minds. 5:30 to 6:00 Give the three smallest folks their supper of bread and milk, undress, wash and put them to bed. 6 :oo to 6 :o5 Draw a long breath, and read the evening paper. 6:05 to 6:30 Prepare light supper, the little boy helping at laying the table, etc. 6:30 to 7:00 Supper. 7:00 to 7:30 Wash dishes, lay the breakfast table, tidy kitchen, remove breakfast food which has been cooking (Scotch fashion) since starting supper, ready to be warmed over for breakfast, thus avoiding delay, and providing well cooked cereal. Prepare potatoes, etc., ready for quick cooking for breakfast, 7:30 to 10:00 Reading, or other re creation. The boy retires at 8:00. The children wear dark-colored cloth ing, except Sundays and special occa sions. Dark, sleeveless, starched per cale aprons protect their dress while making bubbles, mud pies, etc The sheets, knit union suits. Turkish towels, .rtr: il, - U- ' -r: -1 ""ai physical strength, and in cold weather supply a great deal of warmth by fur nishing the carbon for the body. Buying 'Wisely Not only must the successful house keeper know what to buy, but she must also know how to make the best use of what she buys. She must learn, also, to buy according to the needs of her family. If she's providing for persons who do a great deal of out-of-door work, she will want the heavier cuts of meat, the mora substantial vegetables. If the persons are indoors most of the time and whose work is sedentary, she will find it wiser to provide lighltr food. Whether it be light or heavy, however, it must be nourishing. An other important point to be learned is how to vary food to suit the seasons, and thus come as nearly as may be to un ideal diet through the entire year. There are many ways of cooking meats, but those which are in ordinary every-day use are roasting broiling, braising, boiling and frying, or saute ing, as it should be called. The method employed in cooking meats depends upon the cut which you have selected. The tender meats only can be roasted or ROASTS broiled, so as to be palatable, comfort ably eaten and well-diRested. Meats whose fibers are tough should be boiled or braised, when they will be found to be deliciously tender, and if carefully done, with all the juices preserved, or with a small percentage of loss. Probably the very simplest form of cooking meat is by boiling, so why not begin with that process? The piece of meat to be boiled should be well wiped with a clean, damp cloth indeed, that is the treatment to be given to all meats, no matter how they are to be cooked, to ensure their perfect cleanliness and free dom from harmful foreign substance. I wish you would take the trouble to re member this; it is one of the useful bits of knowledge that it is well to tuck away into the memory ready for use at any time. It might come under the head of "general principles." Boiling Heat After tlje meat has been wiped, put it at once into boiling water, which has been salted, and be sure the water covers it completely. It is important that the water should be boiling when the meat is put into it, because the intense heat sears the surface at once and prevents the juices from flowing out and wast ing; and when the meat is done it is moist and well-flavored, as meat should be, having lost little in the process of cooking. Let the meat boil for a few minutes after putting it in the water, then set it back on the stove or range and let it sinrtner gently until it is done. During the boiling a scum is thrown to the surface, and this should be care fully removed . until the water remains clear on the top; another thing, the kettle should be kept covered except when the cover is removed that the sur face of the water may be skimmed, be cause the steam is of great assistance in softening the fibers of the meat; be- dish towels, hose, etc., are folded smoothly as taken from line, and put away unironed. The children put polish on the windows, and on rainy days polish the silver. Mother completes the work. The greatest strength-saver in the kitchen is a rocker, where mother prepares the fruit and vegetables, and a hammock supplements this on specially strenuous days. Machine stitching, cutting and fitting are done at home, and the buttons and buttonholes are done while visiting with friends who come in the after noons, or while making neighborly calls. A trusty neighbor girl stays with the children for a stipulated sum per hour, while the mother goes out in the after noon or evening. Friends are entertained with the idea that it is our society rather than the re freshments which brings them, and the service is simple, though dainty. Thus entertaining is never a burden. In this way everyone helps, the work is sufficiently systematized to leave no extra hard days, and everyone is healthy, hearty and happy. Training Children The place to begin training children and especially so-called incorrigibles is with the parents. Let the parent train him or herself, and the little imi tators and reflectors will be all right so soon that everybody will suppose they were born so. The Would-be Civilizer of a Young Savage should try the affirmative treat ment on her boy. Never mention his faults to him if you can help it. When you must do so, be brief and speak as you would to an equal in age and good intentions. For instance, in the case of a pilfered storeroom where the thefts were denied, can you control your own fault of temper sufficiently to say, "Son, did you take thus and so from the store room?" And whatever the reply, accept it courteously (as you would be oblised to from your husband or brother), and add, "I just asked because I need to know. I wondered if you got all you wanted or needed at the table. I wish you to do so. Whatever there is in the house is for you as for the rest of us; but I'd rather not have it taken from the storeroom between meals." You may say that such mild measures sides that, the flavor is also more per fectly preserved. It would escape into the air- with the steam if it were not held by being cov ered. As you go on you will find that there is a good and perfectly logical reason for every direction which is given you, and that the more implicitly you obey the better success you will have, and it won't be "luck," either. It will be because you took care and obeyed rules. Braising- Heat As to the length of time that meat should boil, that depends wholly upon the weight. It will take about twenty minutes for the heat to penetrate through a piece of meat so that it will be ready to begin to cook, and so that time doesn't count in the cooking; but reckoning from the end of the twenty minutes, twelve or fifteen minutes should be allowed for each pound. If the meat is cut thick the longer time will be needed; but if the piece is thin and flat the shorter time will be found ,to be sufficient. Braising, which is another way of treating the tougher fibered meat, is cooking in the oven in a covered pan, smothering the meat in its own juices and having a good deal of herb season ing in the dish with the meat. Meat thus prepared is most delicious. Roasting meat is, properly, cooking it before the open fire, by subjecting it to a high degree of heat. That is the way great-grandmother cooked her roasts, and under the roasting meat was a b'g pan which caught the juices which made the gravy, and in that way got the name of "dripping-pan," a name which the roasting-pan has borne ever since. In these days of ranges and stoves of vari ous kinds, in which all sorts of fuel are used, from coal to electricity, we bake it in a heated oven and call it "roasted" just by courtesy. Broiling Broiling is cooking directly over hot coals, and is the quickest and hottest CUTS FOR way of cooking. The article to be cooked is subjected to such an intense heat in this process that it would quickly be burned to a crisp if the cook did not pay strict" attention to it and see that it was turned very often. Really 'well-broiled meat is almost as rare as a well-cooked potato. I have a notion, both from observation and ex perience, that the majority of persons who undertake to broil a beefsteak or a chop think they must do it literally. Those of you vwho are French scholars know, of course, that the word broil comes from the French word bruler, "to burn"; but it also means "to sear," and that is what should be done to the meat, the surface seared not burned, thus giving a scorched, unpleasant flavor to the meat so that the juices shall be kept inside the meat. The quick searing has the effect of sealing the surface, and thus holding the juices. Turning it frequently, so that the surface shall cook and not burn, and will have no effect; but your severer ones have not either, and this is worth trying. Now for the more positive por tion of the treatment: watch for your boy's virtues as vigilantly as you have been watching for his faults. Find some thing to commend in him each day, if it's nothing more than his excellent ap petite and good digestion. Give the young man to understand that you admire as Veil as love him. CWgggfa'.U s - x mil HI ! IIIMH nm IIHillL ' I'lJIJJLLuC HELPFUL HINTS ON ETIQUETTE Things One Should Do and Refrain From Doing M' RS. WRIGHT and Rosamond and Elsie Jay, a girl friend of Rosamond's, were chatting in intimate fashion one afternoon, when Mrs. Howe came in. "You see that I have taken you at your word, and have come to ask your opinion about certain things," said Mrs. Howe to her hostess, who came forward with a smile of welcome and greeted her visitor by a friendly pressure of the hand. The two young girls arose as the visitor entered ; Rosamond advanced to shake hands. Glancing from one guest to the other, Mrs. Wright intro duced Elsie by saying informally, "Miss Jay Mrs. Howe." Although Mrs. Howe was quite familiar with the rule that two women merely bow when introduced, she knew the exception to that rule, which is that when a person introduces two people, both intimate friends of hers, they are expected to shake hands. She offered her hand in cordial friendliness to the girl, and looking frankly in her eyes, said, "I have heard Mrs. Wright and Rosamond speak of you. I am so glad to have the opportunity of meeting you." "We were talking about introducing people when you came," Mrs. Wright explained. "And now," turning to Elsie, "you have had a practical illustration of what I have been explaining." "You mean," said Elsie, "that a girl Is introduced to a married woman, not the reverse, don't you?" "Yes; and that a married woman, or in this way keeping the juices flowing from side to side, but not escaping, is the way to ensure a successful broiling. Done carefully in this way, you needn't fear to offer a steak or chop to a most fastidious guest, provided that you have made a wise selection of meat, and that you serve it at once, on hot plates, from a hot platter. Do you want to try cooking a beef steak? Just as an experiment to see if you can carry out the directions? Broiling Beefsteak Well, then, in the first place wipe the slice with a clean, damp cloth. Now grease the bars of the gridiron very lightly with some of the fat, bits of which you have trimmed from the edge of the slice. Have the fire clear, and broil the rieau at once, not letting the gridiron out of your hands, and turning it every time you count ten. If you like your steak rare cook it about four minutes that is, if it is from three-quarters oi an inch to an inch in thickness ; out give :t a longer time say three minutes longer if you wish it well done. Serve at once on, a hot platter, seasoning with salt, butter" and a little pepper. If you want the dish to look very, attractive garnish the platter with sprigs of parsley or water-cress. You will understand if you are to serve steak for dinner that the vege tables must all be ready for the table before you begin the broiling, and the plates heating, so that your family may have their meat at its very best. If for breakfast, have the potatoes and muf fins ready. Instant sen-ice is one of the secrets of successful broiling. Pan Broiling There is another way of broiling that is called "pan broiling," which is em ployed where there are no coals, as in coolcing with a gas, gasoline or 'an oil stove, or by electricity. It is done on a griddle or in a frying-pan, which is heated hissing hot, the meat put on it, without any fat, cooked one minute, then turned to the other side, then cooked STEAKS until done, turning very often, so that the juices will be retained. When care fully done it has almost the flavor of steak or chops cooked over the coals, al though not quite equal to it. Now for the word about garnishing. There is nothing prettier for a garnish than the delicate irurled sprays of par sley, and this any housekeeper may have at her hand all the year round if she wants it enough to plant it and take care of it. She can get the seeds or the roots at any seed store, and with them the directions for planting and caring for the plants. They may be grown in the garden in the summer, and in the winter transplanted into pots or inside window-boxes and brought into the house. As a growing plant the parsley is ex tremely decorative, and one has it al ways at hand both for seasoning and garnishing. A long box of it growing in a window which has plenty of sun shine is a pretty sight, suggestive of Watch your own mental attitude and make sure that this is so. Commend every virtue you can spy in him. Don't be over-critical good traits that don't appeal to you much may be important to his welfare in life. A child is always more or less hypnotized by those over him in authority, and there is no such disastrous hypnotism as to hold before a boy the idea that he is bad and un loved. an older woman, may offer to shake hands with a girl who is introduced to her, but a girl must not make the ad vance." ..' ; "It is hard for a comparative new comer in a place to know what to do about manv things," Mrs. Howe re marked. Then she asked quickly, "When two or three people whom I know slightly are calling on me simul taneously, should I introduce them to each other?" "Yes; a hostess should do so. Natu rally, they would all be seated near her in a group together. The persons in troduced should bow to each other and should converse a little. Even if a hostess neglects to introduce those who are calling they should make a few re marks to each other and join in the general conversation. The acquaint anceship need not lead any further, un less it is desired by the persons them selves." "A hostess," said Mrs. Howe, 'needs plenty of tact and discretion. Suppose I should introduce those who do not want to know each other?" "One has to know general conditions before absolutely bringing people to gether; but even if enemies are intro duced they cannot let their hostess see the mistake. I know of a hostess who gave a dinner, introduced two people whose engagement had been broken off, and sent them in to dinner together 1" "Tragic;" exclaimed Rosamond. "Interesting romantic," cried Elsie. "No " said Mrs. Wright. "The occa SIMPLE AND ELABORATE METHODS OF COOKING MEAT SO AS TO PRESERVE THE FULL NUTRITIVE VALUE summer. If your kitchen has a window facing to the south utilize that for your parsley box; you've no idea how cheer ful it will make the room, and what is better for the room in which so much time is necessarily spent than cheerful ness? With the expenditure of a few cents in money and a few minutes of caretak ing every day, this is wholly possible. Boiling a Leg if Mutton Now we will boil a leg of mutton, as our next step in learning how to cook meats. You will wipe the meat, remove all the fat, and when the meat is thus-pre-pared put it into boiling, salted water. Take care not to have the water too salt, just palatably so. I will give you the reason for this care later, but be sure on this point. Of course you have weighed the leg, so as to know how long a time to give it for cooking. Allow twenty minutes for the heat to penetrate the meat, then skim off what ever may have arisen to the surface, set the kettle where the water will simmer gently, and cook in this way until the meat is done, allowing twelve minutes to each pound, counting the time from the hour at which you set the kettle back for the simmering process, and have fin ished the skimming. While, without doubt, the old saying, "hunger is the best sauce," remains true, good housekeepers do not on that ac count discard all others. Indeed, one of the lessons which the accomplished or ambitious cook learns is that sauces play a most important part in a success ful cuisine, and that the making of them is an art, the understanding of their proper uses a science. Caper Sauce One who prided -herself on her cor rectness of detail would never think of serving boiled mutton without caper sauce. And, as it is one of the simplest in the list of sauces, I am going to tell you just here how to make it, so that when you serve your boiled mutton you may have the accompanying sauce to give it the required zest. To a cupful of boiling water in which the mutton was cooked, add one tea spoonful of flour, moistened and made smooth with a little cold water, half a saltspoonful of salt, a speck of pepper and one teaspoonful of vinegar. Boil FORE AND HIND QUARTERS for five minutes, stirring constantly un til it is perfectly smooth, then add a tablespoonful of capers and serve. ZGG3 nr TOMATO CASES Salt the tomato cases after halving sion was unfortunate, but the two peo ple had to make the best of it. At the close of the affair the girl's distant bow indicated plainly to the man that there would never be a renewal of former conditions." It was evident that Mrs Howe was still thinking over her problems, and presently she said, "Should a hostess introduce young people to each other at a dance or other entertainment?" "It is her duty and privilege to in troduce them. She should see that shy people are introduced and that they all enjoy themselves." "About asking permission to intro duce anyone; when is that necessary?" inquired Elsie. "As a general rule, everywhere ex cept in one's own house," replied Mrs. Wright. "Of course, one may intro duce members of one's own family any where without formality." "About introducing men and girls do explain about that," urged Elsie. "A man is introduced to a girl or a woman, never the reverse. It is polite for a person who wishes to make a formal introduction to say, unobtru sively, 'May I introduce Mr. So-and-So?' This gives a woman an oppor tunity to decline if there is a good rea son for doing so, but this is very seldom done." "What formula should be used when introducing?" asked Elsie. , "When introducing formally you may say, 'Miss Brown, allow me to intro duce Mr. Gray.'" "It's a good plan, isn't it, to say something that will help along the con versation?" said Rosamond. "Yes, you may say, 'Mr. Gray has just come back from San Francisco,' or something of the sort." "If a girl is sitting down when a man is introduced, should she rise?" asked Elsie. "No; she should only bow.' "Should she shake hands?" ' "No; she should not." "Are there any exceptions to this rule?" asked Elsie. "Yes; in your own house you should rise and shake hands with every guest." Rosamond was going away for a visit and she and her mother were discussing a guest's duties. "Punctuality at meals is very im portant," said Mrs. Wright "Adapt evenly. Place a lining of browned cracker crumbs in them and drop an egg in each. Bake for five minutes, adding a bit of butter to each egg before baking. Hock Crab After freeing fish from skin and bones season with a pinch of black and red pep per and a quarter of a mustardspoonful of dry mustard. Add a slice' of bread broken into bits the crust must be trimmed off and a whole raw egg beaten light with a tablespoonful of warm water. Mix together well and put it in a buttered dish or in crab shells; cut a teaspoonful of butter into bits and put over the top. Set the dish in the oven to brown, which will take from ten to fifteen minutes. The Sweet Potato The sweet potato is drier and richer than the white potato, and contains ten per cent of sugar and sixteen per cent, of starch. In the North it is usually cooked and served like the Irish or white potato, but throughout the South where the sweet est and best varieties grow it is served escalloped, carameled, and in numerous, ways, to all of which the addition of sugar is considered desirable. Select smooth, plump potatoes, the medium sized, and cook without remov ing the skins, unless to be served diced anu creamea ; remove the ends and all dark spots, as the latter are apt to give a bitter taste to the vegetable. To boil, they generally require about thirty-five to forty-five minutes ; baking and steam ing require from fifty to sixty minutes. Sweet Potato and Almond CroqnettM Bake several medium-sized sweet po tatoes; when soft break apart, scrape out the pulp and pass through a squash strainer. To each cupful of pulp add half a teaspoonful of salt, two teaspoon ful s of butter, one beaten egg, four tablespoonfuls of blanched almonds, chopped and pounded in a mortar, ana sufficient hot cream to make of a con sistency to handle. Form into balls, roll in egg, cracker-crumbs and egg again, drop in hot lard and fry a golden brown. Glazed Sweet Potatoes Five sweet potatoes, one egg, half cupful of sugar, half teaspoonful of salt, one tablespoonful of butter. Pare and cut the potatoes in strips ; steam until nearly done. Remove from the fire and cool. Dip in egg beaten with the salt, then in the sugar, coating each strip thickly. Place in the pan with the butter and bake a rich brown. yourself quickly to the ways of the household, the hours for rising and go ing to bed Be ready when expected to go out for a walk or drive. Show pleasure in the amusements that are planned for you. Be interested in the friends who are Invited to meet you. Make yourself as agreeable as you can." "I know that it is a mistake for a guest to imagine that everything must be done for her amusement while she does nothing in return,' said Rosa mond. "Of course a guest should contribute to the general pleasure by any accom plishment she may have," continued Mrs. Wright "She may not have great talents, but she can always make her-, self agreeable by charming and oblig ing manners, by friendliness and cheer fulness. An important point in mak ing yourself acceptable is not to tire your hostess by being always with her. Try to occupy pr amuse yourself some times. Write letters, take a book and go to your room or to a shady nook on the veranda. Never be officious in of fering your services, but if you can really be of use do not hesitate. Think of the convenience or pleasure of your hostess before you think of your own. Be considerate of the belongings of your hostess. If you take a book from a shelf or table, put it back where yoa found it. Keep your own belongings in their flaces your hats, wraps, books, or fancy-work." "If asked to stay for a longer visit should I stay?" inquired Rosamond. "No ; it is a mistake to overstay your time and wear out your welcome." THE SOFT ANSWER THAT TXTSNET3 AWAY W2ATH Parents frequently complain to me of the rudeness and irritability of their children. ' This complaint reflects more on the parent than on the child. If parents and teachers had self-control enough always to speak courteously and softly to children in their charge, most of the irritability and rudeness found in the modern child: would be done away with. When I first began my work at a kindergartner in a large slum, kinder garten, among a rough class of children, 1 their manners were beyond description. A kick in the eye from a "dear 4ittle playmate, so happy and glad," was -regarded as quite an ordinary attention. 4